Three stages of children's rebellious period

Three stages of children's rebellious period

In the three stages of children's rebellious period, the premise of educating children well is to attach importance to children, and their intellectual development is very important. Some children ignore whatever they do during the rebellious period. I have compiled relevant information about the three stages of children's rebellious period for everyone. Let's have a look.

Three stages of children's rebellious period 1 How many stages are there in children's rebellious period?

1, 2-3 years old, rebellious behavior is the performance of the first rebellious period in life, called "baby rebellious period".

When you are 2.6-8 years old, you will come to the second rebellious period of your life, which is called "children's rebellious period".

3. 12- 18 years old is the third rebellious period of life, which is the most common and famous "rebellious period of youth".

What is the rebellious period of children?

1. Teenagers are in a psychological "transition period". Their sense of independence and self-awareness is increasing day by day, and they are eager to get rid of the guardianship of adults. They object to adults treating themselves as "children" and pretending to be adults.

2. In order to show that they are "different", they tend to criticize everything. It is precisely because they feel or worry that the outside world ignores their independent existence that they have a rebellious mentality, thus using various means and methods to establish the equal status of "self" and the outside world.

3. Although rebellious psychology is not unhealthy psychology, it is abnormal psychology when the reaction is strong. Parents should treat their children's rebellious period dialectically, which is a critical period for the formation of their world outlook, and their personality and creativity are rising freely.

In the rebellious period of children, parents should find an outlet for their children's emotions according to their rebellious stage, pay more attention to their good performance during the rebellious period, don't add some new rules to their children during the rebellious period, and don't restrict their children everywhere according to their rebellious stage. Parents should spend more time with their children, pay more attention to their inner world and help them get out of the rebellious period.

Three stages of children's rebellious period 2 rebellious period: terrible two years old

It seems that just yesterday, the infant did nothing but eat and sleep! In the blink of an eye, he will not only break away from your hand and do what you don't want him to do, but even start talking back to you with his extremely limited vocabulary!

Children will have a rebellious period when they are about 2 years old. They will say "no" to all their parents' demands, often willful and crying, which is difficult to establish. There is a word in English to describe this stage, which is called terrible two-"terrible two years old".

The so-called two-year-old resistance period is not necessarily limited to two years old. This is a range from one and a half years old to more than three years old, and different children will have different "noisy" times.

The two-year-old resistance period is called "terrible" because parents are not prepared psychologically. If you are fully prepared, "terrible two years old" is not terrible.

Why is the "two-year-old baby" so "terrible"?

From the perspective of children's psychological development, children's "rebellion" is actually the performance of children's growth. Naive children have no independent self-awareness and cannot distinguish themselves from the outside world. For him, he and his mother are one.

By the age of two, children are clearly aware of the existence of "I", which has its own ideas and wishes and is different from others. So he needs to experience and prove his independence through actions.

At this time, the children's favorite words are "no" and "I'll do it myself" at first. Therefore, the resistance of two-year-old children is a normal stage of development, not to say that the way you educate your children is particularly problematic. No child has never been in trouble before the age of three. The smarter, more energetic and more self-conscious, the stronger the degree of "rebellion".

Advice to parents

Help your baby develop language.

Babies around 2 years old are in the stage of language development, and they will feel irritable when they want something but can't get it. At this time, parents' understanding is very necessary. Mommy's first task is to listen. When the baby's feelings are expressed, she will feel calm and stop crying.

Teach your baby to express his feelings.

Mommy should teach her baby to express her feelings. If the baby understands the meaning of "angry", he will say "I am angry" when he is angry, instead of throwing toys, hitting people or biting people.

Let the baby make his own decisions.

At this age, the baby has realized that he has his own rights and wants to be the master. Therefore, sometimes let the baby make up his own mind, give the baby the feeling of being the master, and avoid making decisions at will.

Get the baby ready

It is better to give the baby a five-minute reminder before the end of the matter than to suddenly let the baby accept the decision. Get the baby ready. In addition, teaching your baby the language and skills of negotiation will make life better.

Stay calm with the children.

No matter how angry we are and how bad our rebellious behavior is, it is very important to keep calm, otherwise things will get worse. Of course, it takes time and patience with children.

Help the baby control his emotions.

When the baby is out of control, give him a loving hug to avoid violence. When the baby's mood improves, mommy can talk to the baby about what just happened, but as a joke, don't preach with a straight face.