When you are particularly lonely and lost inside, who will you think of for the first time?

When you are particularly lonely and lost inside, who will you think of for the first time?

Of course, you will miss those closest to you, those who can comfort you, those who can understand you and help you.

This person is either his parents, his lover or his friend.

Who to think of first depends on what causes the feeling of special loneliness and loss inside.

Some things can be found by parents, some things can be found by lovers, and some things can only be found by friends.

Once I was sick, I didn't tell my parents for fear that my parents would miss me.

Only my lover is with me. Although I take care of him, I am also very busy at work.

Whenever I am alone, I miss my parents very much, especially my mother. I want to go back to my mother.

But I'm afraid she will miss me, so I dare not tell her. Every time I call, I say I'm fine.

"There are many disappointments in life, loneliness and loss will make the mind gloomy." When my heart is particularly lonely and lost, the first thing I think of is myself, how to get out of this loneliness and loss quickly!

I think many people have had this experience, and sometimes when they are alone, they will feel inexplicable loneliness and loss, and this feeling will come unconsciously! When you feel bad!

I used to find a way to get out of this situation myself. I did it. I will think about things that interest me, happy things, and move. Taking action can not only divert attention, but also make yourself active! This is a very good method!

If I am at home, I will be quiet, reading and writing. Personally, I think this is a very quiet way for me, and I like it!

Maybe some people will think of someone when they are lonely and lost. In fact, there are many feelings of dependence and dependence! Loneliness in this respect is really loneliness. Maybe it is much more lively in the usual environment, and suddenly it will feel very uncomfortable for a long time!

First, thank you for answering this question.

When I am particularly lonely and frustrated, I always think of the man who once loved deeply but failed to walk together in the end-my first love.

People's life is not smooth sailing, and everyone will encounter some bumps more or less. Therefore, we will inevitably encounter some unhappy things in our life, which will lead us to loneliness and frustration. At this time, we must learn to dissolve and disperse. Only in this way can we live and work better.

Whenever I am particularly lonely and depressed, I will stay quietly for a while, and I will clear my mind to find people and things that can warm and comfort myself to eliminate that loneliness and depression. And this man is my first love, the first love is a man I once loved deeply. I feel extremely happy when I think of him.

When I am lonely and frustrated: I miss his smile; I miss his figure; I think his voice is very magnetic; I miss the wonderful and happy things he has done for me.

At the moment when I am lonely and frustrated, his smile and his figure will always occupy my whole heart. If he is by my side, when I am lonely and frustrated, he will definitely do something for me to make me happy and get out of loneliness and frustration.

I remember one time when I came home from work, I suddenly felt very lonely and lost, so I sat quietly by the window and stared out the window. My first love, when he came back from work and looked at my state, he knew something was wrong with me.

So his figure has been dangling in front of me, never leaving me for a moment, and he also took out his eighteen martial arts: make me a favorite snack in the future; Sing me a favorite song later; Tell me some jokes that he thinks are funny later. Seeing that I was still sitting, he finally came over, hugged me gently and said with a smile, "honey, no matter what happens, don't be afraid, I'm here!" " ..... That scene is really beautiful and warm!

So when I think of my first love, I feel so warm and happy, and my mood instantly becomes beautiful. What loneliness and frustration, what troubles and troubles, will soon be forgotten and vanished.

When you are particularly lonely and depressed inside, think more about those people and things that can make you warm and those that can make you happy. In this way, you will soon get out of loneliness and depression and start a new job and life!

When I am particularly lonely and lost, I often think of keeping a diary and combing my inner emotions in front of a blank sheet of paper. When words jump out of my pen, like the wind blowing away leaves, like clouds flying in the blue sky, maybe it will be a poem, maybe it will be just a simple record, maybe it will remind me of the past, and all these will flow out slowly in my pen, like a friend whispering to himself, slowly releasing my depressed emotions.

Words are also friends. As long as you write, they will accompany you and never leave. Whether you are sad or happy, when you look back on the past, they will all become beautiful memories. Sometimes, when I look up my previous records, I don't believe that I ever had that mentality. Seeing the written words and vividly restoring the past, sometimes I am stupid, sometimes I am sad, eccentric, stingy, enthusiastic, and so on, which will bring me a little happiness.

