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Chasing girls special training class

Lesson 1 Absolute confidence

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing anything, and chasing girls is no exception. You need absolute self-confidence if you want to succeed in chasing girls. You must meet: "You must succeed, it won't happen again."

A person's faith. And you should adopt the method of "self-reliance", rely on your own strength to find the Pickupgirl, and try to avoid relying on friends and family. Friends and family may not be able to help.

Help yourself, too many people know that your partner is more likely to backfire, and girls don't like people who rely on their friends to chase girls. But to fulfill your wish, you must be confident first, even if you are not white.

Prince Horse ",but you can also dress yourself up as a prince. What matters is self-confident temperament and demeanor, which makes the other party irresistible. In short, it is: self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence.

Lesson 2 A man who confuses women

Most women do not like men who are too honest. How boring! In fact, the most popular men they have are good people, cheerful and lively, unable to refuse others or keep secrets.

Close, no opposite sex, easy to compromise, a little overconfident and a little honest.

Lover model

In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, you can say that you have the conditions to attract women, but the more the above points, the more favorable you will be in the pursuit process, and the smaller it is, the harder it is to rush out.

Breakthrough. But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will please any woman, because you can't have some rights at the same time as you have any advantages.

Party completely unacceptable or intolerable shortcomings, such as poor men. Generally speaking, eyes, voice and body language should be used to attract women. When we meet for the first time, we can naturally look at her ears.

In this neighborhood, when two people meet, and then their eyes turn to their ears, she will naturally have a deep impression on you. When she has the opportunity to speak, your voice will be slightly higher, brighter and louder than hers.

It will attract her to continue talking to you, and when listening to her, her eyes will shift to her lips, making her feel that you are listening to her attentively; As for the hand on the table, four fingers are side by side, which makes people feel.

Your neatness and beauty naturally have a good impression on you.

Lesson 3 Encounters

You should always remind yourself that the word eye margin is almost the most puzzling concept on the road of love, enough to make two people fall in love, fall in love quickly, and even walk into church. So, when you are at

In any place and occasion: buses, subways, streets, restaurants, banquets, workplaces, etc. Don't hesitate to meet the woman you've been waiting for a long time and you hit it off. The opportunity may never come back. guarantee

At present, the only thing that can grasp the beauty of the moment is to go forward and talk, so that she can know you, be impressed, have a good impression, have love, miss and so on. You have to start the first step anyway. but

Undoubtedly, this requires great courage and caution. Besides, if you make a mistake, you can keep your stomach in the future. Therefore, we must always study in our daily life.

You can deal with it when it's useful.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attracted or uncontrollable eyes and look back from time to time. (This trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, will think that he is irresistible, complacent and won't.

Never look back at you. )

2. A smile.

They will believe that their appearance must be pleasing and make others feel good, and then they may smile back. )

Ask her the time in the most natural way, but there must be no watch, but you can slow down or speed up first.

She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you. )

4. "hello! "Smile.

If you do it properly, your natural and unrestrained attitude will certainly attract her, but most importantly, she will be sure that you have been attracted to her. The purpose of the above is to reduce the number of times you meet strangers.

An ideal way to keep children alert. Because we don't know each other, if we are too glib in our speech and attitude, it may make the other side disgusted and thus self-defeating. In fact, any woman

Believe in fate and obey it, and they will believe that every man who appears in front of her eyes may be her future husband. So, as long as you use the right method, she is always ready to let go.

Embrace and accept whatever you accept. Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even only she can attract you. therefore

She will gradually release her psychological guard and smile at you. However, if the other party is introduced by a friend, or you know that it has something to do with the other party (such as school and work), then,

Falling in love is much easier. 5. "He [someone] said that you are a beautiful woman in XX College, so you must be busy pursuing different boys every day. "

Even if she is not a real beauty queen, after you say it, she must feel that her beauty has charmed many people, but most importantly, she must deny and explain. )

6. "Your work looks interesting. What are your daily duties? 」。

At this moment, she is absolutely embarrassed to refuse to answer, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and frank eyes and answer with your heart. )

7. "You must have spent a lot of time and thought on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child? 」

This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, both a compliment and a trace. )

8. "Go to the street and see your real self! 」

She will frown at once and ask you impatiently, "What are you talking about?" You might as well look at it the other way round, she will be unable to help smiling. ) of course, this kind of opening

It's no use being white, no matter how smart you are. Because intellectually speaking, women are never worse than men, but they are easily deceived by sweet words and cannot maintain high vigilance. but

Excessive rhetoric will only alert them and build a wall to guard against you. Therefore, the simplest and most direct opening remarks are often the most effective opening remarks, because they don't

I will think that someone will show her love or something without thinking at all, so the only conclusion is: "The other person must be the first brother, and he is really sincere. This person is not bad! " So, Shun

Naturally, she will open the door and welcome you to join her and come into her life!

