What is the relationship between the opposite sex?

There are only two kinds of heterosexual relationships, one is a very good heterosexual girlfriend, and the other is an improper relationship between two people, like this. This possibility usually exists, and what kind of relationship it belongs to still needs to be judged according to behavior. 0 1, Zhang Xiaoxian said: "When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him and losing him." In love, that's it. When you like a person, you are cautious, even afraid to say you like it, for fear that if you take one more step, two people will not even be friends. When you don't like someone, you can be willful, you can joke, you can just say I love you. But when it comes out, no matter whether it is true or not, everyone will only listen as a joke. I have seen a street trick before. The host asked the girl to call her best friend of the opposite sex, and then she had to confess to each other. The girl said shyly to each other, "I like you. Let's be together." The other person was silent for a few seconds and said, "How much did you drink?" Between the opposite sex, I think talking about everything is the closest relationship. Unfortunately, even if it is really close, from the time when talking about everything, it can only be ordinary friends. 02, abortion likes a person, in order to maintain the "feelings" between two people, he made a lot of efforts and pretended to be too indifferent. In order to find the same topic, in order not to let the other person feel limited. Xiao Yue has never been too involved in her own life. No matter who the other party is with, she can be calm. When a man is in love, Xiao Yue is the strategist behind this love; When a man breaks up, abortion is the guest who drinks with him. When a man falls in love again, abortion is the witness of love. Two people are together, talking about everything, involving various fields, but they have never had feelings for each other. Once a man was drunk, leaned against Xiaoyue and said, "It's very kind of you, if only we could be together." He also said to Xiaoyue, "If we are still single at the age of 30, let's get married." Only two people are not single at the age of 30, and the man got married a year later. When introducing abortion to each other, he said that this is my best buddy. Abortion thinks that as long as you stay with each other all the time, you can have good results, but the fact is that when you talk about everything with someone, you can only be friends. Because lovers care, friends don't care. 03. If you like someone, you will mind many things. There is a classic line in Ashes of Time: "If one day I can't help asking you, you must lie to you, even if you are unhappy, don't tell me that the person you love is not me". When you really like someone, you will want to find all kinds of excuses. If you stay with each other, you will want them to see you all. Just like a sentence in Chipa's story: "Love is not taken for granted. When I love you, I hope you love me too. " . When you like someone, you will mind a lot of things. Mind who he calls back, who plays games with him, who sends him messages every day and who accompanies him every day. When you like someone, you will feel that the other person cares, so when you face that person, you don't want to say anything, because you mind that he cares and he doesn't mind. Just like many people are reluctant to mention their previous relationship when they are in love, they just want to regard this person in front of them as the only one in their lives. Because I listened to his past stories, even if it has passed, even if it has nothing to do with the present, I will mind. This is true love. And two friends of the opposite sex, when you can casually talk about each other's objects and tell your stories, can not prove that your relationship is close, but only prove that you trust and trust each other. You regard the other person as the object to talk to, not the lover to accompany you. Because I don't love it, and because I don't like it, I know that it will be fine, so I can be unscrupulous. What you believe is the pure friendship between you. Sometimes, you even give each other a hug, just to comfort each other. After all, if you really like it, there is no such thing as "telling everything". 04. A star was interviewed before. When someone asked him about his affair with another artist, he said, "We are just friends because we tell everything." . Everything means that we don't care about each other, so we can say anything. I don't care about each other's love life, no matter whether they don't value themselves or how they evaluate themselves. When you dare to be yourself, it shows that the feelings between you are as pure as a blank sheet of paper. When you really meet such a person, I hope you don't like him. The person who can tell you everything and never cheat you doesn't like you, but trusts you. If you really move your heart, you must be the last one to get hurt. I have heard a saying, don't fall in love with people who know too much, because you will care if you know too much. If you really like it, your heart will hurt. The best relationship between two people is to have something to say when they are together, but not everything, because when you have something to say, you can only be ordinary friends, and one more step is harmful to your feelings. What is the relationship between the opposite sex? First, a nodding acquaintance. Men