How do you feel after watching Good Will Hunting?

The film Good Will Hunting is an American feature film that describes a successful example of psychological counseling. Through Sean, an excellent psychology professor, the film successfully helps Will, a rebellious young man with mathematical talent and psychological problems, eliminate his long-term psychological crux, help him start a beautiful new life and show the beauty of human nature.

1. In the film, Will and Professor Sean had eight talks.

(A) tit for tat

Sean met for the first time after agreeing to treat Will. Like the previous five treatments, during the meeting, Will kept attacking Sean and criticizing Sean's office decoration and the number of books, but Sean laughed it off and kept tolerating the young man in front of him. Until, Will judged his life by observing one of Sean's paintings and said to Sean, "First, you are in a storm, and second, you married the wrong woman." At this point, the angered Sean did not hide his anger like other psychologists, but had a direct conflict with Will. At the same time, it also shocked Will, and he had the next treatment.

(2) After the second meeting, Sean took Will to the lake, in a very comfortable environment. Sean tried to let Will know and trust himself in a gentle way by telling his love with his wife, his wife's cancer and the experience of losing his best friend, so as to establish a relationship of mutual trust between them. Sean told Will with personal experience that his life has just begun, and he has experienced too few things, never met true love, and never experienced true love. Tell Will: "It's up to you to decide whether to cure or not", leaving Will the right to think and choose for himself. After Sean left, Will also lost in thought and began to think about how to face the psychological counseling given by Sean.

(3) "in a daze"

When we met for the third time, there was not a single conversation. Both of them are quietly looking at each other, waiting for each other to say the first sentence. Will and Sean ended the meeting in a deadlock. Sean also told the professor at the end: "I can't speak first." Because they are like two quarrelling children, neither of them can blink first. He wants to give Will enough time to have a psychological struggle and wait for him to confide in his heart.

(d) the beginning of the heart.

After the fourth meeting, the two sides were silent for a long time, until Will couldn't help it and started psychological counseling with a joke as the opening remarks. When Will talked about dating a girl, he said that he was afraid to continue because he was afraid it would ruin the imperfection. Sean said, you don't want to destroy it either, because you think you are perfect. Sean knew that Will was running away. He knew that he always knew what he was going to do. Then Sean told Will with his wife's little story that everyone was not perfect, but that didn't prevent others from loving you. You should dare to try and open your heart to accept. This conversation also opened Will's heart. After the conversation, he began to realize that he should dare to try something he likes and actively strive for it instead of avoiding it blindly.

(5) enthusiastic guidance

When we met for the fifth time, Will also started the topic, talking about the meeting between Sean and his wife. Sean talked about his true temperament in the game, his wife's dedication and gratitude for meeting her. Not only touched Will with sincerity, but also touched Will's heart. Will was puzzled that Sean gave up such a wonderful game for a chance encounter, but Sean told him, "I won't regret it all my life because I didn't talk to her that year." I don't regret 18 marrying Nancy. I don't regret giving up counseling for her illness. I don't regret making her seriously ill in the last few years, nor will I regret missing the game. Sean's words shocked Will again, and made Will start thinking about whether he should believe in love and realize its greatness.

(6) hit the soul directly

With the deepening of trust, Will began to reveal that he had no intimate friends and could not find a matching soul mate. Sean is guiding Will to face up to his heart, what he really needs and what his life ideal is. After several times of guidance, Will said "shepherd" and said that he wanted to be a shepherd, which caused Sean's disappointment and had a fierce quarrel with Will. And ask Will "what do you really want to do", tell him "you don't know" to directly impact Will's heart, thus telling Will to face his heart and pursue what he really wants.

(7) Starting from the "heart"

Just when Professor Lin Bao thought Sean had driven Will away, Will was encouraged by his friends and returned to Sean's office. Only to see Sean reading his file, which contains his abuse and various misdeeds, but Sean told him again and again, "It's not your fault", "It's not your fault", "It's not your fault …" Until the tenth time, Will's defense was finally "broken", and he hugged Sean and burst into tears.

This meeting really found the crux of Will and helped Will face the problem directly. Will can start from this, start again, or start from the "heart".

(8) It is the end and the beginning.

Last meeting was brief and to the point. Introducing each other's recent situation, Will found a job he really wanted, and Sean felt that he would travel and get out of the pain of his wife's death.