Chatting skills with long-distance boyfriend

How to chat with a long-distance boyfriend to maintain feelings 1. According to Robert Steinberg's love three-factor theory, intimacy is an important part of love. It can be said that long-term good feelings between lovers and couples are maintained by intimate relationships. In the same city, two people can be in the same space, have dinner, have skin contact, or blend into each other's circle of friends and attend various parties. These all help to increase intimacy. In the case of long-distance love, these advantages are not available, so something needs to be done deliberately to enhance intimacy. Specifically: lock the daily communication mode. I suggest you: video communication for half an hour every day, you can talk about your day's life, gossip about people and things around you, talk about troubles at work and so on. Second, find a topic with him. He likes playing games. Before he met me, he loved to play fantasy westward journey. He fell in love with the glory of the king after he met me. I also downloaded a the glory of the king from my mobile phone. Although I don't understand this game, our company has a good relationship with me. He can also play the glory of the king. If I don't understand, I'll ask him. I prefer to play the position of a mage. Later, when chatting with my boyfriend, I often talked about the glory of the king, and I had a sense of topic with him. When I joke, sometimes I even use heroic lines. Or the irony in the game, of course, there is a more important thing is to monitor him. How long does he play games? How many hours does he play a day? This is my biggest concern. I firmly control his game time, so that he is no longer addicted to games. I called him and harassed him. Anyway, I made up various reasons for him not to play games, which is my purpose. He has never been addicted to games. Now he is a small manager, and I should be responsible for it. Chatting with long-distance boyfriends II. Tell some jokes and learn to be 1 humorous. Maybe you're already on the agenda. It is not easy to tell jokes and fairy tales in daily life, but you still keep sending funny jokes to your beloved girl. After a long time, you will find that you can tell some jokes. I think I usually chat with many women, and they often mention that they like their boyfriends to send jokes to themselves. Read more books and learn more classic' chat conversations'. During the whole chat, apply some love skills (see my work experience) to make her feel that you are also 1 interesting. Praise each other more, so that each other is undoubtedly full of honor. Everyone likes to be praised by others without doubt and become his loyal fan. Shaping common interests is separate from each other, but there are still many things to do, which will make our communication more and more diversified. You can find our common topic or his hobbies. For example, your boyfriend likes playing online games, which means a breakthrough. It is very important to chat closely around online games and turn his hobby into your own. Try to make trivial things more and more interesting. "What did you eat" and "What did you do" are basically common topics that every two long-distance lovers can't escape. After two or three months, I still care about love. After a long time, I really entertain myself. "Plain is true" is all self-comforting nonsense-boredom is not true, but plain is really boring. There is nothing interesting to follow, so why not broaden your mind and find new good ideas from it?