What if my husband doesn't work?

You said yourself that your husband is a famous college student, so he knows more than you. You don't have to reason with him anymore, because he won't listen at all. You can put it aside and do your work with peace of mind. Ensuring that family members can eat enough is the most important thing at present.

In addition, from your question, I found out whether all the family members don't believe what you said, which led to everyone not believing what you said, right? Then I'd better start that sentence, shut up and ensure the cost of eating at home.

As the saying goes, women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. This sentence is not unreasonable, but now this society, you can completely change by your own ability. You can do it. You can cut down on the expenses of eating at home, which means that you can normally ensure that you can eat enough. Save your money and put it away. Don't quarrel with it for a while. It doesn't make any sense. Quarrel will only increase your trouble. Besides, don't tell your family, because you said something that will only make others laugh and you can't solve it. Who do you want to help you solve it?

Second, work more slowly. First, accumulate some money for yourself. Second, exercise your working ability. Third, let your husband find that you are busy and tired. Only when he takes the initiative to find out that you are busy will your husband and even your marriage and family turn around? When he was slowly infected by the atmosphere of your active work to make money, he asked you that you were the best. You can tell him how much work you do every day and how tired you are. If your husband has you in his heart, he will go to work slowly.

Finally, when you persist for a year, your husband is still indifferent, still like that. At this time, you will find that the gap between you and your husband has been narrowed. You are positive and he is negative. At this time, you also have savings. You can give your husband a killer weapon, that is separation. If you don't change for a month, drag your husband to your parents and talk about divorce. Tell me all your causes and effects.

Summary:

It is best not to go to your parents or even your husband's classmates' good friends to persuade him. From your question, we can see that your husband is a very good-looking person. If you tell others about him, it will only make you continue to quarrel, or sow the seeds of quarrel. What you can do is to make more money and improve your ability.

One more word,

If a man does not listen to his wife's advice, but listens to others' advice, then you have to weigh this wife yourself, and you have to weigh it in your husband's heart;

In other words, your husband doesn't want you to change. Who else does he want to change?