What if you don't get married in your 30 s and are laughed at by people around you?

Just keep your mind straight. Life belongs to you, not to others, and you don't live for others.

There are many unmarried girls at the age of 30 now. In the city, people may feel that it doesn't matter, and they must fight for their careers first, but in the countryside, it is a different result. People in neighboring villages will talk about it one after another, and maybe they will come to your house to have a look. Everyone in rural areas feels curious about something, and generally in rural areas, many people get married in their early twenties. If the family conditions are average, women may not be allowed to go to college and get married directly. The place where I was born is also the countryside, where the scenery is beautiful, the air is particularly good and the environment is particularly good. Later, because of my father's work, our whole family went to the city and only went back to see relatives during the Chinese New Year holiday. When I grow up, a bunch of uncles and aunts will ask when to get married and when to bring it back. But I didn't bring them back to my hometown until I was 29 years old, so I was really afraid to go back, and sometimes I even found some excuses not to go back. Mom and dad often talk about this. They say that people in the village say that there is something wrong with me, and they are embarrassed by not looking for a boyfriend and not introducing me. I am also very helpless.

But I think life is my own. There is no need to make do for anyone or for anyone, to accept something you don't like. At this time, I had to be strong in my heart and resist bombing. I'm not afraid of being scolded, but my parents are more difficult to face than me. I always say that the right person hasn't come yet. If he comes, I will be very happy. After all, some things can't be met.