Every step you take is important.

20 17.9. 14, I took a look at the countdown to the entrance examination, 100 days, and my heart thumped involuntarily.

Every day, there are hundreds of ups and downs between complacency and despair. However, there is not much time left, vaguely, you feel a little too late.

Calculate the enrollment rate of my school in the first two years, and feel that I don't belong to that percentage. Look at the people around you, those who are studying and working. They seem to be lonely and can't find their place anywhere.

A few months ago, when you saw the description of graduate identity in the experience post:

"A group died on May 1 day, a group died in the summer vacation, a group died when the outline of the target institution was announced, a group died on 1 month1day, and a group died when they arrived at the examination room."

At that time, you still smiled disdainfully: Is it so exaggerated? Now, what you find seems to be true, because you are a little shaken.

Little Z around me, one day in September, suddenly wanted to give up. She called her mother in fear and tried to tell her her decision. Later, at two o'clock in the morning, she sent a circle of friends.

The next day, the story got a lot of praise:

"In this early twenties, the front foot is about to enter this possibly complicated and unknown society, and the back foot is still in the ivory tower.

Confusion, fear and unknown should be normal.

So, everything is to comfort myself and digest it. You can take your time, but don't stop.

You can have some extra ideas, but don't be disturbed by them. Concentrate ... "

When dealing with learning and even feelings, in fact, most people are not afraid of hard work, not afraid of paying, but afraid of the final failure after going all out. But the world itself is not so beautiful, why do you have to ask yourself to do everything smoothly?

The confidence of growing up should be that even if you go all out, you still fail and you can face it calmly. At the same time, we should have enough faith that every step we take is counted and will have its due value one day. "

? "Every step you take counts", I don't know how many people have been inspired, which makes people passionate and excited. I only persisted for a few days in a blink of an eye, and then I began to add inner drama to myself.

When reading this positive energy sentence, most people tend to focus on the first half of the sentence and automatically ignore the "someday" in the second half.

The pace of modern society is too fast, which invisibly brings a sense of urgency to people. I try a little hard and can't wait to see the effect immediately.

Before I entered, I began to wonder if I was in the wrong direction, in the wrong way, or even if I lacked the talent to do it.

Some people who want to lose weight can't wait to weigh it several times a day. When they expect it, the number on it suddenly becomes smaller. This spirit of self-reflection is commendable, but most people forget the fact that there is often a time difference and time delay between giving and returning. It may take months, years or even decades, so you need your sincerity and patience.

But when you really take every step with your heart, you can detect those subtle changes, and those small changes will really bring you some small surprises and let you see your growth.

As a member of the million-strong postgraduate entrance examination army, I have been carefully preparing for the exam these months, hoping to give you encouragement.

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Finally, I stopped obsessing and learned how to make choices.

Regarding how to make a choice, one of Zhihu's highly respected answers is: What matters is not how to choose, but how to do it after choosing.

One's postgraduate entrance examination is such a big thing, which is related to the development of contacts in the future, the stimulation of curiosity, and even the meeting with the other half in my heart. It's a turning point in life.

This answer is almost the same as no answer.

As a northerner, I just wanted to experience the southern life of people with small bridges and flowing water, so I saw about 2 1 1 colleges in the south, and then I probably chose several target colleges.

I don't know if anyone is as entangled and rational as I am, thinking about the pros and cons of both sides. Then, then, it's even more tangled. Yes, it's like the top student in the college entrance examination is in a dilemma between Tsinghua and Peking University.

And choosing a school, just like treating the object of marriage choice, requires both sides to be evenly matched. But after seeing many schools, either you look down on her or she looks down on you.

Therefore, the matter of choosing a school can only be delayed again and again, which is indescribable to myself.

Until one day, I saw all kinds of wonderful motives for choosing schools in several postgraduate groups, and my heart suddenly became clear.

A senior student in China Ocean University (985,2 1 1)17 wants to tap his potential as a teacher, so he chose Huazhong Normal University (211) for the postgraduate entrance examination.

One undergraduate is a young lady majoring in Chinese in Nanjing Normal University (2 1 1), and she chose Shanghai Normal University (an ordinary undergraduate). Because she felt that the master's Chinese major was stronger, but she didn't do well in the exam, she tried to adjust and look around, and actually entered Beijing Normal University. I suddenly wonder if 985,211is not that important. I don't know if I come from a different background. )

There is also a graduate from the Computer Department of Beijing Normal University (a major chosen by my parents as an undergraduate). After working in Japan for ten years, he suddenly remembered his desire to be a teacher and was admitted to Huazhong Normal University.

Another experienced three or four wars and finally realized his dream of Fudan University.

There is also a liberal arts woman who believes and decides to meet her other half during graduate school, so she only thinks about that pile of science and technology colleges. Now that I think about it, she is really scheming. The ratio of male to female in polytechnic colleges, where girls are definitely treasures.

You see, among all the factors considered when choosing a school, only one factor pushed them to the end, but because their inner desire is strong enough, that light has infinite power to drive away the long night.

Therefore, whether you choose a school or make a choice in the future, you might as well ask yourself what you really want.

