How to ask a girl for a red envelope?

I believe many boys have encountered it, and sometimes girls will come to ask for red envelopes. In fact, this kind of behavior is not very good in boys' hearts. So if a boy meets a girl and asks for a red envelope, how can he solve the problem of high emotional intelligence?

What if the girl asks me to send a red envelope?

1: flirt with girls

No matter what reason she wants you to give her a red envelope, you can use this method, such as replying: Good boy, I know how to spend my husband's money. Make fun of her as your wife directly, because it is natural for her husband to give money to his wife. Let her know your mind by joking, and at the same time, she is embarrassed to be angry. At most, she will ignore you in the future, but if she likes you, she will get along with you in another way immediately, at least not asking you for a red envelope every day.

2. Play dumb.

When dealing with girls, it is necessary to play dumb occasionally. For example, if she asks you for a red envelope, you can send her a lot of pictures of red envelopes directly, and then say foolishly, I know everything. Take it. You're welcome. Girls will be directly speechless by your behavior, but they can't say anything. They will only think that your EQ is psychologically high. Being your girlfriend should be very happy, because you won't give red envelopes to other girls easily.

Step 3 ask directly

Many brothers will honestly give a girl a red envelope every time she asks you for it, even once or twice, but in the long run, she will only take it for granted, so we can ask her directly when she asks for a red envelope and say, OK, give me a kiss. Girls will ask why, and you can jokingly answer: take other people's money to eliminate disasters. Girls will know what you mean in seconds, and girls with a little self-esteem will restrain themselves in the future and won't be so presumptuous to you again.

How can a girl give me a red envelope to reply to high emotional intelligence?

1, a girl who just met.

When we first met that girl, it might be a day of chatting. Although the chat is good, the girl asks you for a red envelope. Generally speaking, reserved girls don't do such things to lower their social status. Then this girl may get along with you for another purpose. You can directly reply to her: "Do you often ask boys for red envelopes" or simply delete her.

2. Have a good relationship with girls and have a good impression on each other.

When you get along well with girls, have a close relationship and chat well, but you haven't reached the relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend, then girls may take your asking for a red envelope as a joke or a waste test for you. If you give it to the other party easily, you will lose your own framework and low-value behavior, but it is stingy not to give it to girls.

Then when replying to the girl, you can add a condition before giving the red envelope, such as:

"I only send it to my girlfriend. Do you want to be my girlfriend? "

"If you accept my red envelope, I need you to go to the movies/eat with me this weekend."

In short, don't let girls get your red envelope so easily, use your red envelope to narrow the distance with girls, or invite girls.

3. having an affair with a girl

When having an affair with a girl, she has paid a certain price to the girl. According to the sunk cost effect, even if the girl's attitude towards you is not very good, she is not willing to give up, but paying too much will make her feel distressed. Giving a red envelope at this time will definitely make your red envelope more meaningful, such as:

"When we meet, you kiss me and I'll give you a big red envelope, okay?"

"You call me husband, and I will give you a red envelope."

At this time, when girls do what you ask, when giving girls red envelopes, the amount must not be too large, generally within 50 yuan. If a girl says, "How do you send this?" , we can continue to interact with her, such as:

"Don't you think your husband's red envelope is too small? Let's go out for dinner to make it up to you. "

"You just called me husband. If you kiss me, maybe the red envelope will get bigger. "

In short, don't take girls asking for red envelopes as their own requirements, but as a key point in the relationship, guide girls to pay, interact with girls, create an ambiguous atmosphere and upgrade the relationship.

What is the psychology of girls looking for me to send red envelopes?

1. Girls just want your money.

It is not ruled out that this girl is money-worshipping and superficial, especially when she knows that you are rich, she will want something from you. Generally, this kind of girl's circle of friends is to show off wealth and compare with others. Don't be stupid enough to give this girl a red envelope when you meet her. This will only make her feel worse and continue to ask you for it.

2. Girls test your waste.

I don't know when it started. A boy's brain-dead theory of poisoned chicken soup is popular on the internet, which makes countless girls believe it. Many brothers feel that it is stingy not to send a message to girls, and they are worried that the other party will be angry, so they immediately send a red envelope, and then they can only receive a thank you from girls, and then ignore you. Some girls think you are so generous and ask you for it every day. If you send it once and don't send it the second time, the girl thinks you don't like her and don't want to talk to you.

3. A girl's joke

There are also some economic-related topics that we chat with girls, such as telling girls to work overtime and girls to work overtime. Then you must have made a lot of money. Send me a red envelope. Actually, it's probably just a joke. It doesn't matter whether you give it to a girl or not.

How much should a girl give me a red envelope?

First, the initial stage: 5-50 yuan

Two people just met, at this time, you naturally can't send more. If there is a holiday, send whatever you think is appropriate. Nowadays, many girls take all the festivals for themselves except Tomb-Sweeping Day, but all the festivals will receive red envelopes.

But when we first met, we only sent them on necessary festivals, such as New Year's Eve, her birthday, Dragon Boat Festival and so on. Some people may think that 5 yuan is too little, but others want to give something like "5.20" or "666". But not more than 50 yuan, because it may make her think in the direction of the gold digger. As for the specific figures issued, it still depends on the specific situation.

Second, the ambiguous stage: 10-200 yuan

At this time, you are already familiar with it and have entered the common ambiguous stage. You two already have a certain emotional foundation. But not too much. At this stage, the period of giving red envelopes can be relaxed, for example, not only on holidays, but also when girls are sad and sad, saying that they are pitifully hungry.

Generally, the number sent is "66", or her age, and which is more generous, "13. 14" or "13 1.4". Don't exceed 200, after all, it's just an ambiguous stage.

Third, the love stage: 100-520 yuan

Just like the news mentioned above, in fact, the woman wanted her boyfriend to show off in front of her colleagues, but her boyfriend thought it was March 8 and sent a "3.8", which angered her.

In the love stage, red envelopes are also given a little more, such as "13 1.4", "200" or "520". If it is an important holiday such as Valentine's Day, just send a "520", if not, just send a "200".