What’s some good relationship advice in college?

1. Be careful to take care of yourself. There is a saying that falling in love at first sight is a sign of rebellion, and falling in love over time is a matter of weighing the pros and cons. What I wrote is a bit crude, but it still makes sense. Organizing yourself in a relationship is a sign of respecting and valuing the other person. After all, we have to see you first before we have the opportunity to understand your interesting soul.

2. Communicate more and understand more You think the other person understands everything, but in fact the other person is stupid and knows nothing. Communication and understanding are the most important glue in a relationship. Even if you choose to quarrel, don't settle it in a cold war. The colder you are, the colder your heart will be.

3. Don’t use novels and idol dramas as references. You and I are all mortal, and don’t use the Mary Sue plots in TV dramas and novels to set your own life. Lowering the happiness in love will only increase the loss; if you do it too much, your boyfriend will do it.

4. Don’t think about eternity, and don’t easily believe what the other person says. Eternity is still in your youth. There is no future that is so certain. Love is a science, learn to balance, learn to examine, and learn to grow.

5. A sense of security is given by oneself. Regarding this point, I often hear boys say that the reason for breaking up was that she cared too much about me, and too much concern would turn into a burden. Don't rely on the other person too much so you won't be too sad when you leave. You can act coquettishly and pretend to be jealous, which is quite warm. But remember to always love yourself more, and don't give up your circle of friends or the life you're used to because of love. When you have an independent personality, whether it is finances or life, you will have sufficient security.

6. Don’t mention breaking up easily, and don’t mention getting back together easily. Breaking up is just like mentioning divorce. If you talk about it too much, you will take it seriously. However, after a breakup, most people get back together and then break up again for the same reason. So why repeat the same mistakes?

7. Don’t be friends with your ex. Your ex is someone who has left traces in your heart. You can treat him as an acquaintance, but he cannot become a friend. Being friends under the guise of an ex is either because of love or because of sex. No matter which one it is, it is irrational. Be honest with each other when we are together, and be at ease when we are apart. Falling in love in college is actually quite beautiful. There are not so many considerations and it doesn’t require such high costs. When two people go to class together, study together, and eat together, they feel warm. You like the sunshine in him and you are attached to the beauty in her heart. , the two of them watched the spring, summer, autumn and winter of the campus together. No matter what the final result is, it will become a beautiful memory in your youth.