But if the path you choose fails, will you feel sorry for not choosing the safe path?

Mr. Tao said: There are only two paths in life: one is to practice, that is, the path you are taking; One is to regret, just think about it if you have nothing to do.

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Suddenly I met the awesome people around me and felt I should take action.

Suddenly I found that everyone around me was doing what I always wanted to do but didn't, and then I started the Three Provinces Action.

It was also during the period of collecting postgraduate entrance examination materials that I accidentally met a senior admitted to East China Normal University in our college.

East China Normal University, as an excellent teacher who has been inspiring since middle school, is simply the place I want to go in my next life.

Look at the low rate of postgraduate entrance examination for this major. It turned out that it was not a walk, but it was admitted by myself (only five people were recruited in that direction).

I was full of admiration before I met him. So I got up the courage and had the cheek to consult the shortcut of the ideal college.

The senior is thin and weak, and she is low. I can't see that she has so much energy.

When talking about his preparation experience, as expected, he is modest and low-key.

Prepare well, don't think too much, concentrate on reading reference books, accumulate vocabulary, study real questions, and stick to it.

You see, this is the humility of successful people. When Liu talked about his sister's beauty with milk tea, he said that he was face-blind and could not tell whether she was beautiful or not. It is the same.

After careful and in-depth exchanges, I realized that Renmin University is really low-key and really unprofitable. They have read more than 500 books. Okay, what else do I have to ask? What else do I have to ask?

Reading ten thousand volumes of poetry books is also an ideal state that I have always wanted to pursue. However, with so many professional classes every week, the teacher still arranges some unimportant tasks all day, so there is no time.

But when I think about it, my senior and my class are all the same, so where did my college time slip away?

Suddenly thought of a roommate's evaluation of me:

As a freshman, I don't know if your study is enough for tuition, but your accommodation is really worth it. . .

Yes, that's right. In order to make up for my greed in high school, my bed and I became the closest friends in my freshman year.

I don't know if everyone feels the same way. Wang Jianlin has a small goal of 100 million yuan. Just listen and you will know.

But people around you, people who used to be in the same environment as you, suddenly made a little progress.

There was a sudden wave in my heart. I can't tell whether it was an encouragement, an unwillingness, or a little jealousy, and then I brought a little regret.

But I am still very grateful to some people around me. That wave may push you to break through the obstacles you set for yourself at some point.

Then, finally started to act.

You see, I finally found time to read some books I wanted to read, and then there was this article you saw.

three

I came across how others make a good speech: the power of writing word for word.

How can I make a good speech? There are many related introductions on the internet about the design of speech content, the mobilization of atmosphere, posture and dress.

However, I always feel that the operability is not very strong. Until one time, in a postgraduate group, the senior teacher gave a professional course and spoke fluently and coherently.

Then, I happened to find that my senior had prepared a dozen pages of manuscripts, full of words, covering every word of her lecture.

Including "good afternoon everyone", as long as it is said, it is all on it.

I was shocked at that time that there was such an operation.

How well prepared, speeches can be recorded verbatim in advance.

Later, I learned that this recording method is called verbatim draft.

Baidu defines it as: verbatim manuscripts are usually used for interviews in academic research, or when it is necessary to keep the content of a speech complete.

Generally, the recording will be made first, and then the recorded file will be typed into an electronic file word by word or written into words word by word. This is a verbatim draft.

Once again, the word-for-word manuscript turned out to be a secret weapon commonly used by some new oriental teachers.

All new teachers in New Oriental should write a word-for-word manuscript, including the jokes and jokes you told in class. The new teacher recited hundreds of thousands of words in each course, and the number of words can be published completely. Prepare all the humorous parts of this lesson to this extent, consciously or unconsciously, you will naturally feel very powerful, and blow the clouds with strong winds. )

Do you remember how you prepared your speech?

Although I don't have any talent and confidence in speaking, I just make a general outline every time I prepare. Think about the general point, even whimsical, and hope to play at any time according to the state of being present at that time.

In this way, the sense of existence can only become more passive and flustered.

I didn't understand the problem until I saw the verbatim draft prepared by others.

Since then, I have tried to use this method, carefully preparing every speech, and constantly practicing and adjusting.

In fact, the process of writing a manuscript word for word is not only to help you clear your mind, but also to test whether you can really express what you want in words.

I practiced this method repeatedly a few days ago and achieved good results in that trial lecture.

You see, if I had given up directly because the success rate of postgraduate entrance examination was too low, I wouldn't have these feelings and growth.

Every step you take with your heart actually counts.

Maybe you are still in self-doubt, struggling and even suffering.

But you should know that our brain has the function of forgetting, and it will consciously forget the pain.

"Return to Provence" said: Memory is an editor with too many prejudices and emotions. He often keeps what he likes on himself, but turns a deaf ear to those unsatisfactory things. Under such editing, the rosy past is as clear as yesterday, and all the good times have been injected with magical magic. Unhappy days gradually fade away until they disappear, leaving only a charming and hazy sunshine.

So, be firm, walk with more heart and exert more force.