Most people bully the weak and fear the strong.

I don’t know if you have ever discovered such a problem. Many times, those who are bullied are always those who are introverted and don’t like to talk. Campus bullies are always looking for those who seem to be quiet and gentle. A weak person.

We will find that girls are easily approached and disturbed by others when they go out alone, but if you have a strong friend by your side, the probability of you being harmed is very small.

Why is this? Because people think you are easy to bully, and if you speak softly, they will make you do this or that.

I once encountered such a thing, that is, you will find that the better you talk, the more people will bully you. When I was at work, I often needed some soft goods, such as bottles, cans, and small ornaments. There was a courier who often delivered goods to me, and he was very familiar with it. He often told me to contact him if I needed to send express delivery in the future. For him, the price is cheaper than taking it downstairs and so on.

But every time the courier arrived, he would send it upstairs twice for the first two times. But later, every time the courier arrived, he would call me and ask me to go down and get it, saying that he didn’t bring a cart and was busy. , at first I would go there when I had free time, and I actually didn’t think there was any problem. But later, sometimes when I was not in the company, he would still ask me to go there to get it, or ask me to find a colleague to go get it. Sometimes I said that my colleague was not here. , he told me to leave it at the front desk so that I could pick it up when I had time. This happened many times. Later, I felt that this was a waste of my time, because what I negotiated with the seller was door-to-door delivery.

Later I started to refuse him. I said I didn’t have time and asked him to get it for me later. I was out all day and had no time to get it. He would always argue with me and ask me to get it. My colleague went to pick it up. Later, I really felt that this person was going too far, so I directly told the seller that I was negotiating with the seller for door-to-door delivery. If it was not delivered to my door, I would ask him to refund the shipping fee. I can’t carry such a heavy item every time. Trouble others all the time.

From then on, he never asked me to go down to get it. He would find a way to bring it to me every time.

So sometimes if you are too talkative, many people will think that you can actually bully you.

For girls, one thing that impressed me deeply is that a company hired several very good-looking interns. As for the male boss, he is the kind of sultry man who often likes to make fun of girls. Some girls could only endure it or keep silent because he was the leader, but one girl directly told her boss that she didn't want her boss to make such a joke with her. She was here to work, not to be teased and joked about. Yes, many people thought that the boss would fire the girl, but he didn't. Instead, he praised her because he appreciated her work ability. I will never tell jokes to her again.

In life, we will find that many times some people are actually testing your bottom line step by step. If you have no bottom line, then he will do whatever he wants to you. Whatever you want to do, if you state your bottom line at the beginning, you will avoid a lot of trouble.

Therefore, no matter what happens in your life or work, you must keep your bottom line and let others know that you cannot violate it and that you have a bottom line.