Memoirs of Wife Ying —— The story of pharmacist Buddha and prospective Buddha mother

Note: I am called the story of the pharmacist Buddha and the prospective Buddha mother because I was born on September 29th of the lunar calendar, and the next day is the Christmas of the pharmacist Buddha Liu, while you were born on March 16th of the lunar calendar, which is the same day as the Christmas of the prospective Buddha mother and bodhisattva.

Your story began in the year of my college entrance examination, that is, the summer of 1995. I was 20 years old and met you. Now my wife, an inexperienced girl, is very simple. That summer, I took the college entrance examination again. That summer, after the college entrance examination, you came to my house with your classmates for the first time. At that time, you left an unforgettable impression on me: a thin little skirt and a pair of sandals, which can make a tinkling sound and make people unforgettable. Later, I didn't know who you were. You are my classmate's hometown and work in the armed salesroom in the county. Others may think you are ordinary at first sight, but when I talk to you, I will feel that you have an indescribable simplicity, a simplicity that is rare in today's society, and it is not ordinary simplicity, but extremely rare simplicity, as if you have never experienced any social pollution.

I remember that year, I was fearless and inexplicably ignorant. I said I liked the word to a girl for the first time in my life. It was also on February 14 of that year that I sent you a morning gift, a beautiful card with a little girl and a little boy printed on it, and a curved moon. I wrote on the card. Although the matter is small, it is loaded with the beginning of fate from this moment.

Before meeting someone, no one can predict what kind of people will be involved in their lives in the next moment, and how much influence and change they will have.

At that time, Zhongshan County in Guangxi was in the mid-1990s. At that time, the social outlook was not as colorful, varied and flashy as it is today, unlike those buildings that changed every few years and changed again every few years. At that time, things were mostly simple.

I remember 1995 There is a five-star platform and a track and field in Zhongshan County, where there is a football field and green grass. There are green trees on both sides of the track and field, and people often swing under the trees. There is a children's playground nearby, which is where we often go. Now it has become a big world restaurant and supermarket in Wan Jiale. At that time, Zhongshan County Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine was close to the lawn of the green football field and beside the five-star platform. In front of the Chinese medicine hospital is the road, and across the road is the salesroom of Zhongshan People's Armed Forces Department. That's where you go to work. I remember once I went to your dormitory to read your palm, which was a joke. In fact, I know very little about my opponent's palm force.

? Your home is rural, in Dongzhai Village, huilong town, Zhongshan County. The famous Lion Temple in the county is not far from your home village. Now Baidu search "Lion Temple in Dongzhai, huilong town, Zhongshan County, Guangxi" can find relevant introductions.

You graduated from Zhongshan Vocational Middle School, majoring in kindergarten teachers, equivalent to technical secondary school education. After your internship in Guangdong, you came back to work in the armed retail department of the county. Ten years later, after correspondence, you went to Guilin to study in a junior college and became half a college student.

I remember at 1995, when you were working in the armed salesroom, you said that there was a man named Mo who seemed to have some malice towards you, so I made an anonymous phone call, warned him and helped you solve it. That was more than twenty years ago.

During the period from 1995 to 1998, you first worked in the sales department of the county people's armed forces department, and then entered Zhongshan Ceramic Factory, while I studied in Wuzhou Teachers College in Babu, Guangxi, and now I have changed my name to Hezhou College. I remember I wrote you a letter with red double horizontal stationery. I was very happy after writing, and I didn't expect any reply. I didn't expect you to take the initiative to look for me at Babu Wuzhou Normal University one day after reading the letter. I remember when you came to see me at the university, which made me feel ups and downs and surprised me, and left a deep impression on me.

After that, you worked as a substitute teacher in Oshima Primary School and huilong town Niaotang Primary School. I visit you every weekend or during school holidays. Sometimes it rains cats and dogs, and the wind and rain don't change, even though the path in and out of the village is full of mud during the rainstorm. Whether a person has true feelings for another person depends on how one of them treats another person when he is in trouble. At that time, when I went to Huilong Island to find you, I always had to cross a bridge. One weekend, it was stormy and the weather was extremely bad, and the river overflowed the bridge deck. You told me later that a man drowned in the river that day. You said that when you heard the news, you mistakenly thought that I was in danger and immediately fell to the ground, unconscious. I didn't know until I woke up that it wasn't me who had an accident. It was just a misunderstanding.

In those years, I went to the county ceramics factory to find you, and I went to huilong town Niaotang Primary School to find you. The past and present have become unforgettable memories.

