Yeah, I just want to be beautiful.

When I bid farewell to the old year and welcome the new year, I drew myself a big cake, which is equivalent to a small goal of Wang Jianlin. After listening to my words, everyone will definitely say: You really want to be beautiful!

Sorry, even at the risk of being laughed at.

I still want to say: yes, I just want to be beautiful!

Why don't you tell a story first

He is the only prince in a country. At birth, his mother pierced his foot and ordered the shepherd to throw him into the barren mountain. The kind shepherd couldn't bear it, and secretly transferred him to another shepherd. Another shepherd transferred him to the king who had no son in his own country as his adopted son. He grew up smoothly under the care of his adoptive parents, the king and the queen, and he resolutely left his adoptive parents' country. At a fork in the road, he had an argument with others and killed several people in a rage. He went to another country. Clever, he cracked a myth that the devil killed and saved people from fire and water. He was acclaimed as the new king, married the original queen and had children with her.

He killed his own father and married his own mother.

His tragedy originated from the Oracle that killed his father and married his mother. His mother wanted to kill him, and he wanted to leave his adoptive parents' country to avoid the realization of the Oracle, but the more he wanted to avoid it, the more it led to the realization of the Oracle.

He is the king of Oedipus in ancient Greek mythology.

Ah! This story is not good. Change it.

He is also a king and is good at sculpture. He looked down on all the women in the world, so he carved a beautiful woman out of ivory. He fell in love with her deeply, named her, dressed her, hugged her and kissed her. How much he wants her to be his wife, but she is just a statue. ?

He went to the temple to ask the goddess for help. The goddess was moved by her sincerity and decided to help him.

When he got home, he stared at the statue. Under his gaze, the statue was changing, with color on its face, light in its eyes and a smile on its lips ... slowly, the statue became a vivid and real woman.

She became his wife.

He is the pygmalion king in ancient Greek mythology.

The shock of a dog's blood and a beautiful and warm story reveal the same phenomenon: self-realization of prophecy.

? Fairy tales are lies. Can you still believe in myths?

Myth is not credible, but the phenomenon revealed by myth is credible. Prophecy can indeed be self-fulfilling.

Why can the prophecy come true?

The realization of prophecy is not a mysterious force at work, but as an expectation of the future, prophecy will act on people's psychology and trigger some actions, thus promoting the realization of prophecy.

Robert king merton, an American sociologist, put forward the theory of self-fulfilling prophecy in his Social Theory and Social Structure, arguing that when a wrong prophecy is declared correct, it will affect people's judgment, or people's behavior will make the original wrong prophecy "correct" out of fear and ignorance of truth.

King Oedipus's mother and himself firmly believed that the Oracle was correct, and they took various measures to avoid the realization of the Oracle, but it just promoted the realization of the Oracle. If Oedipus' mother and himself don't believe the Oracle and don't take measures, then the Oracle won't come true. Rosenthal, an American psychologist, once verified the self-realization of prophecy through experiments in a primary school. He randomly listed a list of students, indicating that the students on the list of school principals and related teachers are "the most promising". A few months later, Rosenthal tested all the students and found that the students on the list had made great progress. They were cheerful, lively, optimistic, confident, active and curious.

The unusual progress of the students on the list benefited from Rosenthal's good "authoritative lies". It is lies that make teachers have better expectations for the students on the list, and teachers' expectations are passed on to students through their own emotions and words and deeds. Therefore, students' confidence has doubled, their actions have become more conscious and their progress has been remarkable.

? Both Yu and Ma Yun are awesome people and have many similarities. Both of them studied foreign languages and passed the college entrance examination for three years. In the third year, both of them were admitted. Whether it's the university experience or the fact that they reached the peak of their career today, Ma Yun has won more than one domain.

Yu believes that their differences are not because of their different abilities, but because of their different expectations. Take college experience as an example. During college, I did nothing but study, not because he didn't want to do it, but because he thought what he did was a failure and he lost face. It was the expectation of failure that made him do nothing but regret.

Ma Yun was only admitted to Hangzhou Normal University, which is far less than Peking University, and his external image is not as good as Yu. However, his good expectations made him realize the goals he set in the university as soon as he entered the university: from junior college to undergraduate, to become the president of the student union of the school, and to talk about a love affair with the beautiful women in the school.

You will get what you expect. You will be what you want to be. "All one's wishes come true" is not just a simple blessing, but has a reasonable psychological basis: if you think beautifully, you will get beauty.

Are you harmonious, dedicated, patriotic, prosperous and friendly?

I have everything. It is in my cake. Why don't you draw one?

Oh, wait. Please accept my blessing first!

20 17, the chicken is auspicious! Everything comes true!