What should you do on the first day of a blind date?

First: Your clothes must be clean. This is for sure. Even if you don’t dress up, your family and friends will dress you up, otherwise they won’t let you go out.

Second: Pay attention to small things. Because both people are strangers, every detail will become a factor in examining each other. 8Q

Third: Try to avoid money matters. For example, the other party thinks you are not dignified enough or too stingy. And you still don’t know what kind of person the other person is, so avoid it and try to let a third party pay the bill. Or go to the park or take a walk together~~ Have a blind date somewhere that doesn’t cost money.

Fourth: Don’t use bad words. Those who have bad verbal habits should be careful.

Fifth: Never be nervous, have a mentality of contempt for everything, and treat the other party as a paper tiger. This way you stand on a high ground. Psychologically, he has defeated the other party.

Sixth: Never brag to the other party. You can brag at any time, but don’t brag at this time. The bull that has been bragging to the sky will easily hit you when it falls. :F

Seventh: Can you be more humorous? When girls meet humorous boys, they usually laugh and the atmosphere becomes less tense. Please try to remember a few healthy jokes before going on a blind date. They are not pornographic jokes. Remember them.

Eighth: Note that when smiling, girls should smile naughtily or gently, which is a smile. Never open your mouth wide and laugh wildly, as this will easily cause the liquid in your mouth to squirt out. on the other person's face.

Ninth: Most men like gentle, naughty, and cute girls. Most girls like mature, humorous, and crisp men. You can just analyze each other when the time comes.

Tenth: Be careful when you meet a girl who doesn’t like to smile. She is usually a blind date expert, so it’s easy to spot a man’s fake actions. In other words, the other party is a woman who has been deeply hurt by a man. So try your best to behave differently. If you like the other person, you might as well do a difficult performance. This is very difficult... If you don't have the desire to conquer, just let it go. This summary is not complete enough. I hope you will be more enthusiastic. In addition, by the way, I wish you all a happy blind date, kill each other with your eyes, and let the other person be completely conquered by you...

1. Don't trust the intermediary. Many intermediaries recommend to you people who are not the ones you want to find. Men and women, but fourth-rate actors who are trying to find opportunities to hone their acting skills;

2. Be sure to find an enthusiastic and responsible matchmaker, and resolutely prevent you from providing your own material for your matchmaker to entertain himself;

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5. Don’t be afraid of failure and attribute all unsuccessful blind dates to the failure of the other party.

Twelve taboos that men must pay attention to when dating

1. There is no need to dress up deliberately, let alone a head full of mousse, and the hair is as hard as a helmet. If you look like "Shiba" "Ragu" is like a master, with a strand of hair on his forehead and a suit, which is even more disgusting. I wonder if my sister is not disgusted. (Don’t laugh, there are many boys like this, and it is easy for people to do extraordinary things in extraordinary times)

2. Boys generally like to talk nonsense at the top of their lungs, talking about all kinds of nonsense. Damn, actually women are like this too. It can be between friends. It’s called not pretentious. But this is a blind date and everyone is tentative. If you talk too much, the girl’s brain will definitely be starved of oxygen. If she is starved of oxygen, she will definitely become dizzy. I feel nauseous after dizziness. Of course, after "getting it done", you must not be silent. You have to blow hard, haha, or you will be called "boring gourd". 3. Never dress yourself up as a "successful person", an "urban white-collar worker" or a "nouveau riche person in the capital", even if you really are. Since the blind date was introduced by an acquaintance, they must know each other very well. The girl is here to find a man to live with, not to see "Reader". Everyone knows that the money will be spent in secret.

4. You don’t have to go to so many elegant and expensive places. As long as it’s quiet but not secluded, don’t forget to praise women, but don’t be impatient in your speech and behavior. My sister is also very anxious.

5. Talk less about your childhood stories. Many boys always like to tell you when they are picking up girls, "When I was a kid, when I was in elementary school, when I was in junior high school..." I guess there are idiots like this who talk about the history of revolutionary families when they are on a blind date. Talk about your 5-year plan and 10-year plan. When you go on a blind date, your plan is only yours. Nowadays, every girl with a sound brain is trying to be realistic. Your 5-year or 10-year plan is not her plan, so stop it. Otherwise, if you talk too much, the girl will lack oxygen again.

