Will you hide your private money after you get married?

The so-called private money is the extra income that couples collect without letting each other know about the income that the other party does not know. It can be said that most of the private money happens to men, because now they are in charge of the family. It is women who have the most financial power. After men hand over their income, they will hide the extra income from their wives.

Will you keep any private money after you get married? Let’s listen to the opinions of netizens: Netizen 1: When it comes to the topic of marriage in the future, I will definitely keep my private money to be a woman. I have to think more about myself. Keeping my private money does not mean that I don’t love this family. I will think about it all day long. Make some money secretly and run away in the future. On the contrary, it is just a sign of loving this family too much, because we all know that most people are a bit lavish. They only know how to spend money without settling accounts. Although they earn more, they spend more. In comparison, how many are left? How could a family encounter such a person? Can't eat anything? Hiding some private money can worry two people in the future. For example, my father, as long as he has a little money, he will not work hard. He will always find ways to spend the money before earning it. Every time you say that he , he will make excuses, saying that if he is busy making money before spending all the money, he will die in the future without spending all the money. However, she has overlooked a problem. Women do not feel the sadness of living without money. If you make more money, in the future, men will cut their prices, and you will have no choice but to wait for the northwest wind. And in the future, you will have your own children when you get married. If you have a son, you will open a house, buy a car, and marry a wife for him. But you have no idea what kind of person your daughter-in-law is. If he is good to you, it will be okay, but what if he is not good? , you didn’t save any money at that time, so you foolishly gave all your money to your son, and your son had no one to support him. So wouldn’t you have spent most of your life just messing around? Never believe that society is really good to you. Only when you are rich and strong can you have the ability to ask others to do it for you. It is really difficult. When the time comes, you will have no talent and you will have to wait for death. When there is no one, Save some money and be filial to you when you get old. It’s never too late to spend the money. If your children are not filial to you, then the money can also be used as pension for the old couple. Netizen 2: If it were me, I would definitely not do it because I trust me. My current girlfriend, I think he is a reasonable person. If I need money, he will definitely understand me. Moreover, I am also a spendthrift person. I feel relieved when I leave the money to him. I took Chen I just want to give some money to the elders in the family during the holidays. My friends can help a little when they ask you to borrow money, but some women are just ignorant. I insist on sharing a lot with your family. Qing, as long as the man takes some money to the elders in the family or lends money to others, he must show his face. Netizen 3: I think men will definitely hide private money. After all, not so many men can quit drinking and smoking. If their wives don’t give them money to smoke and drink, they will hide the money and buy it secretly.

So should there be private money after marriage? I think that as long as one party secretly saves private money, don't blame the other party for doing the same. You started first, unless you finish first.

Second, men all have private money, and women will be called selfish if they keep private money. At this time, women need to find his private money to see if it is much.

Finally, I think it’s okay for a man to have some private money after marriage, but he can’t hide most of his income. This is too unfair to the wife. Although she is in charge of the family’s finances, she is not Water, electricity, gas, internet, food, house and car loans, and sometimes the need to buy new furniture, not to mention the children's tuition and living expenses, all of which are a headache.