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"What Do You Use to Live the Life You Want" is a paperback book written by Mao Yaodao and published by Jiangsu Phoenix Literature and Art Publishing House. The book price is: 42.00 yuan, the number of pages: 256, and the article I have carefully compiled some readers’ comments after reading. I hope it will be helpful to everyone.

Thoughts after reading "What Do You Do to Live the Life You Want" (1): Only hard work can make people independent in this world

The title is not what I thought, it is from the author's book In one sentence, I like it very much and I like the best way to convey it to everyone.

The author of this book is called Mao Yaodao. It was because of reading this book that I learned that JD Reading also has its own column. I always thought it was just a shopping platform. This fact once again proves that in this era, gold will always shine. What we eat is no longer the stage, but the real strength.

After reading Mao Yaotao’s resume and his writings, I felt a little ashamed of myself. After all, compared to him, I, a 30-year-old woman, was like an ordinary old aunt. What he experienced, working abroad, was my dream. Come to think of it, in the seven years since I graduated, nothing has changed except for my hard work. And he will undergo a change every short year or two. What I live is a stable life, but she is surviving in the changes, using her struggle and vigorous courage to survive in this world. independent.

Life in our twenties is the best life, because at that time we are full of curiosity about the world and the courage to change the world. Our edges have not been smoothed by life, we are so cute, so childish, and so full of hope. But people of this age are often confused. Many people may have read a lot of books at this time. At this time, many people have traveled many roads and traveled across thousands of mountains and rivers in order to break through their confusion. In the end, we will all have the same answer at the age of 30.

From the perspective of a girl, Mao Yaotao uses 35 words to summarize the life and insights of this stage of life. The status and positioning of people at this stage are all corresponding one by one, and there seems to be our own shadow in every small link. In this world, what kind of person do you have to live? Only you can define who you are? Who will you become? This is probably the most important idea of ??the author's entire book, or the positive energy he wants to convey to us.

Although today’s society is full of beautiful women and goddesses, almost all girls know clearly that they are not goddesses. No matter how good-looking a person is, they still feel that they are not beautiful enough and want to be more beautiful. We are the same, no matter how many books we have read, we still want to read more and richer books so that we can make further progress in both personality and learning. Only this kind of positive power is what keeps us alive. power.

I really like the attitude conveyed by the author in the book, the way he behaves and does things, and the details he observes in life. I think if he publishes the next book, I will definitely read it. Keep reading.

Thoughts after reading "What Do You Do to Live the Life You Want" (2): I am trying to live the life I want

To live the life I want, this is A very simple statement. But to actually achieve it, the hard work required is unimaginable to those who have not experienced it.

What seems simple is actually quite difficult to do.

Many articles nowadays use derogatory words such as "short, poor," "black, fat, and ugly" to describe the so-called "positive energy." It uses other people's successful examples to give you a critical hit of 10,000 points, and then tells you what changes you can make to live the way you want to live.

But, is that really you?

When I opened the book "What Do You Use to Live the Life You Want" written by Mao Yaodao, I first felt that the title was heartbreaking, and because it was heartbreaking, I immediately had an impression. Later, I extended my reflection and asked, am I living the life I want now?

Each of us is busy every day and has no time to think about whether the life we ??live is what we want. When I have time to think about it carefully, I realize that the life we ??live every day may not be what we want, but maybe we have no choice in the life we ??live at that time. Some people gradually become silent in this inability to choose; some people burst out into amazing small universes in this inability to choose.

This may be the ultimate secret for a person to change his life.

No one can replace us to complete our pilgrimage to life. The only one who can complete the pilgrimage is ourselves. Change is the end of life's pilgrimage. Only by contrasting the life we ??desire with the real life can we live the life we ??want.

To be honest, as someone who has been in the workplace for nearly 20 years, "What Do You Do to Live the Life You Want" didn't appeal to me at first. After all, with the passage of time, I saw clearly the irresistibility of fate. But when I looked back, I suddenly discovered that the best life is not to live like someone else, but to turn your own life into a life template. Maybe one day someone will live according to your template? !

Looking back on the past years, what kind of life do I most want to live? There is a house with four bedrooms and two living rooms, two bedrooms, one as a study room, and one as a gym. Make a cup of rose tea every morning, open a good book and read it carefully, or paint two strokes of color next to the easel at hand. Then, inspiration suddenly strikes, grab the laptop at hand, and keep tapping on the keyboard from left to right. , turn your thoughts into jumping words one by one, in exchange for labor income. Then, when I look back at my husband and children around me, this life is enough!

Maybe you will laugh when you see the life I want, but I am trying to live the life I want now.

Work hard~

Thoughts after reading "What Do You Do to Live the Life You Want" (3): How beautiful reality can be, today, I saw it

01

In June 2014, on the day I graduated from college, I dragged my luggage and boarded the train heading north.

At that time, I had just signed a contract with the aerospace industry. As a science and engineering student, this steady path was in line with the public’s expectations. I took a paper offer and carried the mission entrusted by the motherland and the chairman, and walked all the way to Beijing for thirty hours.

