Why can a mother-in-law hurt her son-in-law but not her daughter-in-law?

Text/Qingyun As we all know, since ancient times, there has been a saying that a mother-in-law loves her son-in-law. No matter how close she is to her son-in-law, she will not be gossiped. Daughters will not only mind, but also appreciate their mothers, because this reflects the happiness of the family and the infinite care and attachment of the elders to the younger generation. Nobody can blame it. However, it is also the spouse of the elders to the younger generation and the spouse of the children. If father and daughter-in-law are very close, he cares and loves her everywhere. Not only outsiders will talk, but also his wife will criticize, and his son is even more indignant and furious. This happened in my hometown: Li Dashuai's son married a beautiful daughter-in-law who can sing and dance, and won the envy of the whole village. The whole family regards her as the apple of their eye, and they are reluctant to let her do the work at home, so the family members of the production team have to assign the work to her. Li Dashuai's son worked as a worker in the city and didn't come back until evening. What happened in other places can't help his daughter-in-law. I was so anxious that Li Dashuai saw it, so every time he went to work in the fields, he took the initiative to stay with his daughter-in-law, scrambling to do something laborious or difficult for her. My daughter-in-law was a little embarrassed at first, but after a long time, she felt at ease and let nature take its course. When they work together, the daughter-in-law always sings and laughs, and Li Dashuai is so happy that she keeps smiling. At that time, rural people got married early. Although Li Dashuai is old, he is under 40 at most. This is a strong and good age. Day after day, he and his daughter-in-law worked side by side talking and laughing, and soon gossip appeared. Some people's comments are still unsightly and unsightly. The story soon reached the ears of Li Dashuai's family. His wife observed it silently for several days and found the seriousness of the problem. She really noticed her daughter-in-law doing housework, and Li Dashuai even tried to stop her. On this day, the daughter-in-law wants to clean a teapot that has just been used up. Li Dashuai rushed over and said that she had to do it herself. Two people each holding one end of the teapot, rambling. When the daughter-in-law turned around, she swept several tea bowls on the table to the ground and immediately broke into pieces. Seeing her daughter-in-law's remorse, Li Dashuai quickly comforted her and said, "Nice fall. I have been looking at these tea bowls for a long time, and they are about to fall off. I don't care. You're in love with dad. Nice fall. " Li Dashuai's wife saw the truth and recalled similar things that happened many times before. She dragged the prince into the back room and sobbed, you shameless old thing, you have the idea of your daughter-in-law. I don't understand how you can see your son with your old face! Seeing that the problem was serious, Li Dashuai quickly argued, "When did I misjudge my daughter-in-law? I just feel sorry for her. I don't want her to marry our family. Aren't you worried about your son-in-law too? Every time he comes, you like to give up. I can't wait for him to sleep on a kang with us? " A few words choked his wife's eyes and made her speechless. Finally, she just stamped her foot and shouted, this has always been the reason why a mother-in-law loves her son-in-law, but an old man should not like his daughter-in-law! Besides, when have you ever hurt me so much? If you had no bad ideas, would you be so considerate of her?