Lesson 4 Creating Opportunities

If you want to pursue a girl, you should have an opening speech anyway. No matter what image and effect you use, the most important thing is that she responds. As long as she responds to you, everything will be fine.

It's much simpler. Basically, she won't think that you turn around and leave after starting the topic, so she will be furious and think that you are playing a trick on her, and it is too light.

Pick it. So, be sure to make a quick decision and create a dating opportunity for yourself. Even if she refuses you, at least she will leave a good impression on your politeness and courage. So, how should it be made?

What about the opportunity? It's difficult to generalize because of the different situations, venues, people and atmosphere, but there are always some principles to follow:

Make an appointment in the shortest possible time. In this way, she had no time to refuse, but acquiesced. ※. )

Choose some popular places. She will feel safe, so she might as well have a try. ※. )

Take her to a place she knows. She will not be at a loss, she will feel natural. ※. )

Talk it over with her, and then you can make a decision. Women like the respect of others and the tyranny of others. ※. )

Make proper arrangements for her, such as the way and time to go home. She will think you are a considerate, mature, considerate and gentle person. ※. ) She will readily agree to this arrangement.

I want to spend a romantic evening with someone like you. However, a woman is definitely an animal manipulated by emotions, even if you think you have completely mastered her mental state.

State, in fact, she may also be influenced by another kind of outside world, so we must always be careful and not careless when getting along with them.

Lesson 5 the first date

Meeting and talking can be said to be the most important step, because it is the beginning of everything, but there is no guarantee that there will be a second step and a third step in the future. So, after the first step, you still have to spend

Many thoughts must not be relaxed.

Of course, you should also distinguish whether you have the necessity and impulse to continue to associate with her. If you are just reluctant, don't be reluctant, so as not to bring too much trouble and pain to everyone in the future.

When you only have a preliminary understanding and find that she is worth continuing dating, then it is absolutely necessary for you to make a careful plan and consider each other's feelings and reactions.

Treat it sincerely, otherwise, it will not only hurt others, but also insult your personality, which is really meaningless.

So the first date must not be sloppy, otherwise there is no hope. Besides, if you can't devote yourself to that date, it is also a happy thing to pursue it.

So, tell yourself anyway that you must take dating seriously. Since she agreed to your date, she will definitely dress up and look forward to it. Therefore, you must not succeed.

She is disappointed and should take care of her psychological needs as much as possible. For example, tell her that you value her neatly dressed, meet her in a happy mood, and make enough preparations to spend the night with her.

Arrange to send her home after the show. After making a good impression, she will undoubtedly agree to your second date. In the meantime, if she really appreciates your arrangement all night.

Naturally, I hope you can keep dating her. At this time, you can privately figure out whether she is worth continuing dating. If it's absolutely worth it, please don't hesitate until the first date is over.

You must start, or you may miss all the opportunities. Because the more nervous you are, the happier she is.

Lesson 6 the second date

Why emphasize the second date? Because the first time we meet, it may be the first contact. We don't know each other at all, and we're not serious. They rely entirely on intuition and eye contact to judge whether each other is true or not.

You can keep dating.

And the first date means that I really want to know you, so we might as well give each other a chance to start over. So strictly speaking, the first single date is the first conscious fixed period.

Looking forward to dating each other and getting in touch for the first time.

However, the second single date is more important because it is a sincere confirmation of each other. The first date can be said to be pure temptation. If we don't feel right for each other, we can definitely do it.

Stop, don't go on. Of course, seeing more is not necessarily a pledge of eternal love, but there is a bigger difference-greater sincerity. No matter what the first date is like, you have to

Admit that as long as you date each other again, it means that the last date was unforgettable, and I hope to see each other again and get along well with her. Therefore, your attitude must be more sincere.

Meaning. At the very least, you should let her know that you are mentally prepared, that you and she will become a couple at any time, and that you have begun to regard her as a girlfriend-a girlfriend that you are fully interested in going further.

The people you're dating.

Lesson 7 Physical Contact

Maybe you and she have been dating alone many times, or maybe you regard each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, talking and laughing together, but you still feel that there is a gap between us. In fact, after we spent some time together.

She will allow some physical contact, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. You need to be careful, or all your previous efforts will be in vain. If you put your hand on her shoulder too hard

Exaggerated movements are bound to arouse disgust and think that you are too laissez-faire. Here are some correct methods for your reference:

Hand-when she allows you to drag her hand, you should drag it with a gesture that completely contains her hand, so that she will feel protected and warm. Never drag only one finger or just one finger. ※

What she does with her fingertips will make her feel disrespected and have a feeling of "contact with filth", which will resist your further actions in the future.