Next, I entered a cubicle, and my eyes were filled with incomprehensible orbital theories, space gravity and other heavenly books. Although I was going crazy with anxiety every night, I still stubbornly told myself, You can do it, and you can still try a little harder.

In this way, with a spontaneous sense of revolution, I forced myself to get an excellent one in the end. Then, there was an opportunity to serve abroad. I was so excited that I went abroad.

I still remember that on the day I left, the sun was so hot that it seemed like it was going to melt me. With the ambition of going abroad to do something big, I said goodbye to my family with my head high and set foot on the journey. Journey abroad.

Life abroad is very comfortable. Compared with the dire straits of many friends in China, I am indeed living in paradise. If I only look at salary, I am very cost-effective.

But life is not always smooth sailing. My career has encountered bottlenecks. My position is neither high nor low, and the content is far from what I originally thought. Needless to say, I am depressed, but the only thing I have never thought about is Yes, it's resignation.

How should I put it? It is difficult for people who are accustomed to living in comfort to escape from the greenhouse. I thought about it again and again and finally compromised.

In addition to doing my own thing in a down-to-earth manner every day, I blocked out all domestic news, as if I had exiled myself to a paradise. I thought, living in obscurity like this would not be a bad idea. A good thing.

In this way, more than a year later, I have no financial pressure, I am comfortable with my work content, and get along well with my colleagues and leaders. Except for the occasional trace of confusion and self-loathing, in the eyes of outsiders, I am really doing well. Pretty good.

Until one time, a friend came back to China to visit relatives and chatted with me. He mentioned that his classmates in China were worried about paying hundreds, a thousand yuan in rent. They seemed to have been forced to dust by social pressure, but they were strangely glowing. Something called passion and hard work.

I admit that at that moment, I was living like a retired person. Suddenly I slapped the table, and the blood all over my body rushed to the top of my head, and I decided to resign.

02

Life in China is just like what everyone said, it is difficult every step of the way. I have to work several times harder with just a fraction of the money I got abroad. I suddenly joined the job hunting army. .

The unforgettable job hunting years probably started in January 2017. I raised my head confidently, looked at the sparkling resume, and thought arrogantly, my work experience is not bad, and my appearance is also good. No points will be deducted, and finding a job is not a matter of minutes.

But the truth hit me in the face again. I couldn’t find a suitable job for half a year.

From the beginning, I could chat with my friends on the phone. Later, I was trembling even when I told my parents that I was safe, for fear that they would ask if I had found a job.

With the living allowance provided by my parents, I cried alone under the quilt in a rented house, facing the job application information day after day, and finally felt like vomiting when I saw it.

I was full of confidence when I first entered the domestic competition. The little giant in my heart could outshine the Statue of Liberty. Gradually, it began to collapse. The long-established self-confidence collapsed. I began to ask myself over and over again, Is it right to resign? Is it too rash to choose an unfamiliar city so desperately?

Along with this kind of self-doubt and self-denial, I have become a little bit shy of strangers. Any flame can instantly ignite me. It is not an exaggeration to describe myself as a firecracker.

Later, I thought countless times whether the ups and downs of this year were torture from God or a test before fate gave me candy. My self-confessed mentality was shattered during that period, although I could still smile afterward. It was said that God was about to give me a big task, but at that time, I knew that I couldn't get over it.

I can’t accept not having a glamorous and high-paying career. You think you’re great but turn out to be nothing. You think you should be the king of this world, but in the end you find that everyone else is the king except you.

But fortunately, after all, I am still an inexplicably positive and spontaneous inspirational person. Although the blows come one after another, every night after finishing the day's running, I can still comfort myself in bed. , don’t be afraid, you are the few people chosen by God.

Probably because of this blind optimism, I finally got what I wanted.

03

It has not been a smooth journey for me, but fortunately, I have always firmly believed that as long as there is passion in our bones, who can say that we can't accomplish anything?

Even if you are completely defeated, you can still clench your fists and attack life viciously when you wake up.

I know that I am not an inspirational role model for successful people, and I know how much I weigh. I can only say that I have not been defeated by the mediocrity of life in these years, and I look at the unattainable dreams. After being shaken and discouraged, he never compromised.

When I celebrated my birthday last year, my friend said that I was a complete idealist. The general idea was that I lived in a castle in the air, full of dreams and enthusiasm, and not at all grounded.

But on the other hand, it is probably because of this paranoia that I have never forgotten my true ideals for more than 20 years, so that I can overcome procrastination and laziness most of the time, and dare to face the cowardice and pressure in my heart. Let yourself move forward step by step.

When I was a child, I was chatting with my family, and my father asked me, what is the most important thing in your life?

I was still young at that time and had almost no complete picture of the future, but I still answered loud and clear: realize your dream.

