Zhang Cao is actually a strange in-law born by a relative who robbed a relative.

Analysis on the psychology of marriage during the Three Kingdoms period

AD 200 was a very lively year, and history arranged for many wonderful stories to be staged intensively in this year.

The most lively one is of course the Battle of Guandu. This joke happened in October, when Yuan Shao's boss became the second boss, and Cao Cao's second boss became the boss; the funniest thing was in April, Guan Yunchang, who temporarily worked under Cao Cao, staged a thrilling action blockbuster and killed Yuan Shao's famous general Yan Liang; the worst joke is that in Jiangdong, the handsome boy Sun Ce was killed by three assassins while hunting and left Da Qiao Meimei prematurely.

So, which section is the happiest? Of course, the third general Zhang Fei found a girlfriend and achieved a lifelong event. Zhang Fei's bride is Miss Xia Hou, the loli-level niece of Xia from the enemy camp, and Cao Cao's cousin.

Historical books record Zhang Fei’s romantic history. According to the data from the record document Wei Lue, the arrangement is as follows:

Time:

The fifth year of Jian'an, 200 AD, but the month is not occupied. Calculating, it was in the first month of that year that Cao Cao attacked Xuzhou and drove away brothers Liu Guan and Zhang. So, the story should take place after Zhang Fei and his second brother separated.

Location:

According to historical records, Miss Xiahou came out to collect firewood near her hometown. Miss Xiahou is a fellow villager of Cao Cao, a girl from Anhui. The records also say that Zhang Fei often haunts this area. Where did Zhang Fei enter Miss Xiahou's hometown? For accurate satellite positioning, Xiapi under Xuzhou is adjacent to Guo Peiqiao County. Don't forget, both Liu Bei and Guan Yu were stationed in Xiapi. After Liu was dispersed in Xuzhou, Guan Yu temporarily fell into Cao Cao's hands. Whether Zhang Fei went to Yuan Shao with Liu Bei or acted alone is completely unknown in the history books. It is said that Zhang Fei entered Mangdang Mountain. There is no evidence for this, but according to the records of Zhang Fei's presence in Qiao County, he should have been separated from Liu Guan, fled alone with his troops, and entered Xiahou's hometown from Xiapi. I say this in a roundabout way to prove that the area where Zhang Fei hangs out and the area where Miss Xiahou hangs out intersect, and then they can meet.

Reason:

Zhang Fei's troops lost contact with his brother's troops and hurriedly withdrew from the jurisdiction of the Xuzhou governor to Guo Peiqiao County, the jurisdiction of the Yuzhou governor. God is good, Miss Xiahou went out to collect firewood and unexpectedly met Zhang Fei.

Original record:

In the fifth year of Jian'an, and the thirteenth year of being Ba Congmei, he was engaged in firewood harvesting in this county and was acquired by Zhang Fei. He knew his good wife and took her to be his wife.

Psychological Analysis

I am Zhang Fei,——, I want to find a famous girl to build my own brand.

Zhang Fei married girl Xiahou not only for emotional reasons, but also for family reasons.

Zhang Fei is an excellent general, but he has not acted rashly since he was born. The romance says that he is a butcher and has a peach blossom garden at home. This is just a legend. Historically, Zhang Fei was not a butcher. But what is certain is that Zhang Fei is by no means a kid from a rich family.

The Eastern Han Dynasty was a political alliance of wealthy and powerful families, and officials were often selected based on their family background. Although he couldn't help it, he chose his own path. Zhang Fei started a business with his elder brother Liu Bei just for change. But how do you change your birth? Find a good match!

Although Miss Xiahou is a firewood collector, her background is really glittering. If Cao Cao was really born in Xiahou's family, then she would be Cao Cao's cousin. Putting this aside, her uncle Xia was a general under Cao Cao, and his official position at that time was a captain of the warlord. Her uncle Xiahou_, a famous Cyclops general, had obtained the position of prefect. Hou's family is a member of the family, and this family is high enough. Zhang Fei picked up such a hot cake in the mountains and forests just to seize the daily limit stocks. How could he lose a good opportunity to change his family's status?

In that era, the so-called family, or rich people, did not mean money. What matters is quality. If you are moral, knowledgeable, and knowledgeable, even if you are too poor to eat, people will recognize you as a rich person and they will respect your quality. So, Yuan Shu was defeated. Although he had no power or use value, Sun Ce still gave the daughter of Yuan Shu, who was at the end of his life, to Sun Quan. Yuan Shu's granddaughter was La

There is another question. For a girl with such a high background, the Xiahou family is on a downward trajectory. Why are you out collecting firewood? Let’s start with the story of Miss Xiahou.

Miss Xiahou was born with a lofty destiny, and she struggled to find a hero she could rely on.

Miss Xiahou was born into a noble family, but her fate was very bitter. She is an orphan.

When she was a child, Yuzhou was in chaos and food was scarce. She might starve to death. Thanks to her uncle Xia's boundless kindness, she would rather starve her youngest son to death than raise her with a mouthful of porridge and a mouthful of soup. Miss Xiahou was snatched away from death by her uncle, so she has been dependent on mature men since she was a child.

Before the end of 200 AD, it was the most difficult time for Cao Cao's group and they were engaged in an arduous military struggle with Yuan Shao. It's hard to say who will win or lose. Many of Cao Cao's subordinates were secretly writing application letters to Yuan Shao's boss. Brother Xiahou and Brother Cao were away at war, and it would be difficult for the family to take care of them. The family was also in a bit of trouble for the time being, so Miss Xiahou went out to collect firewood.

Seeing such a graceful hero with such a good voice, when Zhang Fei shouted back to his uncle at Dangyang Bridge, the beauty was also sad to be a hero!

Bagua position

Zhang Fei is a relative of Cai Wenji.

Zhang Fei and Cai Wenji are related. You don't believe me? Let me tell you something!

Xiahou Ba’s cousin is Zhang Fei’s wife, and Xiahou Ba’s daughter married Yang Hu. He is the famous Yang Hu in the Three Kingdoms. He once faced Wu Dong's famous general Lu Kang across the river, and staged a good story of friendship between enemy countries. This is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that Yang Hu's mother is Cai Wenji's sister, and Yang Hu calls Cai Wenji her period. Cai Wenji's nephew is the husband of Zhang Fei's wife's cousin. Do you think Zhang Fei and Cai Wenji can find relatives?

Draw Zhang Fei’s beautiful and strong character

Zhang Fei was strong-willed and had a bad temper when he was a child. His father hired several teachers for him, and they were all angry with him. Later, Zhang Fei's uncle specially recommended an old teacher named Wang Yangnian to teach him.

Mr. Wang served as a general in the imperial court and was both civil and military. In view of government corruption, he abandoned his official position and returned to his hometown to make a living by teaching. Zhang Fei admired his teacher very much. He practiced martial arts under his guidance. At the age of thirteen, he developed good martial arts skills. At the same time, he learned a lot of truth through reading, became more and more dissatisfied with the world, and determined to destroy the world and save the people.

Mr. Wang was worried that Zhang Fei would get into trouble, so he came up with a way: teach Zhang Fei to practice calligraphy and draw beauties to help melt his strong character. In the past three years, Zhang Fei's calligraphy and painting have indeed made great progress, especially his unique calligraphy, which has received great praise from fellow villagers.