The sky-high price of betrothal gifts is constantly mentioned. If we don’t give betrothal gifts, will the problem of young people’s difficulty in getting married be solved?

The marriage rate is gradually decreasing, and many people believe that the issue of bride price makes it difficult for young people to get married. The issue of sky-high betrothal gifts has been constantly raised, and many couples have parted ways because of the issue of betrothal gifts. If they don’t give betrothal gifts, can the problem of young people’s difficulty in getting married be solved? In my opinion, it cannot completely solve the problem of young people getting married, but it can only reduce the financial pressure on some young people.

The marriage rate has decreased, and contemporary young people increasingly advocate freedom and self-esteem. The marriage rate continues to decrease, which in turn affects the number of births. Contemporary young people are advocating more and more for freedom and self. They have seen too many sad stories about marriage and do not want to repeat the same mistakes. Instead of two people suffering, it is better for one person to live a free and unrestrained life. Not giving betrothal gifts, to a certain extent, will not change people's concept of marriage and childbirth. It will not be of any benefit to some young people who do not want to get married, and it will not solve the problem of difficulty in getting married among young people!

The financial pressure is great, and I have to give bride gifts and buy a house and a car. I really have no money to get married. The pressure on young people today is very high. Many people say that graduating from college means being unemployed. When people first enter the society, it is difficult to support themselves, so how can they have the ambition to support a family? In my opinion, the financial pressure of getting married is very high. Buying a house is already the most basic requirement, and many places also require the purchase of hardware. Not giving betrothal gifts can indeed reduce the pressure on some young people and increase the marriage rate, but it cannot fundamentally solve the problem. People may still face various financial difficulties after getting married!

People’s concept of marriage and childbearing has changed, and more and more young people tend not to get married or have children. Contemporary women are becoming more and more independent, and many women already tend not to get married or have children. People's concepts of marriage and childbearing are slowly changing with the progress of society, and they are becoming more and more selfish. To a certain extent, not giving a bride price cannot fundamentally solve the problem of young people’s difficulty in getting married, nor can it lead to an increase in the marriage rate!