Which hurts more, joke or truth?

Some people say that there is no such thing as a joke. All jokes have serious elements. How much truth is said in the joke, but people who don't want to understand will never understand it.

Yes, how many people want to express themselves sincerely, but they can't say it for various reasons.

I miss someone very much. I can't let go of reserve when I am awake, and I can't isolate myself from each other. So I will tell him everything I want to say with the help of alcohol after a certain drunkenness. Then wake up the next day, people around you will say that you deny it and interpret it as drunken nonsense, but you know best that drunken nonsense is the most real truth.

I like someone very much, but I'm afraid I won't get the response I want. In the end, I couldn't even keep my friend's position, but I was vaguely unwilling. Maybe I know that there will be another possibility for each other. With such luck, I will choose to confess to him on April Fool's Day. If rejected, I can also smile and say: You are serious, I'm joking with you, hahaha. Then turn around and it will be a long-term loss.

Are you the same person? Those stubborn and against one's will can always be said easily, while those sweet words can never find a suitable opportunity to express them. They are afraid of their inner disappointment and that they will not get a response, which will upset the balance of their previous relationship. So many truths are spoken in a joking tone, expecting him to give a response, and at the same time laughing and saying, I'm joking with you to cover up my inner loss.

Ye Zi is a careless girl. She likes fighting and joking. She has many good friends around her, Wenxuan is one of them. I can't remember when I started, and I gradually felt different about him. By the time I realized it, it was deep into the bone marrow.

Because they are very close to each other, they played all kinds of jokes. I once said that if I can't find the right person, I will make do with them; I also said that he should look for the future person according to Wenxuan's standards, who is handsome, eye-catching and humorous, and also knows how to take care of others' emotions. Maybe from that time on, I felt more affection for him than my friends.

Later, they still maintained their previous relationship, eating and drinking together and playing all kinds of jokes, but Ye knew that something was changing quietly.

I will pay more attention to his every move, and I can't help looking at him. Some girls will be tempted.

I would also like to find a suitable opportunity to express my thoughts, but I can't muster up the courage.

Because she is too familiar with it, she always knows the type of woman Wenxuan likes, but she is very different. She always knew that Wenxuan had someone she couldn't get. She was afraid that her confession would breed a gap between them and never return to the beginning.

I can control my emotions when I am awake, but I can't control them when I am drunk.

It was my birthday, and then a large group of friends celebrated it. I only remember drinking a lot, saying a lot, and then breaking the film. It was not until I received a letter from my friend the next day that I realized that all my worries had been made clear.

But they think you're just talking nonsense when you're drunk You plucked up your courage and decided to have a complete showdown. If what I said is true, what do you say? They all agree that you are not fully awake and are joking. See, people who are used to joking, the only time you are serious, will be considered joking.

A group of people make a noise, and then you laugh louder than anyone else. Yes, I'm really drunk. How can I like him? He is ugly and smelly. Ha ha ha, but only you know that these things are against your will.

You are such a person, used to pretending your emotions and pretending that you are harmless;

You will say a lot of malicious words and expressions against your will, but you will never expose your weakness;

Your surface is as hard as a stone, but you don't want to expose your sadness. You'd rather deceive yourself and pretend you don't care than admit it (⊙o⊙) Oh, I really like it.

So you have a soft spot for alcohol, because only when you are drunk can you reveal your inner secrets, so that you can leave yourself some room for defense unconsciously. Even if you fail, you can cover it up with drunken nonsense;

That's why you added a sentence after what you said many times: haha, you are serious, I am joking. Only in this way can you keep the last bit of dignity and not be defeated.

You are such a stubborn person, stubbornly building a barrier for yourself and protecting yourself anytime and anywhere.

But only you know the truth behind those jokes. Many times you say a lot of blurted words: for example, you don't like it, for example, you don't miss it, but these words that can be easily said are the most against your will.

We always do. We are not good at expressing the softest parts of emotions, but we can easily express the hard parts. I often wonder, if we can all be less duplicitous and more honest, will our life be simpler?

In fact, we have been looking for someone who understands you all our lives. He can see through all your duplicity and read the expression behind your jokes. Understand your silence and take care of your childishness.

I hope he will come to your side as soon as possible, so that you can put down all your disguises, and you don't need to hide your sincerity with jokes or express your feelings with alcohol, so that you can enjoy a high life.