6. When boys go on a blind date, don’t dress in fancy clothes, with many colors. Try to keep it as simple as possible. The texture must be good, and it must be neat and clean. It is best to wear the kind that no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, it is recommended, but Most people can't tell what brand of brand they are. They are young and mature, but they can't be old-fashioned. The girls from my hometown are all older. What are women most afraid of? As people age, their pearls turn yellow. So you may accidentally insinuate her. 7. If your parents accompany you on a blind date, you should pay more attention to this. It is much better to show more attentiveness to her parents than to get close to her. At this time, it is absolutely impossible to say too much about showing determination. I am afraid that it is too little. What about that? Just say whatever you want, you will find that the girl’s parents will always be smiling from ear to ear, as if their son-in-law is riding a dragon right in front of them.

8. Girls care about details. Just keep giving away those small things, but it depends on the financial conditions of the girl’s family. Give her something that makes her feel a little expensive, but not too expensive. Expensive will increase the financial burden on girls. You need to let her understand that you love her with your heart, not with money. In fact, this is all nonsense. You must not give cheap things unless you are as handsome as me. Eyes are a good gift, haha.

9. When you go out alone with girls, don’t put a smile on your face all the time. Having so many smiles will make women think you are “cheesy”. When it’s time to be cool, you have to pretend, man. Being attentive can be very damaging, but don't go too far and be disrespectful. It will hurt your sister's self-esteem. These days, you have to be gentle and gentle. 2N

10. When a girl has a crush on you, remember to control the heat. Ten million sweet words of love are not as good as physical contact. I often call women "tactile animals." Pay attention, this is not the kind of impatient contact. Although girls are also very impatient, haha, as soon as you come into contact with her, she will instinctively avoid you and then become disgusted with you. At this time, you can contact her casually. The trick is to walk together and touch her with your arms. If you accidentally touch her hair, touch her fingers when handing something, there are many opportunities, but you must pretend that "you didn't mean it", don't apologize, just pretend that nothing happened, master this, and soon It will break through the first line of defense and eliminate the feeling of strangeness.

11. Don’t express your bad opinions on issues. In the eyes of a girl, it will be like her mother’s nagging. Even though your opinions can help the family, the country and the world, you can leave it for later. Instead of talking about blind dates and the first few dates, it is better to use simple questions as the content of the conversation, but note that questions are questions, and you don’t expect to get any answers. Before asking, you have to think about the answers. The more humorous the better. This is humor in a woman’s eyes. You can’t say humor directly. You have to let her join in and think about it for a while. The effect is extraordinary. If the best situation is that you and her can say it in unison, it is a “perfect detail.” What is this called? Women call this "telepathy", details determine success or failure, haha. ZsCfDa

12. Remember that a woman is always right. Even if she is wrong and you happen to be very stubborn, don’t try to bluff her. Say the same thing in a variety of ways to make the woman feel that you are doing it for her own good. Then make it easier for her to accept your advice without trying to prove her wrong, the better.

"No feeling" is a very useful word to use when rejecting.

If you have decided in the first meeting that this person is not what you are looking for, end the blind date within 30 or 40 minutes. Go back and call your introducer and say: He is very nice, but I don’t feel anything. I’m sorry. thank you. The easiest way to say no.

Sometimes the introducer will advise you: If the first meeting is okay, it’s better to get in touch with him! Our eager parents would say the same thing. You will be in a dilemma. Under what circumstances would you need to meet for a second time?

Generally speaking, be cautious:

Feeling comes first.

People usually don’t know what they want, but they know what they don’t want. When you meet your blind date, you need to experience a "sense of closeness." People have biomagnetic fields. I can’t explain bioelectricity clearly, but it does exist.

If you don't feel "close" to this person from the bottom of your heart, no matter how tempted you are by external conditions, he or she is usually not your true partner. If you don't have that kind of "closeness", it's not what you want. I won’t come even if I insist on it. Looking back on my own experience, the people I like the most among the few people I have been in contact with have this "feeling of closeness" when they first meet. and! Generally, among more than 20 blind dates, only one person will have a "feeling of closeness." So, you haven’t seen much yet!

Understand the second.

