Blame Freud: A Bad Love Story between Dad and Three Daughters

In fact, I have read many books about Freud's psychological theory before, but those theoretical words make my head swell, and it is not easy to get in, empathize with others, understand deeply and read very tired. I want to find a solution to my psychological problems, but I give up every time I read it, because I know I can't do it well.

Blame Freud is a wonderful book. The author uses novels to solve the problems and puzzles in love, and constructs a very realistic social problem perfectly with the activities and real emotional life of the characters, which is easy to substitute into imagination and can personally experience the state, struggle and inevitability of the characters.

First of all, the structure of Blame Freud is really good, simple and direct, without using some complicated sentences, and each chapter is the name of the character. The names of foreigners' works are very concise, just like the names of many movies, and they are directly replaced by the names of characters. Unlike many of China's works, these names have acquired special metaphors or are difficult to understand. Unlike the chapter titles in Blame Freud, we name people directly, and then express the action state, environment and heart of the characters. Each chapter is not long, but we can truly experience the character's current moment, her activities and inner changes at that moment, and the author's writing technique is unique, especially vivid, flexible, direct, direct or direct. But the positive grasp is particularly accurate and especially in place.

In fact, the relationship between people will be clarified after reading it slowly. Francisco is a 50-year-old single father+psychologist. His role is an important carrier in this story, because with his observation, we can find the love problems of other characters and solve their answers. Moreover, Francesco is good at dealing with other people's emotional crises, so his performance and solutions in these crises are what readers expect most. However, just like the principle of "medical autonomy", Francisco himself has fallen into the dilemma of unrequited love, or it may be because of his emotional influence or family model that his three daughters' emotional path is particularly unfavorable.

So the names that popped up at first were all Freud's fault: Sarah, Marta and Emma were all Francesco's daughters. I also read from some psychological works in the past that a person's family pattern is hereditary. Your family background has a profound influence on you. Sometimes, although it is not obvious, you really live in that fate.

Many works on the internet and now are discussing the influence of family background on a person. Then many experts directly admit that your parents' family patterns and emotional experiences will inevitably affect you. Your mode of thinking, your perspective on emotional problems, and the means, methods and emotions to deal with such problems all have inherent natural limitations. This is your sorrow, but you may have no choice.

In fact, it is difficult for many people to really break through themselves.

People who can really break through themselves have a particularly strong personality, which makes their lives plummet, and then break through the limitations of human nature, jump out of their inherent destiny, lead an unexpected life and achieve greater success in life.

But such people do not represent the majority. Most of us are ordinary people. We have spent our whole lives, maybe we haven't understood our purpose in life and our emotional problems. I don't know how bad, wrong and stupid I am. Please enter a picture description.

Sarah, 30. Marta, 29 years old. Emma, 18 years old.

All three women have outstanding emotional problems. First, Sarah, when she decided to marry Judy, Judy suddenly disappeared. Her love failed, but it seems more difficult for her to find the perfect lover.

The real 9-year-old Marta always falls in love with some abnormal people and doesn't know what her problem is. Because this time, she fell in love with a book thief. He is charming, but he is deaf and dumb ... by the way, Marta is a bookseller with limited perspective, but her choice really makes her family miserable.

Emma is only 18 years old, a smart and lively student, and falls in love with an architect. Should we applaud her bright future? But the person she loves, the almost perfect person in her eyes, is 50 years old and has long been her husband. ...

You see, their love is sick.

I don't think it's because their father Francisco is a psychologist.

But it must have something to do with Francisco and this family.

Blaming Freud is a story full of continuous inversion. Panoramic display of the love story of the Francisco family of four, with a strong sense of substitution. You really feel the emotional state of the three daughters and their father, and their morbid love story in this family. The story and characters are unfolded in a family mode, which is particularly harmonious and true, and the plot is particularly well developed, especially jumping out, and it feels full of lines when reading. The author is particularly wise and the translator's translation is particularly accurate.