Celebrity examples of empathy

Three disciples of Plato, the ancient Greek philosophy teacher, once asked the teacher how to find the ideal partner. Socrates did not answer directly, but took his disciples to a wheat field and asked them to pick the biggest ears of wheat when they marched in the wheat field. They can't go back, they can only choose one.

One of the two apprentices picked what he thought was the biggest ear of wheat just after a few steps, and found that there were bigger ones behind; The second disciple kept looking around, picking things up from east to west, and finally found that the biggest ear of wheat in front had missed it.

The third disciple learned the contents of the first two lessons. When he walked 1/3, he divided the wheat ears into three types: large, medium and small, and then walked 1/3 to verify whether it was correct. Finally, when he walked 1/3, he chose a beautiful ear of wheat belonging to a large category.

There are too many conclusions and comments about this theory. In fact, from the theory of wheat ears, we should learn to think and put ourselves in the other's shoes. When we hold the ear of wheat in the wheat field to find the next bigger ear of wheat, aren't we also the ear of wheat nailed in our hands? We are also holding someone's hand, standing on the wheat field, looking around, those eyes looking for happiness, lost in a golden yellow, for fear of losing the biggest ear of wheat, and finally, only hastily picked it.