What men should note is that girls are the best animals in disguise. They are born to perform. In this situation, they can’t help but "perform" - not a bad word, it means that she wants you to See what she wants you to know, even though that's not necessarily true. The key is how you see the real her through the "performance". Men usually focus on appearance and ignore a woman’s most important personality traits for men.

What women should pay attention to is that they should attach great importance to themselves rather than the feelings of the other person. A girl who wants to marry is most likely to expand her advantages and ignore her shortcomings because of the other person's temptation. There are many friends around me. Just because the other person likes me, I think I like the other person, which causes huge regrets in life.

It sounds simple, it only takes a few dozen minutes, how do you understand it?

General questions I usually ask and questions I ask myself:

1. What does the other person do? Are you busy? ——What do I think of the nature of his or her work? Do I like that he or she is always busy at work?

2. What do you like to do in your daily life? ——Are his (her) hobbies interesting to me? Is it possible for two people to do it together?

3. Who is at home? ——Is he/she close to his/her family? How will he or she take care of his or her parents? Does he or she love his or her siblings?

4. What kind of person are you looking for? ——Is there a big gap between what he (she) wants and the real me? !

5. What are the advantages and disadvantages? ——Do I appreciate his or her merits? Can I accept the shortcomings?

Although it is efficient, it is too aggressive! heihei, as long as you master the method well, the other party will be willing to answer. The key is that you have to be fair and tell the other person your own situation. Here, I don’t want to talk about how important your sincerity and respect for each other are. I just want to remind you that everyone comes here with the intention of finding their other half!

(Note: You have to know so much, are you afraid that you have nothing to say?)

Observation number three.

"Excellence is a habit."

Polite. This is the first observation point. When sitting down, does the man give the woman priority? Will the other person say "thank you" at the appropriate time? Do both parties maintain appropriate restraint?

Think of others. Are you consulted before smoking? Are you asked if you'd like more when your drink is almost gone? Did I offer to see you off when I left? Notice you're wearing too little when it's cold?

True. Can you feel "real"? Does he/she look at you seriously? Are you paying attention to your conversation? Does he or she speak emotionally (of any kind) about their work? Do you talk about your family with love in your eyes? Do you get excited when talking about your hobbies? Do you have a smile on your face when you talk about your friends? …

These observations can help you understand the other person faster.

Think, think again.

Think about it after you get home. Do you get along well? Do you have any desire to meet again? What is it about him or her that attracts you?

If you definitely want to meet again and you are a man, call her in a few days. If you are a woman, wait for his call, or say it when the introducer asks, and it feels okay.

What if you really like the other person but it’s just wishful thinking? ! ! My principle is to take the initiative to make a phone call, regardless of gender. If the answer you get is "I'm very busy and I'll talk about it later," then calm down before you get tempted and arrange the next blind date.

At least you know which aspects of the opposite sex you like better, right?

PS: When going on a blind date, the first impression is very important. I have summarized a few points. If your friends have other opinions,

you can also put them forward, so It is a great help for those friends who have just participated in a blind date!

1. What you wear during a blind date is very important because the first impression is on people. If you look at it at first glance If it's not eye-catching, the result is usually fine. But don't dress too prominently,

Otherwise it will give people the feeling of standing out from the crowd!

2. The way you talk and behave during a blind date, In fact, speaking and doing things can also leave a deep impression on others. Some people think that talking more and saying everything is good. However, if you talk too much, you will make others think you are like an aunt, but if you don't talk much, you will make people feel I think you have too much "connotation" and people can't figure it out. Especially when talking to the other party, the man makes people feel like a gentleman, and the woman feels like a princess. That's what matters. Sometimes you talk more or you talk less. , also go according to the occasion.

3. Courage and patience. Many people participate in blind dates again and again, but they always only bloom but do not bear fruit. But some people have fruit in one go. (This result is to establish a relationship, don’t have any illusions.) Courage and patience account for a lot here, because after the blind date, the male guest and the female guest have understood each other, although it is only superficial, but at least there is There is a certain amount of goodwill, but many people fail to take the first step and hope that the other party will take the initiative. In this way, many opportunities are often lost. Sometimes, although the first step is taken, when the other party does not object or agree, then You need to be patient, maybe time will prove everything.

4. Learn to be a flower protector, of course there is no need to explain this too much, every man should think about it!!

There may be many more, I hope everyone can give a response