My friend has a low income and spends a lot of money, but he always complains about having no money. How can I convince her?

Everyone knows that it is easier to spend money than to make money. This is a truth. Many people have low incomes, but spend money lavishly. Friends around me are no exception. There are always some friends around us whose income is not high, but they spend a lot of money. After they always enjoy the pleasure of spending money, they always complain to us that they have no money to spend, and they will eat the soil again this month. They are also the legendary moonlight clan. Moonlight family, that is, they spend money when they get paid. At this time, the complaints of friends have become a big worry for us. How to correctly persuade him not to spend so much money is a problem faced by many people.

Understand his situation first, and then do persuasion. Maybe he is a spendthrift in our eyes, but this is my own reason and there is nothing to hide. At the same time, we should also respect the privacy of others, if the other party doesn't want to tell the possible reasons of the other party. If the other party is really short of money because of something, and what he does with money is right, we should give appropriate help. Maybe it's a small matter for us to help, but it's a big deal for him. One of our hands-on help may help him solve his troubles. But when we help, we should also consider whether we have the ability to help him. Don't try to help others if you don't have this ability yourself. That will only make your situation awkward and difficult to end.

But if he really spends money lavishly, we should discourage him. Tell him not to spend money so lavishly. Although you spend your own money, you should learn to allocate your own money reasonably. At some important moments, maybe your reasonable distribution of money will help you. A person should know how to allocate his life and plan his future.

Maybe it's not that important to many people. But as long as you do it, you will understand how much benefit you will bring and how much help you will bring.