What should I do if I quarrel with my brother, lest I hurt his self-esteem?

As a grumpy sister, I often yell at my brother, and I will say something very unpleasant or even hurtful. My brother sometimes quarrels with me and sometimes ignores me with a snort. In fact, this situation is very easy to hurt his self-esteem, so what should we do if this happens?

First of all, we should have a good talk with my brother when both sides are calm, indicating that every time I quarrel with my brother, I always go to my brother after my emotions are calm. My brother is not idle at ordinary times, playing mobile phone, watching TV and doing homework. I always choose to sit next to him and calmly tell him about the quarrel before, telling him that it wasn't what I really thought, but I just blurted it out in a hurry. You're fine, too. Have fun in the future. Don't be angry with my sister. If my brother really did something wrong, I will point it out and tell him not to do it again. This is not right. Tell him something reasonable. If it is my fault, I will sincerely apologize.

Anyway, be sure to communicate with your brother and let him know what you really think. If there is anything wrong with him, you should point it out and let him correct it. Don't make any noise and don't say why. The exchange meeting allows us to know and understand each other better and enhance our feelings.

If you are embarrassed to say it, you can talk to your brother on QQ or other social software. Some people may feel that they can't say something, so they communicate with him online, so that if they can't say it face to face, they can talk about it online, communicate well, eliminate barriers and exchange feelings.

These are some measures that I will take when I get along with my brother, and they are still very effective. I hope to adopt them.