I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and he still asks for AA when we go out to eat. Is this boy stingy?

First correct your point of view. I think it is not necessary for a boy to pay for a date with a girl. If he is willing to take the initiative to bear the cost of the date, it shows that he is a boy with emotional intelligence and a gentleman. But even if he is unwilling to bear the cost, you have no right to scold him. He is a scumbag or a petty person. In Japan, it is clear that when a boy is dating a girl, he wants to be in an aa relationship. The boy will make this request to the girl generously, and the girl will not feel inappropriate. I don’t know why in China, when a boy goes out with a girl, the boy must pay for it.

I used to follow a blogger who went to college in Japan, and she published a special episode on Station B, which is about who pays for dates between boys and girls in Japan? She asked an authentic Japanese boy to go out on a date. The two of them went out to eat, watch a movie and go to a drugstore to buy a lot of cosmetics. However, the boy did not mention asking for money to the blogger during the entire process. At first, the blogger thought it was a rumor that Japanese boys and girls were dating AA, but when they parted ways, the boy suddenly took out a bunch of money from his bag. He took out the calculator and started asking the blogger for money. Moreover, this Japanese boy's behavior was very natural, without any embarrassment. It seems that this is indeed a very common thing in Japan.

Nowadays, we advocate a world of equality between men and women. Since we advocate equality between men and women, why do boys have to bear the dating expenses of girls? Since equality is advocated, everything should be equal. Maybe girls are born weak, so boys need to take extra care of girls in some things, but I think there is no problem at all if we go out to eat together and girls pay part of the cost, and boys don’t need to take care of them. On the contrary, those girls who absolutely require boys to pay for a date make me think there is something wrong with my thinking.