How to reply after rejection?

When a girl refuses your invitation, in order to avoid embarrassment, we can follow the girl's words, such as:

Girl: It doesn't feel good to come out with you soon after I met you, does it?

Boy: Yes, I'm thoughtless, but I'm really happy during my time with you, and I don't look like a bad person.

Girl: Haha

In the face of girls' rejection, don't choose to continue to ask the reasons for rejection and rationalize what girls say. Give her a reasonable reason, simple and not too exaggerated, in order to give her a step down. If girls really don't want to come out, don't continue to invite them at this time and turn it into a relaxed topic.

Step 2 show understanding and approval

When a girl refuses your invitation, in a sense, her attraction has not been achieved. At this time, show your understanding and approval as much as possible to deepen her attraction and try to leave a good impression on her, such as:

Girl: Sorry, I have to take the xx exam these days, so I may not be able to go out with you.

Boy: I heard that this exam is very difficult. How are you doing? Are you sure?

Girl: Fine, just nervous.

Boy: Nervousness is attention. Come on, do well in the exam, and you will pass it.

Whether the girl really wants to take the exam or not, responding to her like this will make the girl feel that you respect her and will not give her a sense of oppression.

3, appropriate humor, to resolve embarrassment.

Many embarrassing situations can be laughed off in a humorous way. The same is true for inviting girls to be rejected. For example:

Girl: We don't know each other, do we? Forget it.

Boy: I'm relieved if you don't agree. I don't think it's reliable either Actually, I'm not a casual person.

Girl: Haha

When a girl is rejected, don't try to find an excuse to cover it up, it will only be more embarrassing. In this humorous way, Doby herself told her that it was a good thing that she didn't succeed, but it could make the other person feel better!

Step 4 Throw the question to the girls

Girls may reject you because of insecurity, so don't take the initiative to invite girls, which will easily disgust girls. The correct way is to throw the invitation questions to girls to make choices, such as:

Girl: Sorry, I have something to do today. Let's go out together next time.

Boy: OK, I get it. You are busy.

Girl: Yes.

Boy: By the way, there will be a good movie next week. You won't refuse me again, will you?

Girl: OK, I see.

In this way, we must pay attention to the attitude of girls. If the girl is impatient when she invites for the second time, then don't try to invite. You can choose to close the distance with girls first. If the girl's attitude is willing, you can prepare for the next date in advance.