Compared with the controversy in Angel after divorce, Xu Jing, who left Michael Chen, lived a completely different life.

Divorce means the failure of marriage, which means that your marriage has been cast a shadow? Not necessarily, but divorce is a great blow to everyone, even to female stars.

However, in the face of divorce, different people adopt different attitudes and coping styles, such as Angel and Xu Jing.

In the entertainment circle, Angel is the one who makes a lot of noise because of the trivial matters of marriage. The emotional entanglement with Pan Yueming and Wang is still a topic that many people talk about. However, due to the influence of divorce, Angel's popularity can be said to have plummeted, and his reputation and character were even criticized for a time.

Angel, who is eager to restore the heat, has another wave of god's operation: announcing his participation in CCTV Spring Festival Evening. As soon as this news was released, it was ridiculed by many netizens.

Soon, another news came: Angel will miss the Spring Festival Gala, and his original role in the program has been replaced. This ironic operation must be very embarrassing in Angel's heart.

In a large-scale activity, Angel also quickly seized this way to get some traffic. However, although she was well dressed and made up, her tired expression and gaunt expression were still clearly visible.

Not only that, but the divorce angel's series of operations are also incomprehensible. In the variety show "Mom is Superman", Angel not only called his son "Dad" intimately, but also played the role of a daughter in front of his son, and even kissed him publicly in the program.

Such spicy eyes and nonsense god's operation make netizens feel ashamed and ridiculed.

After the divorce, Angel seems particularly eager for love. In the variety show, Angel exposed his experience with Chen Kun when shooting his works, and shocking sentences repeatedly burst out, which made people think deeply.

All kinds of jaw-dropping god operations, angels are presented to netizens one by one.

It can be seen that the divorce storm has great lethality to Angel. For the so-called popularity and popularity, her magical operations are endless, and it is still difficult to hide her fatigue and haggard with such a high frequency of comeback and appearance. It can be said that angel's approach is counterproductive.

Compared with Angel, after the divorce, Xu Jing lived a very chic life. She accepted the fact frankly and worked hard.

Perhaps, some people will think that angel marriage seems more interesting. The relationship with Pan Yueming and then with Wang is full of unpredictability.

However, compared with Angel's ups and downs marriage, Xu Jing's marriage can be said to be hard-won, dreamy and romantic, and even the ending is even more lamentable than Angel's.

Once, her long-distance love run with Michael Chen 13 was a sensation, which made countless people envious.

However, in 20 14 years, this fairy-tale dream love also went up in smoke. During that time, the divorce between Chen He and Xu Jing became the hottest topic in the whole network.

Thirteen years of companionship and love have become a big joke at this moment. 2065438+In September 2004, the two agreed to divorce.

This result is unacceptable to anyone. Thirteen years, youth has entered adulthood, and the person you like has spent your youth with you and witnessed your growth. What a precious and unforgettable love this should be.

Compared with Angel, who also suffered a heavy blow in marriage, Xu Jing's marriage is more absurd and embarrassing.

But it is undeniable that the failure and blow of marriage came to these two women, and they were both in pain. One is a sweet lover in the past, and the other is a young man who has been in love for thirteen years.

If this cruel fact happens to us and this heartbreaking pain spreads in our hearts, how much courage do we need and how long will it take to calm our hearts?

In order to amuse themselves from such troubles and pains, they adopted different methods and attitudes. This also determines their future situation and life.

Comparatively speaking, Xu Jing's marriage failure seems more ridiculous and pale than Angel's, and thirteen years' company is not worth two years' waste.

Surprisingly, however, it took Xu Jing only one year to get out of this heavy haze. She didn't call for Michael Chen's cruelty, nor did she blindly rub the heat on various occasions. What she did was completely different from Angel's way, that is, she followed her heart and did everything she wanted.

The first is to change shape. In the year after her divorce, Xu Jing went to many countries to relax. The long black shawl hair turned into short pink hair.

And her dress style has also changed obviously. The original youthful and sweet dress was replaced by a mature royal sister style. Her sexy figure and slim figure show Xu Jing's irresistible charm.

Xu Jing's free and easy personality is surprising and admirable, because he can transform himself so quickly after his divorce, without even taking the time to heal and comfort.

Secondly, in life, Xu Jing also gradually put down the negative emotions after divorce. This is not indifference to past feelings, nor is it apathy after Xu Jing's divorce. In an interview, when it comes to the topic of divorce, Xu Jing's answer is sad but amazing: life goes on, and she chooses to start over, live actively and try to settle down.