Wrist-this gesture is not worth advocating, because everyone who is caught by the wrist (or arm) will feel ordered and "escorted", even lovers, but there are some. ※

It is also useful when crossing the road in a hurry. It is worth noting that the grasping position is only below the elbow, and the strength should be gentle. Otherwise, she will really feel like a criminal caught by the police.

Shoulder-after the hand-dragging stage, it is obviously a "light hug" accompanied by the light hug of the fragrant shoulder. Of course, she gently holds her body with her hands, which makes her feel protected and secure. ※

Avoid hanging your whole arm on her shoulder, or the weight of your arm will make her feel burdened and despised.

Touching her back with the back of your hand can also make her feel loved, but when doing so, you must gently press the whole palm instead of pressing it with two fingers, or ※

It is swimming around. The former makes her feel uneasy about being "stuck behind", while the latter makes her feel cheated and you are frivolous. But remember, although body language is a way to communicate with each other.

Path, but there is also considerable oral communication. The relationship between two people can never be established only by physical contact, which means that feelings should never be based on sex. On the other hand, if you can

In the initial stage of spiritual communication, gradually cultivate each other's feelings, enhance each other's understanding, and clearly realize the disharmony between them. Physical contact can completely help emotional growth, otherwise, the two will follow suit.

Crazy love made a big mistake.

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1. Girls want others to praise her for her beauty. Everyone likes to hear compliments. Women are more prominent in this respect. They will get the pleasure of being recognized from people's praise. Understand; understand

Women's psychology, if you want to win the favor of the girl you love, you must always praise her for her beauty. For example, your girlfriend puts on makeup for you in front of the mirror for a long time, and she has to put on a new one every date.

Pretend, then you should not praise her sincerely when you see her?

2. Women like to give people small favors. There are subtle differences between men and women in giving and receiving gifts. A woman gives a man expensive gifts to show her willingness to trust her. first

Think of gifts as a symbol of respect or courtship. Therefore, women like to be given some small souvenirs and small gifts for her boyfriend. If her boyfriend doesn't take back the gift,

She will be disappointed. When a clever man accepts a girl's gift, he must not forget to give her a deep kiss.

3. Respect her and get to know her. Women like others to listen to her, and she hopes that her feelings, even if they are childish and unreasonable, can work for men. She wants others to respect her,

Know her. Women are easily hurt inside. Be sure to protect her, care for her and take care of her.

4. It suits her interest. Most women believe that a man who shares her views or interests and helps her achieve a certain goal will be a trustworthy person. Therefore, they are interested in such men.

People tend to feel close and give their hearts to them. Generally speaking, unreasonable men will make women unhappy. If a female colleague fails to meet the work quota, you will definitely not get her if you criticize her directly.

You should put yourself in her shoes as long as your work and group are not affected. At this time, her heart will tilt towards you inexplicably. Women are generally alert. If you

If you have the same goal as her, for example, you are both dissatisfied with a colleague's behavior, you will be easily accepted.

5. Pay attention to her tiny desires. Women always think men are forgetful. So, if she accidentally blurts out something she is interested in, you will always remember that when you ask her again one day.

She must be very moved to mention it. For a woman, if you can understand some of her tiny desires, she must think that you know her best and are the most reliable, so she is closer to you.

6. Trust her. It is true that women love men's masculinity. Strong and brave are the characteristics of men. But under the premise of being strong and brave, men also have feelings and tenderness.

When a woman falls in love with a man, she often falls in love with his fragile side. The deep-seated reason for this phenomenon may be that women are born with motherhood. A man can easily show it in front of his good woman.

Their own reasons, and it is so natural that women have sincere sympathy for such men. "Men don't flick when they have tears." Men don't cry until they are sad, and they don't cry until they really fall in love.

People don't confide in women. Women are easily conquered by such men.

7. Pay attention to the subtle changes in her clothes. For a woman, if someone discovers the subtle changes in her body, she will have a sense of satisfaction. Women like to pursue fashion and love beauty.

Nature. If your girlfriend changes her hairstyle or dress today, she will be happy if you compliment her. She feels that you have always kept her in your heart and looked at her. She feels very satisfied, but it is not.

There will be a sudden "gale" or sulking alone. Careful men will find subtle changes in women without her prompting at all. In this way, your feelings will be very harmonious.

Small means of chasing girls

1) chasing girls who are silent and arrogant.

At first glance, this seems to be tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like boys who are a little wild. If you are the kind of gentle boy with bad looks.

The possibility is relatively small, it is better to choose another beautiful woman. If people say, "That's cool!" Then you hope big! If your first invitation is not rejected, you must not.

Lose the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. Don't be discouraged at this time.

Be sure to persist, even if it is repeated. Watching movies, dancing, skating and going to her usual study room are all good strategies. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, more and more (of course

I will save you for the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, it is very attractive for you to show your true feelings.

