How to make a good opening remarks when dating?

"Hey, what's your favorite flavor of pizza?" This may not sound like a pickup line on a blind date, but the latest research in Britain shows that an opening line like this will win you a chance to date someone you like. According to Sky News, richard wiseman, a British psychology professor, conducted a large-scale survey on "love speed dating" (a new way of dating men and women in modern cities). The results show that if you want to meet the person you like successfully in blind date, you should start with humorous or strange questions, and it doesn't matter whether your personal appearance is attractive or not. He said: "People who can start a dialogue with humor or strange questions can successfully meet people they like. They may not be the most attractive people on the scene, but it's hard not to smile when you answer their questions. " The survey found that in this large-scale blind date, men only have half a minute to impress women, because 45% of women decide whether to date this man within 30 seconds. Women have more time to impress men, because men usually spend a minute and a half to judge whether they are interested in dating this woman. Professor Wiseman pointed out: "Men are always complained that they are too hasty and judge women too quickly, but the research results confirm that women spend less time on dating than men. This means that men have only half a minute to attract women, so their opening remarks are crucial. " Remember the secret of successful blind date: 1. Don't brag or flatter Professor Wiseman also found that those words that sounded boastful or flattering were very unsuccessful opening remarks, such as "I have a doctorate in computer science", "My favorite place in the world is where you exist" and "Do you have a motorcycle?" Wait a minute. 2. Guide the other party to talk Wiseman pointed out that when chatting with the other party, don't talk about yourself, but guide the other party to talk more about their own situation in a relaxed and unique way. Besides, never brag about yourself, especially your friends. The survey shows that words like "My friend is a helicopter pilot" in the chat will eventually lead to failure. 3. Talk about some comfortable topics, and also talk about some opinions that you agree with or topics that you feel comfortable with. The survey results show that men and women who talk about travel are more likely to continue dating than those who talk about movies, because men and women usually have different views on the topic of movies. 4. Avoid talking nervously. In addition, avoid asking the other person to answer "yes" or "no" in the conversation, because this may cause tension in the conversation. When a man asks a woman such a funny question as "Do you have a motorcycle", he usually gets the impression of zero. 5. Don't dress up. Professor Wiseman said that people's decision whether to date someone has little to do with the person's appearance, because people often decide whether to date each other according to whether they get along with each other, and a good opening statement is a good start. Wiseman also pointed out that when attending a blind date, don't deliberately dress yourself up, so as not to let others know that you want to get rid of the urgency of being single. The most appropriate dress should be "ordinary dress".