What are the precautions for the party?

First, cheerful, optimistic and open-minded.

The purpose of the party is to relax, so we should keep a relaxed and lively atmosphere, even if there are boring things in our hearts, we should forget them for the time being. It is the responsibility of every participant to keep a good atmosphere at the party. If there are other participants in the party you don't agree with, you should also follow the principle of "be safe when you come" and pay attention to the necessary etiquette. Don't make a fuss in public and embarrass the host and everyone.

Second, be fully prepared and speak carefully.

More serious academic gatherings, such as seminars and symposiums, should be prepared in advance, considered mature and carefully scrutinized. They should not be aimless, irrelevant, disorganized, too far away from the topic, and waste everyone's precious time. They should not be mystifying for grandstanding, making the results unreasonable, or making the contents of their speeches too out of line, and they should not be "self-centered" and correct.

Third, the language is concise and no arguments are allowed.

The speaking time should be strictly controlled, and once the topic comes out, it will not be closed, which will affect others' speech. When you put forward new ideas, you should start with modest words, "My humble opinion is …" My general idea is … "If others have different views and opinions in their speeches, you should be optimistic about" I don't agree with your views, but I will defend to the death your right to keep your own ". In particular, don't engage in unnecessary non-academic arguments and hurt the faces of both sides.

Fourth, listen more and talk less, watch more and discuss less.

Listening is bright at the same time, listening is dark at the same time, everything is varied, and you have the right to watch the play. Besides, being a faithful listener is also one of the interpersonal skills.

Fifth, new friends and old friends take the initiative to get to know each other

A party is the best social place. In a relaxed atmosphere, everyone is in a happy mood and has a low degree of defense against others. At this time, we should take the initiative to expand our communication scope and make more new friends. When talking with people, we should be sincere and open-minded, not only actively express our opinions and opinions, but also be good at learning and consulting others to broaden our horizons and increase our knowledge.

Six, civilized words and deeds, decent behavior.

Pay attention to civilization, moderate volume, tone and speed, and don't dance and spit. Behavior should be self-confident, Nuo Nuo is the only one, which does not meet the etiquette requirements. We should keep nature, leave a good impression on the participants and win everyone's trust.

Seven, respect for women, respect for the elderly

First of all, we must be civilized in language, and we are not allowed to talk nonsense and behave arrogantly in front of them. Don't say "dirty words" in front of women and elders, make boring jokes, and don't say disrespectful words such as "little girl", "beautiful sister", "old man" and "old lady". Don't be "yellow" in jokes and humor. You must get permission before smoking, and you are not allowed to contact or fight with women or the elderly. The boundary between kindness and debauchery, equality and seniority can never be ignored. Secondly, when you get along with them, you should be considerate, help and take care of them as much as possible. When walking, please give priority; When sitting, be respectful; When carrying things, you should do it for them; When arranging activities, we should first consider their situation.

Eight, considerate of the host

You should put yourself in the owner's shoes and help him as much as possible. At the very least, don't add chaos to the host's busy schedule, which should be done. Don't forget to greet the host at the beginning of the party. In the meantime, you can find an opportunity to ask the host, "What can I do?" . Those who arrive early should assume the responsibility of half the host, renew tea for the guests, hand out cigarettes, help the host deliver the goods, and let themselves be recognized by others as soon as possible. For some unhappiness within the party, such as inadequate preparation, shortage of goods, poor food and so on. Never make irresponsible remarks and tell the host what to do. At the end of the party, you should take the initiative to ask the host, "What can I do for you?" After the host refuses, you should take the initiative to say goodbye to him and thank him before you leave.