This kind of girl usually has to chase for a long time. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start. So as not to waste ... hehe. But after catching up, she usually

Will be dead set, you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest BF in the world! Ha ha.

(2) Girls who pursue romantic fantasies

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! This kind of girl seems to pursue spirit more than material, but in fact it is just the opposite. Romance is necessary.

It needs money to build it. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates, you can touch her heartstrings most by giving more gifts.

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If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Besides the moon in the sky, there are other things on the ground (what? As long as she wants it, you should do it without hesitation.

Try to get it. Usually roses and snacks are more subtle ... in short, if you want to chase such girls, you must cultivate your mind-reading ability. Yes, the room next to the girl.

Friends, don't forget to pay more bribes.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you must think more about your dress, and don't be rustic all day. After catching up with girls, you can safely show your true colors.

Because in her eyes, you are no longer rustic. Haha)

If you want to play with her, you should also go to more romantic places, such as spring outing, dancing and watching love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl has cost you a lot.

Money, but it will also bring you a lot of good fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live happily.

(3) Chasing tender and considerate girls

This kind of girl is dedicated. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. To catch up with this kind of girl, theoretically, you will become

The most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be easy to chase (also suitable for all kinds of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a heartfelt concern to appear in front of her when she needs help. (at

This is a reminder: you must observe more at ordinary times and find a good opportunity to start. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays.

You can send something friendly at first, and when you think it can be expressed (for example, she looks at you differently from others or seems a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send it.

Ross! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in the chat after self-study on weekdays. When the time is right, you will suddenly say something like "It feels good to be with you". If she doesn't,

To avoid it, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid it, don't force her to do it again.

Care silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, you will have your eyes on her when she doesn't know you. You can pretend to meet her by chance through friends and then go through the same study room.

Let's have a few more "random encounters" to deepen our impression, and then we can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and safe to catch up with. In fact, it depends on the individual, and some people will not let her go in an extraordinary period.

If I can't fire you, I have to write and call often.

(4) Chasing lively and lovely girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. Moreover, in the new environment, boyfriends are often the first. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to take the initiative. Like it here.

That kind of girl, if she likes you, it will be easy. Get in touch with her more, occasionally show your affection for her, and she will be close to your goal at the same time.

If she doesn't like you (worse, she likes another person), don't lose heart. As long as you still have a chance, you should fight for it (of course, you are just so-so to her, so you don't have to). you can

And she first exists in the form of friendship, and strives to cultivate hobbies with the same interests as her. In the meantime, your humor and openness are very important, so that she can still think of you on her way back. If she likes it.

Some people are not interested in her, so you can take your time until she compares him to you.

At this time, you can take obvious strategies to make her really become your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing others' love, then they are.

Before we talk, we can make one last shot. At this time, opportunities are very important.

You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, take advantage of them (it doesn't seem very ... haha) and arrive first. Victory may well belong to you in the end! (Generally, girls chase after them.

There will be no other ideas in the future, haha) This kind of girl may be liked by some unsuspecting people after having BF, so you should tell "Please! She belongs to me! " The result should be optimistic.

(5) Chasing hysterical girls

The typical feature of this kind of girl is emotional exposure. She can cry whenever she wants, smile happily, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous. My old friend was surprised that this kind of girl was chased, but I heard that

Love is often blind. Oldfriend sees the emotional experience of friends around him and understands the meaning of this sentence better. Crazy girls are like wild horses, if you think you are not competent enough.

You don't have to think about chasing after it. Choose another one. If you feel good about yourself, you can have a try.

First of all, you should give her the impression that you are awesome (whether he is a T or an F, haha) and make her worship you. It's best to sum up your own strengths and design the time for the show before chasing.

Before she realized it, she began to worship you. After a good start, we can launch a full-scale attack. You don't have to be embarrassed at all, just go out with her a few times (ok

Choose a friend who is neither handsome nor stronger than you, show your style more, and her heart will slowly move closer to you.

Don't catch up with her at once, or you will come and go quickly. You should play hard to get and let her fall into the trap. Your task is to create as many opportunities as possible to contact and show your talents.

. Wait until she is completely convinced of you, and then make it clear slowly-oh, so you like her, too. Ha ha!

(6) Chasing girls older than themselves

The girl you like is older than yourself, which is a common problem in our school. And women are older than men, which is a fine tradition of lovers in our school. For beginners who have just entered love, there is no need to panic in this situation.

. Go ahead, too! But in the process of pursuing, we must pay attention to the following points:

Never act like a little boy. Even a truly mature woman wants to be spoiled rather than spoiled. When encountering difficulties or problems, you must take the lead, but don't.

Ask her to protect you. Your own subjective judgment is very important. Don't parrot in front of the girl you like.

B: "I am mentally older than you" should be your mantra when she has an idea. Make her feel that this is really more real than her biological age.