The number of rural bachelors is increasing year by year, while there are more and more older women left in first-tier cities. What should we do?

Rural bachelors are getting more and more year by year, because they are poor, no one values them; Most city leftover women don't want to get married! Brainwashed by foreign independent thoughts, women now feel that their status is low, and women are too hard and difficult. If you can support yourself, why bother The chances of getting married are too low! Just look at the divorce rate in major cities, even if you get married, you will rarely be happy! So many people in the city are more adapted to single life.

Many rural bachelors are because:

In rural areas, many girls are in cities, some go to school, some go to work, and some work. There are very few beautiful girls staying in the countryside, so there is a situation of "demand exceeds supply". It is precisely because it is difficult for rural boys to find a partner that some objectively force many unmarried boys to squeeze into cities even if their wages are not high, otherwise they will be "alone".

Why many elderly women stay in cities;

The reason why there are leftover women, in most cases, is not that there are no men, but that the conditions demanded by girls themselves are too harsh and some of their own conditions are not so good. Boys are also required to have a building and a car, and they are handsome and pleasing to the eye. Some also require a certain family background, but also require men to be enterprising, but also to have the same hobbies and interests, academic qualifications are also required ...

Their views on marriage have been completely materialized. Therefore, the leftover women are not unwanted, but the girls didn't choose someone who satisfied them. They "eliminated" themselves ... They wanted to "get rid of singles", which is actually very simple. Just lower the harsh mate selection conditions, but they are unwilling to make do. Therefore, the older you get, the more you fall behind.

Rural bachelors and older women in first-tier cities are two concepts.

It is not that marrying a rural bachelor can solve the problem of difficult marriage, but these are two unrelated things. It is impossible for an old doctor to marry a mason. It's a joke to say on the Internet that a doctor's daughter is dating a migrant worker. This is an eventful autumn. To solve the problem that rural bachelors are difficult to marry, we must change ourselves, change our living environment and change the reality of being single.

Boys born in rural areas, whose origins are difficult to change, can only struggle on their own. A man born in the countryside has no house, no car and no foundation in the city. If he wants to find a wife, he must buy a house and a car in the city and save enough money for the bride price before he can marry a wife. The reality is, as the song goes, "it is rare to have money and love, and some are Bora silver, which makes a good love restless." Only when you have money and affection can you keep your sweetheart. Without money and affection, you can't buy tickets for the boat of love, and you can't get on the cabin of your lover. Marriage is zero.

Many older leftover women, originally from rural areas, studied hard to get into universities, passed the postgraduate entrance examination in best age for marriage, and finally became living leftover women. They have strong working ability, high salary, high income, and can afford a garage and a girder. Most people can't get into their eyes. Men of the same age around me are excellent, and they have long been targeted by little girls and got married early. Therefore, it is difficult for outstanding girls to find outstanding boys of the same age, thus becoming older women and difficult to marry.

What should I do?

Although there are more and more older leftover women in first-tier cities, their mate selection criteria are by no means rural leftover men, or even excellent ones. This is another new difference between urban and rural areas in recent years. Anyone who wants to change it is just dreaming.

This problem immediately appeared, how to solve it, unless it is "difficult to match." "Hard match" can only be a joke. Telephone can be tied, but people can never be tied. "