When my daughter can't go back to her mother's house, what should I pay attention to in the solar terms of the winter solstice?

During the solar term from the winter solstice, the daughter can't go back to her mother's house because her husband's family is very particular, and there is such a custom among the people. "The solstice of winter is not winter, and my father-in-law dies in winter." In order to get lucky, daughters usually don't go back to their parents' house during the solar term from winter to Sunday, but they will definitely choose to spend their holidays at their father-in-law's house.

1, traditional custom, the winter of solstice is not winter, and my father-in-law dies in winter. Although it is already 2020, some traditional customs have been handed down among the people, especially in rural areas, and some elderly people still like to accept these traditional concepts. For example, I heard something the other day. On the solstice of winter, a young man in his hometown was angry with his mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law was also very strong. She took all the money earned by the young husband and said that she would help them save money. The young man didn't want to, because after two people got married, the money earned by the husband should be kept by the young man, but the mother-in-law insisted on holding the money, and the young man was particularly angry. On the day of winter solstice, I choose to go back to my parents' home to spend the winter solstice. My mother-in-law ordered the young man's husband to take him back. The young man didn't want to go home, and the contradiction between them deepened. This example is not a case in rural areas. Therefore, home and everything, even if you don't believe it, it is best to have the winter solstice at your in-laws' home.

It's imperative to change customs, and everything goes well at home. Let's have dinner together on the solstice of winter.

There are some ancient traditions that are very faithful in the hearts of the elderly, but they are unwilling to follow in the hearts of young people. For example, women will think that the winter solstice is the largest of the 24 solar terms. Why can't I go home to see my parents? Must I leave my parents? This is a filial girl who never forgets her parents after marriage. Filial piety is a virtue of the Chinese nation, which we should respect and carry forward. Therefore, it is imperative to change customs. As the saying goes, everything is prosperous at home, and the elderly on both sides should not be lost. There are some good traditions to inherit, and filial piety to the elderly is a top priority. On the solstice of winter, we might as well invite the old people from both families to have a reunion dinner. The solstice of winter is the New Year, and they will have a reunion, eat glutinous rice balls and stay together. After the winter solstice, they will be one year old. Every one,

Is there anything special about the winter solstice in your place? I am in the northeast. We want to eat jiaozi on the solstice in winter, because we are afraid of freezing our ears. We didn't say anything about not going back to our parents' house for the solstice in winter. The solstice in winter is a festival for us in China. I like traditional festivals in China. When the solstice of winter comes, the New Year in China is not far away.