The year after I graduated from Wuzhou Teachers College, it was also in summer. My parents at home know about my contact with you and strongly object to my being with you. My mother said that I don't really like you, just sympathize with you. Compassion is sympathy, but sympathy does not represent true feelings. She also said that the woman is from the countryside and the man is from the county. It is wrong to go to the wrong house. But at that time, I still insisted on my choice. That summer, my mother and I fell out completely. With clothes, luggage and sleeping mats, we set foot on the bus to huilong town where you are, without any attachments. Since then, I haven't contacted my family for eight years.

Many years later, a popular song "Divination" sung by Cui Zige was unforgettable. One of the lyrics: that summer, you packed your bags and ran away from home. I want to cry by the ancient road first ... it makes people feel that the song is in line with reality, as if it is a portrayal of their own experience, which makes people sad and deeply touched.

I have lived in your rural hometown in Dongzhai for several years. Whenever it's time to plant rice and seedlings, or when it's time to cut rice ears and thresh millet, I will work hard with you, your father, brothers and sisters. Your mother is ill and can't go out in the field to help us deliver rice porridge, even in hot summer. You have two brothers and five sisters, one of whom died when I was a child, and the other four sisters, including yourself, make up five sisters. You are the first. Out of the fields or vegetable fields, you often carry the youngest fifth sister on your back with your third and fourth sisters, and then I often go to the fields with you to grow the same vegetables. I'm not used to doing farm work in the countryside. Although I often help your family mow the grass and Lamy sweats like rain, I feel too hard, but I feel very fulfilled to share joys and sorrows with your family.

The year when I broke up with my parents for love and ran away from home was already the summer of 1999. 1in the summer of 1998-99, two TV dramas about Princess Zhu Huan were broadcast in the mainland, which were very popular in China. Until now, I still remember that I often hear the theme song of the familiar TV series Princess Zhu Huan from your home in Dongzhai: "Thank you, thank you, thank you for your fate." You are the wind, I am the sand, lingering to the end of the world ... "

Recalling the years before I went back to school to teach, I have been living a wandering life outside, like a rootless duckweed. I spent most of my time in your parents' rural hometown, rented a house in the county town of binjiang road, and went to Babu County, a neighboring county, to find a job. Went to a restaurant and left quietly the next morning. I also worked in a private rice noodle shop for a few days. At that time, you were still helping to wash dishes in a restaurant in Babu. When I was down and out, I once went to a stall to sell socks. Speaking of which, I feel very guilty. It's a pity that we have learned so much cultural knowledge and failed to make full use of it.

1999, you dragged me to get a marriage certificate. I was 24 years old that year. Your story is still going on.

In 2000, the first year of the new century, the first thing I did was to form an indissoluble bond with the traditional Buddhism in China. The location is the famous Lion Temple in Dongzhai Village, huilong town, Zhongshan County, Guangxi, which is located at the back of your village. It was the eighth day of April. The second thing I did that year was to travel abroad. At that time, my destination was Luofu Mountain in Zengcheng County, Guangdong Province. One is to wash away the physical and mental fatigue accumulated over the years, and the other is to explore and visit strangers. Later, I went to Huashoutai Temple on Luofu Mountain and stayed in the temple for two days before going down. That night, I asked the host of Huashoutai about the Jue Yuan Classic, and the host said, I can understand it according to my own opinion. Later, he gave me a hundred dollars. At first, I refused. The monk said I gave it to you myself, so I had no choice but to accept it.

After I went down the mountain, I first took a passenger bus to Guangzhou in Zengcheng County, because the way back had to go through Guangzhou. However, on the night when I was at Guangzhou Railway Station, a young man came to talk to me. The man said that he would go home by train and that he would go the same way as me. He told me that he would also go back to Guangxi. Later, I drank a box of chrysanthemum tea drinks that he handed me unguarded, and my head was heavy and sleepy after drinking. When I woke up, I found that I had lost my ID card and my 100 yuan was gone. In the case of no choice, Wu nai had to let nature take its course. First, I took the initiative to enter the detention and repatriation station in Guangzhou, where I witnessed and contacted all kinds of people at the bottom of society, some of whom were like homosexual perverts, some were timid, some were bullying, and some were like torture in TV dramas.

After that, I first returned to my place of birth. After I returned to Wuzhou, I put on a white shirt that was half new and not old, and spoke at the forum as a public representative.

Back to my hometown, I took the bus again and went back to the county where I lived at that time-Zhongshan County in Hezhou area now.

