In fact, others don't want you to live well.

Once, I discussed a question with my friends. Why do I feel that there are fewer and fewer friends? In particular, there are very few words that can speak from the heart. In fact, I feel better and better, much better than before. A friend said, because it's too cold up there. If you stand tall and others can't keep up, you will be lonely. Come to think of it, there really is such a thing. In fact, others don't want you to live well.

For a long time, I have been unknown, unknown, and curled up in the corner alone. There is no proud A4 waist, no slim figure, no impeccable face, no tall career, and I don't know how to talk to people. Sometimes I am like a mute.

However, it seems that there are quite a few friends. From time to time, people ask me how I've been recently. I said with a sigh, still the same. I will get some harmless comfort, I can't see the expression, and I don't know if I'm really comforting or just talking.

Once, I showed my words to a good friend. She said, I didn't expect our little koala to be so powerful. If we persist, we will become great writers one day. I said shyly, joking, far from the literary giant. After a while, she asked, do you really write every day? Do you really want to be a writer? I said, I will stick to it, whether I am a writer or not in the future, I will focus on the process. She said a lot of compliments, and I was so high that I couldn't wait to fly out of the WeChat dialog and give her a kiss.

However, when I talked to her again later, she ignored me. I had no choice but to call her and ask her, "Why did you suddenly ignore me? Are you too busy? " She said, "You can write articles, but I can't. Ignore you and add to yourself. " . I said, "Many friends don't write articles, and everyone has their own preferences." She said, "I have a poor literary talent, and I don't like to associate with people who are better than me. However, to be honest, you still write at that level every day, and I am impressed by you. I am too lazy to write. If I want to write, I will write better than you. " Suddenly, I felt very lost. Unexpectedly, in order to write, I have to pay the price of losing my friends.

? No wonder some people say that it is enough for a person to have a confidant all his life. Because there are not many people who really treat you well from the heart. Many people are waiting to see your jokes. ? Some people say, "It doesn't matter whether you live well or not. The important thing is that without me, as long as you live well, you will be fine. " Come to think of it, it is indeed such a thing.

Found a phenomenon, if a person you don't know is excellent, then he can be excellent. But if people you know have made some achievements, you will be jealous because you suddenly left them behind. It turns out that you are in the same class, down and out together, at sixes and sevens together. If you suddenly stand up and people are still crawling, what makes people feel sorry?

I don't know if you have found out that when watching movies, the most touching thing is mostly the tragic fate. Looking at the poor person in the movie, crying helplessly, we couldn't wait to run to her side to save her and give her a warm embrace. Because she makes us feel better than her, our vanity is satisfied and our psychology is balanced. However, people who see the smooth sailing are not so enjoyable. Generous, after reading it, it's funny. If you are not so generous, you will also toss yourself in your heart. Why is he so smooth? Old innocence is unfair and full of resentment.

In fact, I want to say that even if no one wants me to live well, I will stick to it. Because I work hard for myself, not for anyone. I know that in this heartless world, except for parents and a few people who really want you to be good, most people just ask politely, and they don't want you to be good. The more unhappy you are, the more you cater to them. Especially those who used to be your equal, the harder you work now, the happier they will be.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. Where there are rivers and lakes, there are comparisons, and no one can escape. Although backwardness will be beaten, progress will also be squeezed out. What should I do if I don't want to fall behind and be excluded? I think, either you are strong enough to make others fear you, or you live and don't care what others say.

It doesn't matter whether you wish you well from your heart or what you said. No one can change your wind direction. All you have to do is, whether it's with the wind or against the wind, step by step, slowly and steadily.

So, we still have to stick to it. I also hope that one day I can walk faster. If I can't see you soon, you can be jealous. As I said before, if you buy a Santana, your friends who ride bicycles will be jealous of you, but if you drive a golden sports car, they won't be jealous of you, because you have left them far behind and can't see them.

We should bow our heads to do things, raise our heads to be human, and make ourselves perfect and hopeless. In this way, people can laugh it off whether they want you to be good or bad.