It is rare to know yourself in life. It is more difficult to make friends with someone who can pick up the phone, talk on the phone at any time and fully absorb his emotions than winning the lottery. It's best to ask for help from outside. When you get used to this method, you can adjust yourself well.

Besides, I don't want to give my friends bad feelings. I hope I can be a good person, just like the warm and kind angel Godfrey Tsao. @ Godfrey Tsao Godfrey

When you are helpless, please see: 1, failure, sadness, sadness. After all, it only belongs to yesterday's past, and its success is slim and far away, but it has an eternal future. 2. Cherish everything that belongs to you, including failure. Don't be afraid of stumbling blocks. Tripping you may remind you that the road in life is not smooth. If you want to live a chic life, please don't care about everything, otherwise you will feel very tired. There are shadows in life all the time, but please believe that shadows are always crawling and will never stand up. 6. Treat life with a melancholy attitude, and life will never return your happiness. 7. Don't immerse yourself in the melancholy circle, shake your head and face life calmly, and you will be as happy as others. 8. When you are lonely, you'd better travel. Although life is heavy, it is not limited to this youthful chic. 9. Visiting friends when you are in a bad mood is not to bring them distress, but to experience other people's lifestyles. 10, life is a magical palette, which can make you brilliant or pale. When wandering, please see: 1. Some things are precious only when they are lost. 2. Many times, it's not that we can't find happiness, but that we have lost the happiness in our hands. 3. Good looks may bring you good luck, but they may not bring you happiness. 4, looking for a long time, suddenly looking back, only to find that the best is around. Please cherish what you have now, and your life will not be empty.

I really miss my son when I see other people's children alive and kicking around their parents. Every time I think of him, my tears slowly slide down, and the only thing that hurts me is myself.

People make life colorful because of their rich emotions, and it is precisely because of loneliness and helplessness that they have the warmth and happiness of reunion!

Up to now, I have been very lonely, and I have only lost twice in my heart.

When I failed in the college entrance examination for the first time and my classmates were immersed in all kinds of high, I felt so out of place and abandoned by the whole world, especially when I thought of all kinds of memories with him, I felt that I was destined to live far apart and die alone. Fortunately, in the end, his letter helped him out of the haze. There was no rhetoric, no promise, only the simplest and simple concern!

The second time, regardless of the opposition of everyone in the family, I went into the sea to do business myself. Whether it's windy or snowy, I get up at 5 o'clock every day and close the stall at 8 o'clock in the evening. In the end, I couldn't last three years and finally sold the shop. I lost about 80 thousand back and forth. I didn't make any money, and my waist muscles were strained. I was 27 years old! At that time, I felt that the road I chose, if I had to go on, would be dragged into the bottomless abyss. This is a popular saying on the Internet. This is even worse for my poor family. I shut myself in the house for a month and didn't want to do anything. Finally, my parents enlightened me every day, and I slowly came out. ...

The first thing that comes to mind is the moon, because a child once told me that the moonlight is really beautiful tonight, but I said that there is no moon when it rains tonight.

I will think of my daughter, because I am divorced, and the child and her father can't go back to visit the child often for other reasons. Whenever I feel lonely and lost, I will think of my child and wonder what she is doing now, whether she is playing or studying, whether her father scolded her or not, and whether she had a good meal. I think about these things almost every day, which is also the pain of my life! So I work hard to make money in order to give my child a stable future, let her study hard and be a useful person to the country in the future. This is also a dream of mine.

There is a saying: "I hope you can face all loneliness calmly, after all, no one can accompany you forever." We will walk alone eventually, but it doesn't matter. A person can still wander around the world, sing songs about wine in a complicated world and live a free life. "

No one likes loneliness by nature, but when we are used to loneliness, we can treat ourselves gently, and one day we will find that loneliness is actually a rare beauty.

I have a long life. May you live up to each other when you are alone, and live up to yourself when you are alone. Learn to reconcile with loneliness and embrace all the little blessings in life.