Why does my girlfriend think I'm always hurting her?

First, you may communicate too little. Of course, if she thinks she is stubborn and won't communicate with you, there is nothing she can do. When something really happens to her, she will understand you. Second, it is also necessary that you are too good to her, and everything can't be obedient; Third, women are not used to management, which is what you said, and they will not be happy together! There are many women in the world!