know each other and say something, but they don't go deep, there is not much cooperation and communication, and they don't know each other. Let's just say they met as soon as they met. This kind of situation often happens between male and female colleagues in the company and the same school in the university, but it will not happen between students in a certain major or other men and women who are not in frequent contact. Second, pure friendship Some people say that there is no pure friendship between men and women, but I don't think so. There is still pure friendship between men and women. Some women are cheerful and may even be a little careless. They are very popular among women and more popular among men. She is popular with men not because of her beauty, but because of her personality. Such a woman can be brothers with men and become good buddies and friends with men. Men have no other ideas when dealing with her. It's just that dealing with her can be easier, and the communication between them will be much more natural. It is easier to become good friends who talk about everything, and this relationship can last for many years. Third, the relationship between couples should be the most. Men and women love each other, or one of them likes the other. Through hard pursuit, two people come together and get to know each other. After getting along for a period of time, if two people feel that they are suitable for each other and are willing to maintain this relationship for a long time, regardless of their personality or living habits, they will become stable couples. If they feel that they are not suitable for each other, it is of course a breakup. Husband and wife relationship When two lovers are willing to further develop their relationship, they will get married and become husband and wife. The relationship between husband and wife is that both men and women trust each other and feel that the other half is what they are looking for in their lives. People, two people are willing to live together, form a family together, work together for a better life, face ups and downs together, have children together, and grow old together. In the relationship between husband and wife, it is really a very happy thing to meet the right person and stay together for life. No matter what kind of relationship the opposite sex is, whether male or female, many people still feel lonely in marriage, or in other words, some words can't be said to their lovers. Some say they don't solve the problem, but they worry each other. Some people talk about their vulnerability, not only not being understood, but also being laughed at. Therefore, many people are eager to have a friend of the opposite sex who can talk about everything, which can replace the tenderness and talk that can't be obtained in marriage. This is the main reason why beautiful women are rampant now. In fact, most people don't have much courage to find a lover directly. If they are found, it will be too much trouble. But finding a specious friend of the opposite sex can solve many psychological loneliness. So, what should we pay attention to when interacting with friends of the opposite sex? First: don't talk about love, just talk about the confusion and troubles in life. The relationship between friends of the opposite sex is very subtle. In order to maintain a friendship that never talks about anything, you need to give up something, including love between the opposite sex. Once friendship becomes love, it will become irrational, noisy and lively, and the final outcome may not be good. Therefore, between the opposite sex, I suggest to be a pure confidante, keep a distance, only talk about the depression of life, or share the happiness in life, so as not to cross the line, very good! Second: don't get too close, don't have intimate physical contact. Heterosexual friendship is most afraid of becoming a couple, because it will be very troublesome. However, it is also inevitable that the opposite sex with good relationship will eat together and relax together. If the night is hazy, or if you drink wine, your mind is hot and you have close physical contact, then it is difficult to return to the pure friendship before. Therefore, it is not recommended for friends of the opposite sex to eat and chat alone at night, or go to bars for coffee. This environment is easy to be ambiguous. If you need to meet, you'd better choose noon or daytime, because you don't like to make mistakes in the sun. Third: Don't be too intimate when chatting, it is easy to form dependence and habits. It is not recommended to chat with friends of the opposite sex every day, because people are emotional animals and tend to have feelings for a long time. A lot of extramarital affairs are talked about. Since we are friends of the opposite sex, we should have our own love lives. Unless you need to communicate or are confused, let's talk together. You'd better do your own thing at ordinary times and don't disturb each other. Because of the distance, we can keep the innocence of friendship and the pure self without dependence. In addition, just don't give the other party mental burden or psychological pressure! In my opinion, only by doing the above can friends of the opposite sex stay close without crossing the line. If you talk and chat too intimately, or don't avoid the cold, and your body doesn't keep your distance, it's easy to have feelings for a long time, and eventually it will become a bad relationship!