200 1, transferred from Fengxiang Town Middle School in Zhongshan County to Tongjiangya Complete Primary School. It's next to the highway after primary school. The primary school is close to the expressway, which is not a good thing but also a good thing. The environment is noisy, but it is convenient to get in and out. In my impression of 200 1, it seems that there are no national and world events that I can't forget.

When the singer Dao Lang's first snow swept through China in 2002, you were still working as a substitute teacher in a primary school in rural huilong town. Your salary was very low, but you were always so lively and optimistic, as if you could always see sunshine on you. From the photos you took with the students, you can feel the innocence of a rural primary school. That year, I had a high fever

In 2003, a SARS epidemic spread everywhere, and more and more people put on protective covers. In the year of SARS, I went from Jiangya to Zhangcun Primary School. It's a very remote primary school, with rugged stone roads, far away from the outside world, and it's inconvenient to get in and out. In Zhangcun Primary School, I was deeply impressed by two colleagues and teachers. One is Zhou Funing, who plays the erhu; The other one is Wu, and his voice has a great echo in class. Many years later, Wu, a substitute teacher, basked in millet at home, accidentally fell down the stairs and died after being rescued.

When I am in Jiangya Primary School and Zhangcun Primary School, please come to see me at school when you are free. Once you came to school with your mother. Of course, I often go to Huilong Township to find you. I am relieved that you are safe.

Two years later, in 2005, I transferred from Zhangcun Primary School to another school, Tongguba Primary School, which is far from Fengxiang Town. I have been in Tongguba Primary School for a long time. There is a Guandi Temple at the school gate. The local village is small, but it has produced scholars in the Qing Dynasty. I taught there from 2005 to 2008. At that time, I often went to the other side of the mountain and pulled the mountain spring water back with a big white plastic jar to drink. The springs in the mountains have not been artificially processed, and most of them are clear and sweet, which is closer to nature. In 2005, I got a skin disease in Tongguba Primary School. There I also met a colleague named Tan, who has similar interests and hobbies with me.

When I was in Tongguba Primary School, more importantly, some landmark things happened.

There, I wrote a large number of five-character poems and seven-character poems, totaling more than 300 from 2006 to 2008.

In 2006, I bought my first computer and began to contact the online world. That year, I also bought a black number one curved beam motorcycle, accompanied me to the countryside and the village, and climbed mountains and mountains. Fengxiang Town and huilong town are relatively close, only a dozen kilometers, separated by a Shilong Town. Every time I visit you in huilong town, I always drive my own No.1 bent beam motorcycle. Even if I go back and forth from Yufengxiang Town to Zhongshan County from nine to five, I seldom take the bus. A few years later, when I went to Xishanling on the outskirts of Zhongshan, this black curved beam motorcycle stopped under the pine trees on the mountain and was stolen and lost by thieves.

In 2007, a great event happened.

That year, you went to Tongguba Primary School as a substitute teacher. You weren't at school that day, and the headmaster of Tongguba said to me, Go home quickly! Hearing the news that your father-in-law had an accident, I hurried back to Longdong Village. I heard that your father had an accident, in his own rice mill. When I turned on the switch of the rice mill, I accidentally touched the power supply!

By the time I got back, it was very late. On that dark night, in the crowd of onlookers, you couldn't help crying in front of your father's body.

It was also in that year that my mother came to your home in Longdongzhai and got sick. She found me in the eighth year after I left home.

That year, we reissued the wedding banquet at Zhongxin Restaurant in the county.

In 2008, Wenchuan earthquake occurred in Sichuan province. An earthquake claimed thousands of lives at the same time.

In the summer of the same year, I transferred from Tongguba Primary School to Muchong Primary School. This school is located in a remote mountainous area. The mountain road is ten miles long and winding, connecting the misty mountains with the outside world.

In 2008 1 month, we moved into a 57-square-meter second-hand house purchased by Lu Nan County Bureau of Justice. I lived there for three years until 20 1 1 year.

Soon after moving to the Justice Bureau, a little boy named Wu intervened in our life. His family belongs to the farm, so he put it in our house to send tapes. So I met the little boy's father, Chen Jibiao. He is a person with similar interests or ambitions as me. Another little boy named Jiang also sent a tape in our house. The little boys named Wen Wen and Ming Ming have just formed a civilization. During this period, I took many photos and videos for them, leaving an impression track of time.

We took two children, Wen Wen and Ming Ming, and lived in Zhongshan County Judicial Bureau for three years, from 2008 to 20 1 1 year.

In 2009, two years after your father died, your mother followed closely and died after a long illness.

(To be continued)