My father-in-law keeps reminding me that it's annoying to scrimp and save. What should I do?

It is better to live separately, and it is not the way to endure it all the time.

My husband and I have been married for more than four years. Husband and wife love each other and have a one-year-old daughter. Everything is fine. But what bothers me is that my father-in-law is too frugal. Of course, his generation is very frugal, which I can understand and advocate. But sometimes, my father-in-law seems to be too frugal, and he loves to restrain my life with his frugal methods, which makes me very upset.

The first thing is to eat. There is no such thing as pouring rice in our family. Besides, I eat leftovers almost every day. My father-in-law loves to cook more. If there is more, there will be left. If there is left, I will eat the next meal. So, it circulates every day. Tell a joke, after dinner, my father-in-law doesn't have to wash the bowls and plates he used, because he will eat very clean and lick the bowls when necessary. Yes, you are right. Lick the bowl, lick it clean.

One steamed bread at a time, or half a steamed bread, is put in the refrigerator for several days, and my father-in-law takes it to the microwave oven for baking. The result is still hard, especially in the middle. It is no exaggeration to say that it looks like a stone. My husband couldn't stand it anymore, so he told my father-in-law to throw it away and stop eating. But my father-in-law didn't throw it away, so I watched my father-in-law finish that half of the steamed bread with difficulty. Another time, my father-in-law went to the mountains and brought back some dates, saying that he picked them himself.

Not much, actually. My husband and I ate two and found a wormhole in the jujube. There are less than ten left by visual inspection, which looks a bit rotten. I was afraid of bugs and lost my appetite, so my husband threw it in the trash can. As a result, my father-in-law came in and saw it, saying it was junk, so he picked it up. I am speechless.

Later, we young couple finally saved enough money to buy a house, and only when we were alone did we know how cool it was not to listen to my father-in-law's thrifty spell.