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Joke sentences of unmarried mothers with children

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"I am an unmarried nanny, pregnant for six months. I am four years older than my father and have been in free love for four years. In the years before pregnancy, our relationship can be said to be particularly good. We live together, watch movies, travel and do housework.

But why not get married when the relationship is so good? Because his parents don't agree, we are not at home. He is an only child and very filial. I am particularly sad to see him in a dilemma many times. I secretly swear in my heart that if he hasn't persuaded his parents to marry me by the end of 20 18, I will let him go and find my own happiness.

At this time, the accident happened. 20/kloc-pregnant in June of July. I naively thought it was a good thing and a catalyst for feelings, but I never expected it to be a bomb. When he heard the news that I was pregnant, he was shocked, without joy, only angry.

By the time I was pregnant for more than three months, I gradually found that he had changed a lot. He began to get upset because of a little thing, yelling at me, sleeping with his back to me and not even touching his hand. My intuition told me if he had another woman, and I began to be particularly sensitive. There was such a woman.

I also became very manic and uncontrollable. He talked to this woman on the phone in front of me, and after dating me behind my back, I began to get upset. In his eyes, he became crazy and unreasonable, and his reaction was to fight violence with violence.

He began to become more and more indifferent, even unable to sleep all night. He has tried to escape. The other day, he heard his colleague tell me that he saw him walking down the street hand in hand with that girl. Last night, I dreamed that I had a miscarriage. I cried and regretted all kinds of things in my dream, and finally I was awakened by crying. After waking up, I stroked my stomach, glad it was a dream. I know that unmarried mothers are not so easy to be. Even if others don't tell me, I can think of all the hardships of raising children alone. I sometimes ask myself how difficult the road ahead is. Are you really ready for everything? But he is already a little life. Should I give birth to him? "

My suggestion: He didn't want to marry you at first. Of course he will yell at you after you get pregnant. It bothers him that you want to keep the child by yourself. This is a great worry in his life.

You must give birth to this child now, but if you don't want to be entangled in endless troubles for the rest of your life, you really can't have this child, or you subconsciously want to let him come back through this child, then you are stupid.

Have you ever thought about the worst result? Not to mention how you feed this child alone, have you ever thought about what kind of psychological trauma this child will have when facing other children in the growing environment? Do you know what effect this trauma will have on the growth of this child? You don't know. You can compare your family environment and see what kind of family environment you can give your children. After this child is born, you can only give him a worse growth environment. The growth environment I am talking about is not only material, but also spiritual.

Even if you raise this child, he will compete with other peers in the future. What can he have? Never fantasize that you can raise your children well, which is impossible, because you can't even handle your own situation well, let alone think that you can educate your children well.

If he really wants to marry you, will he do something for you? For example, if he praises you more in front of his parents and talks about your advantages, the degree of parents' opposition will be much less. If he wants, he can even quarrel with his parents for you, and his parents can't disown him just because he married you. In fact, how did he do it? All he did was tell you that your parents objected and told you to back down.

I just want to tell you the truth. The fact is, he has always regarded you as a comforter of feelings, but he has never regarded you as the object of marriage from beginning to end. Even if you get married, the result will not be good and you will face more troubles in the future.