Why do people always have a crush on someone who doesn't like themselves?

Love makes people sad and painful, not because of love itself, but because we need to respond, so pure unrequited love is not too hard, because there is not much expectation, and there is no expectation that love will come to you, as long as we meet once a day.

However, most unrequited love is not like this. They are expecting and waiting for love every day. Waiting for the other person to confess first, so a look and a word from the other person can make a tsunami happen in one's heart.

I can't solve the distress of these people, but I think a person should be happier if he lives clearly in love.

For example, in love, what we want to know most is whether the other person loves us or not, so we try our best to observe everything and finally get nothing.

In fact, I want to say that the love that is not clearly expressed in adulthood is an illusion. What is adult love? It is together! I want to spend the rest of my life with you, regardless of time or space, regardless of poverty or wealth.

If a person says that he has had a crush on you for many years, but he never wants to be with you, you will definitely think that he just told you a joke.

So don't always ask others if they love you. You must have made all kinds of temptations before this. The messages he doesn't answer, the topics he doesn't answer, and the dates he doesn't go to are simply rejections.

If a person says good morning to you, brings you breakfast and cares for you, but just doesn't say "I love you", you might as well wait and give him a deadline. After all, there is always a process from birth to maturity between people.

But remember, every relationship has an expiration date, just like everything has an expiration date. A person who really loves you must be eager to run to you. Even if he doesn't feel good enough now, he must want to keep you and say "I love you" to you first.

So love without explicit expression is an illusion. You may be just one, not the only one. The sentence "I love you" will be late, but it will never be absent.