How to write a composition with the topic of "speaking"

The Art of Speaking

When talking about good things, focus on the other person; when you want to blame, point the arrow at yourself first. Most importantly, when you praise yourself, never forget about others. Because no obedient person wants to be ignored by the speaker. No speaker who ignores his audience can get a good response!

There is such a joke:

A man was visiting a friend. Because he had to urinate urgently, he pointed at a jar in the dark and asked, "Is this a urinal?"

"Yes...yes..." the host stuttered, and said nothing for a long time. When he struggled to say the three words "it's a water tank" together, his friend had already finished urinating.

What this person suffers from is his speaking skills. If he says "no" from the beginning, even if he takes a full hour to say "no", it will not prevent him from stopping his friend from peeing into the water tank.

The so-called speaking skills, to put it bluntly, mean saying what you want to say. Sometimes in order to achieve some kind of good purpose, or to make a harmless joke, or to emphasize something, what should be said directly becomes implicit.

I have a friend who is good at Chinese chess. He wins more than he loses when playing against others. Every time he recounted playing chess with someone, he would first praise the opponent for how steady and awesome he was, thereby reflecting his own superb chess skills.

"Do you know that old man from the furniture factory?" He asked me once.

"We know each other." I said, "What's the matter?"

"He's very good at chess!" He said exaggeratedly, "Playing chess with him requires a lot of effort." Be alert. You make one move, and he has already seen the third move. "Then you must lose to him." I know who he will lose to. Not to mention anyone, I just wanted to tease him.

"What a risk!" he said loudly, "out of five games, he only won one!"

There is an article about a grandmother who attended a school conference. At the parent-teacher meeting, I told my grandson after I got home that the teacher praised him at the meeting, saying that he was sensible and had made rapid progress. The grandson was greatly encouraged, studied hard, and finally became successful. In fact, at that parent-teacher meeting, the teacher criticized him.

A lie may create a talent. Speaking skills are obviously important.

Finally, you can check yourself according to the following summarized points:

Use the tape recorder to check your voice condition;

If you open your mouth, your nose will Humming, you are speaking in a nasal voice;

Don't use a whisper unless you are talking about something secret;

Keep your lips active when speaking;

Read aloud and check whether your voice is monotonous;

Check the speed of your speaking;

Don't let your catchphrases blurt out;

Don't move too much when speaking , otherwise it will distract the audience;

Eye can convey information to others and also let you know what others mean.

Speaking is an art. People who can speak can avoid unnecessary troubles at certain times, and can also become popular. Go ahead and use your art to exchange for a wonderful life!