We are all clowns in other people's eyes.

There are flowers in spring, months in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter; If you don't mind your own business, this is a good time on earth.

This is a poem by the Zen master of Wumen in the Song Dynasty, which expresses the free mind that one yearns for, and at the same time combines the "freedom of view" conveyed by the Heart Sutra. Haruka, based on the folk tunes in the south of the Yangtze River, presents the magnificence of the world with more than 800 chorus members. Harmonious singing from far to near, fresh and bright after the rain, full of vitality.

Look down on everything and do whatever you want. I used to be like a hedgehog. I will definitely diss back what others say, but with the passage of time, in retrospect, what others say is hard to cause ripples. I really don't care ... there's no need to upset myself for a little thing. One minute of sadness makes you lose 60 seconds of happiness, and sometimes it is more interesting to think of yourself as a bystander.

Not arguing doesn't mean I acquiesce in compromise. Not arguing is actually disdaining to lower yourself. Because it is strong enough, those words themselves are vulnerable.

I have a dinner friend who usually improves herself by stepping on others (sometimes her words are too vulgar), but she never thought that she was like a clown in the eyes of others. I sometimes wonder if she has never reflected. Even if someone mentioned it, she still went her own way. Maybe she is pessimistic and casual, but she is a little lacking ... Maybe all of us are like clowns in the eyes of others. ...

But on second thought, if the people around you are as miserable as you say, don't you reflect that you are the same person from the side? After all, as the old saying goes, birds of a feather flock together.

Another person asked, since you said so, why do you want to continue playing with her? (⊙ O ⊙ O ⊙o⊙)… ... Why? Because we are friends who eat, nothing else, this relationship exists outside of friendship. Moreover, this kind of meeting is a good opportunity to collect materials. Why give up?

Finally, remind yourself, "Don't go near the ink, you can live freely, but you can't lose even the basic etiquette." After all, he is also a person who has received nine-year compulsory education. "