Xu Jing said so and did the same. Because there has always been a love for B&B, there has always been a wish to open a B&B of its own, so Xu Jing tried to find partners, seek help from experienced friends and accumulate methods. Finally, on 20 17, Xu Jing opened her own homestay, and her wish for many years became a reality.

Not only that, Xu Jing, who loves traveling, was carefully selected and finally chose this beautiful and romantic country to buy a house and settle down. In her daily life, Weibo traveled all over the streets of Spain. I tasted delicious food, enjoyed the scenery and took photos with different people ... In this brand-new country, Xu Jing gained wonderful encounters and unforgettable memories again and again.

All this stems from her renewed love for life, and also from her ability to wake up quickly after divorce and make new choices for her life.

Angel chose the opposite way. Compared with the increasingly beautiful life after Xu Jing's divorce, Angel left only irony and ridicule.

For the sake of so-called popularity and popularity, Angel is unwilling to give up the glitz and extravagance of the entertainment circle and take his son to visit wonderful places around the world. Instead, it contributed a lot of controversial fans.

But even so, still can't hide her haggard and tired after the divorce. It can be seen that the test brought by years is vividly reflected in her appearance.

However, even if he is so tired, Angel can't appreciate Xu Jing's free life. She turned her attention to her son again.

It is euphemistically called affectionate, but all kinds of endless shows and magical operations have not helped her popularity. On the contrary, only netizens are disgusted and sarcastic.

Perhaps Angel can't feel the chic of Xu Jing and the fun of Xu Jing. But if she can learn from Xu Jing, dare to let go of everything, and not be disturbed or blinded by any external factors, then Angel can be equally full of joy and not tired now.

Today's Xu Jing, in the way you like, is what live high wants. She lives every day seriously, exposes her happiness and joy seriously, shoots every vlog seriously, and tells everyone about her positive and sunny life. ...

Xu Jing, who has millions of fans, has become a real V-star, but her beautiful life doesn't depend on it.

Facing the cruel fact of divorce, Xu Jing didn't collapse, didn't give up his dignity blindly, and begged her husband to change his mind. She knows that everything will start again after today, and she must be responsible for herself and live a happier and more sunny life for herself.

Looking through every Weibo of hers, it is full of positive energy and sunshine. With an optimistic attitude, she sought a happier world for herself and lived a life that many people envied but could not reach.

In terms of feelings, Xu Jing is in no hurry to find the next one to rely on. She sees farther. Instead of worrying about love, it is better to know more friends and gain more friendship.

She got together with three or two friends and took close photos with them. This heartfelt joy is natural, without disguise.

On the other hand, Angel, after the divorce, what is left in her eyes is still the so-called heat and popularity. To this end, she seems to enjoy it, and a series of operations are one after another. But in this way, there is only the feeling of being laughed at and bored.

Whether running a homestay or traveling, Xu Jing will never treat herself badly, no matter what he likes. From the photos taken in her Weibo, we can see that Xu Jing is so comfortable and happy with a big smile. And this kind of happiness is obviously something that she can't feel and experience when she puts on her wedding dress.

And angel, we don't know whether she is willing or complaining. But we can know that compared with Xu Jing's poems and comfortable life in the distance, her life is monotonous and boring.

In the utilitarian zone of entertainment circle, Angel can't and can't walk out of this field calmly. She can only think day and night about how to bring her popularity and enthusiasm back to life, but she ignores that the beautiful world outside can bring her more comfort and joy, and also make her gain a different life.

Xu Jing is free and free. For Xu Jing, it is very cool to leave her footprints in different regions and get different feelings.

Even sitting at home lazily immersed in human fireworks, in Xu Jing's view, it is also a warm and warm happiness.

After the divorce, Xu Jing came over with an unimaginable mentality and worked harder. In the end, she became the envy of everyone and gained the poetry and distance that everyone yearned for.

In the face of adversity, some people choose to roll with the punches, others choose to fight hard, and Xu Jing chooses to give himself a second chance. Start over and live hard.

Imagine if Angel could learn from Xu Jing's free and easy attitude after divorce and bravely pursue everything he loves, instead of being imprisoned by the rules of popularity, popularity and flow. So now, will she be happier and more comfortable?

In fact, life never lacks the opportunity to start over, but we lack the courage to start over ourselves. Learn from Xu Jing, give yourself a chance to be reborn, be optimistic and love yourself. I believe we can all get a brand-new and brighter life.