The charming girl of the Republic of China was born in a rich family, but refused to be a woman. She not only loves to wear men's clothes, but also married three wives and four concubines. Who is it?

Perhaps Kong Lingwei is such a confident person, born in the male-dominated era of the Republic of China, and she lived what she wanted according to her own will.

Although she is a daughter, she wears a big back and is laughed at for "marrying three wives and four concubines".

Kiss me, Kate

Miss Kong Er, formerly known as Kong Lingjun, is the second daughter of Kong Xiangxi and Song Ailing and the manager of the hotel.

My father is the former President and Minister of Finance of the Republic of China, and my mother is the elder sister of the famous Song sisters. Kong Lingwei was born in an extraordinary place. She was an ancient princess, but this princess was not extraordinary.

Ordinary girls like cute gadgets when they are young, but Kong Lingwei is interested in things that boys like, such as knives, guns and sticks.

Not only that, there is a gun in the drawer of her dressing box, and the pet she usually walks is a terrible big German shepherd, which seems to be specially used to scare passers-by.

She has been naughty and active since childhood. She gave Xiong Haizi a headache.

When she was at school, she had no interest in pen and ink, but she liked to provoke her classmates to fight and didn't join in. She just stood by and watched.

When she was about ten years old, she learned to shoot, and when she was thirteen, Miss Kong Er learned to drive.

But Kong Lingwei is not without reason. A solid family background gave her the capital to indulge, and her parents doted on her. Even if she doesn't like her abnormal behavior, she tries her best to meet her daughter's requirements.

If freedom is not restricted, it will eventually lead to great disaster.

Once in Nanjing, Kong Lingwei was reprimanded by the police for driving in violation of traffic regulations. Where did the big lady suffer such a big injustice? She only learned a few words, so Kong Lingwei couldn't stand it. She shot the policeman in a rage.

Funnily enough, the police lost their lives while performing their duties, but in the Republic of China, it seems that the life of a small policeman doesn't matter much.

Kong Lingwei, with a hard background, certainly didn't get much punishment for it. This is at best an episode in her life.

However, Miss Kong Er's reputation has also spread, and everyone's malicious words have new materials. At that time, there was a saying that you should not go out carefully and asked you to see Miss Kong Er.

Kong Lingwei's unruly waywardness can be seen.

That's not all. When he was in Chongqing, Kong Lingwei drove home with headlights on, which blatantly violated the blackout at that time. The soldiers on duty stopped her because it was related to the Japanese air raid.

Miss Kong Er ignored him, of course, and directly stepped on the gas pedal and hit someone on the side of the road. Finally, she didn't forget to give them a dirty word.

Still in Chongqing, Kong Lingwei met Long Yun's third son. They pulled out their guns and fought in Central Park, injuring many innocent tourists by mistake, but no one knows why.

There is another "anecdote" about this Miss Chengdu. Miss Kong Er did not use a gun this time, but hit an air force pilot with her fist. The reason is unknown to others. People only know that this unruly young lady is unusual.

The story behind men's wear

Kong Lingwei is famous for his willfulness and men's clothing.

But she was not born with a preference for men's wear. The famous Miss Kong Er is also a girl with long hair in women's clothes. When it comes to her men's wear, her menstruation Song Meiling should also be involved.

At the age of 12, Kong Lingwei had scabies on his head. Song Meiling advised his sister Song Ailing not to let Kong Lingwei wear long clothes. It's not good if the weather is hot.

So Kong Lingwei changed into shorts, and her hair was cut as short as a boy, just like a tomboy. Once this kind of men's wear is put on, it is difficult to take it off again.

Although Kong Lingwei resisted this at first, she fell in love with men's wear after hearing people laugh at her.

Maybe it's because of her natural rebellion. Others don't want her to do this, so she insists.

She even asked people to stop calling her "Miss Kong Er" and call her "Sir". Later, she also tried to wear women's clothes, but in the end she failed. Habits have been formed for so many years, and it is not so easy to change them.

agree with

Song Meiling's preference for Kong Lingwei is notorious. She once publicly praised Kong Lingwei, who was born bold and unrestrained, much like me.

When Kong Lingwei was a teenager, she dated Song Meiling. She told Song Meiling to give up the car she took and change to the last one. As a result, she somehow escaped the Japanese bombing. Song Meiling was only slightly injured, but everyone in the original car died.

Kong Lingwei saved Song Meiling's life. As a Christian, Song Meiling believed that Kong Lingwei was the savior given to her by God, and she always took Kong Lingwei with her wherever she went.

Of course, this is not the only reason. Probably the biggest reason is that both of them have unruly souls.

Although wearing cheongsam looks elegant and gorgeous, Song Meiling and Kong Lingwei have the same ambitions as men. In that era when men were superior to women, everyone longed for power.

Only Song Meiling didn't dress up as a man.

Of course, Kong Lingwei is not an ornament. She is Song Meiling's right-hand man at work, taking care of Song Meiling's daily life and social life.

Although they are not really mother and daughter, they love each other. When Kong Lingwei died, 95-year-old Song Meiling even flew from the United States to Taiwan Province Province to see her goddaughter for the last time.

Blind date failed

The wayward and unruly Kong Lingwei makes people feel palpitation. Everyone thinks that she can't get married, and Miss Kong Er is also a relative.

1938, Chen Lifu tried to fix Hu Zongnan and Kong Lingwei for political reasons, but Dai Li told Hu Zongnan that Kong Lingwei could not get married because of disagreement with Chen Lifu.

But there is no point in refusing directly. When Hu Zongnan was at a loss, Dai Li gave him a plan.

The next day, Hu Zongnan is going to ask Kong Lingwei out. Miss Kong Er specially wore women's clothes for this purpose, but she was not very satisfied with Hu Zongnan. She thought he was very different from what Chen Lifu said, but she didn't point it out to her face.

I didn't expect Dai Li's plan to be "vicious". Hu Zongnan accompanied Miss Kong Er for more than two hours, pretending not to see Miss Kong Er's fatigue.

Miss Kong Er usually looks like a boy, but she is still a daughter. How can she endure such pain?

At home, she got a lot of blisters on her feet, calling Hu Zongnan an asshole and refusing to marry him anyway. So Miss Kong Er's blind date ended in failure.

change of direction

Unexpectedly, the last failed blind date experience made Miss Kong Er feel ill about men, leaving a sequela. She thought, maybe all men in the world don't know passion like Hu Zongnan.

Gradually, Kong Lingwei discovered the gentleness of women. Compared with men, women are more considerate. Being with a woman can make her feel more powerful.

What is even more shocking is that Miss Kong Er has since opened the door to the new world and "married three wives and four concubines" like a man. Later, she even openly cohabited with an officer's wife. They became colleagues with the management company in the name of husband and wife.

In that feudal conservative era, Kong Lingwei was inevitably criticized by the world, and others' eyes were naturally full of curiosity and contempt. Fortunately, Kong Lingwei himself didn't care too much. They lived an enviable life like a real husband and wife.

But this is not the only lady in Miss Kong Er's "harem". Her "three wives and four concubines" are often jealous for competition.

Kong Lingwei dotes on them, and all kinds of jewelry are scattered like floating, which is quite imposing.

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Kong Lingwei's refusal to be a woman's abnormal behavior is, in the final analysis, a rebellion against the patriarchal society at that time. She refused to be a weak group and simply disguised herself as a strong one.

Other people have different opinions about her. Some people say that she is a witch. Some people envy her for living what she wants, but naturally we can't see her inner thoughts and it's hard to judge her.