Now it seems that I have achieved my expectations and have actually implemented those big words and empty words. It’s not that I am bragging about how awesome I am, but I have actually achieved those things that I had never thought about or dared to think about. One day, I really saw hope.

This feeling is really dreamy.

Only then did I understand that every step that I thought I took was wrong, but it was actually the only way to go in life. At every moment of self-doubt, people should strengthen their true inner selves.

When I started writing, I had the idea of ??cooking words to relieve my hunger, and just write down the bits and pieces that happened in my real life, just for fun.

But God’s arrangements are always wonderful. Slowly, a group of lovely friends gathered around me, young people who, like me, were experiencing confusion, depression, sadness, and pain. Tell me they see courage and strength in my words.

It was these people who had never met me who silently supported me and believed in me unconditionally. For this reason, I persisted.

I sit in front of the computer for hours. Although I am exhausted every day, I still output persistently. I have set a small goal for myself. If I am lucky, I hope I can publish a book before I am 30 years old. A book of my own.

But who would have thought that this goal was five years ahead of schedule.

I have enriched my empty skeleton bit by bit, giving it flesh and blood. In the process, I no longer dwell on my past failures. I have seen too many shortcomings and shortcomings in the workplace. Excellent writer, entrepreneur, conscientious and non-stop writing.

Only then did I understand that when I was young, I was entangled and depressed over trivial matters. The situation was too small, and knowing the autumn through a leaf was just a glimpse of the leopard.

What I have really gained is the breaking and reshaping of values ??and outlook on life. Whether it was the desperate resignation and return to China, or the resolute pursuit of the possibility of another life when I realized that I had no idea.

One year in Beijing, one year abroad, and one year returning to China to find a job. This lifestyle that is completely different from most people gave me great courage. I know that even if I am in trouble, I will still have to go through many hardships. country, representing the country’s communications industry on the international stage.

At that moment, I calmly faced my ambition, which was full and fierce.

04

On the first day of this year, I opened my first article when I was preparing to write. It recorded the high expectations of a rather noble writer for myself. .

It is clearly written on the paper: The most difficult thing to stick to is the original intention. I hope you can stick to the Tao in your heart throughout your life, stick to your responsibility as a writer, do justice without seeking benefits, and understand the Tao without counting the merits!

Today, my first book is on the market. I am still solemnly writing this message here. I hope that I can still be a productive person despite being constantly washed away by social impetuousness and oppressed by utilitarian reality. A man of integrity and an aspiring "literati", he carries moral principles on his shoulders and writes articles with skillful hands.

But I know how a few words can be enough to describe my past ups and downs in life and my thoughts on dealing with people and looking at the world, so I wrote them all in this book "You Take It" "How to Live the Life You Want".

I believe that you will be able to see in it more or less the confusion and confusion that we are experiencing together. I also believe that it will definitely bring you an inflated sense of positivity and a sense of relief. Rediscover the positive energy of standing up.

We will leave eventually, and we will arrive.

Yes, I am eagerly looking forward to the day when we will finally live the life we ??want most.

The future is bright!

Dangdang

Thoughts after reading "What do you use to live the life you want" (4): Poor, ugly, fat and frustrated, whatever you look at means you.

The most depressing sentence for me is: Others are prettier than you, more capable than you, and work harder than you. If others are so strong and powerful, then what's the use of my efforts! But if you think so, you are a big joke. Originally, others would only leave you a few blocks away, but if you don’t work hard, they will only leave you further behind, and you will become even more inconspicuous. About working hard

Girl, what makes you so tough? What makes you lock your heart? Buy what you want by yourself. If you have a mountain to back you, you will not be able to stand on your own without a mountain. When there are mountains, who doesn’t want to rely on them? It’s easy to enjoy the shade with your back against a big tree. There is such a person who can save you from hard work and worry, and shelter you from wind and rain. If you are “abandoned” by the big tree, you still have What? Someone asked: Girl, what gives you your sense of security? The most straightforward answer I've heard is "money". Only when you have money can you buy the things you like. Even if you cry, you can choose where to cry. Go to a hot spring in Japan, the Golden Hall in Vienna, or a super hotel in Dubai instead of sitting on the curb and crying.

Some people succeed in their twenties, but you die in your twenties. No matter how much money you make, as a girl, you should have your own career and expose yourself to new things. You don't have to spend your own money, but you can't "lose" the ability to make money. It’s never too late to start. There is always a job that suits you waiting for you. Don’t complain about hardship or tiredness. Difficulties are temporary and there are always more solutions than difficulties. About studying

Last night I was chatting with the student group in the book circle. They complained that studying is difficult, "black-haired people don't know how to study early, and white-haired people regret studying late."

My acting self says: If you learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well, you will not be afraid of traveling all over the world.

Little White Rabbit No. 1: Mathematics is so difficult.

My acting self said: Selling vegetables does not necessarily require advanced mathematics, but being good at mathematics can determine where you go to buy vegetables? It is equivalent to that everyone is a waiter, and your excellence determines where you work as a waiter. There is no high or low job, and excellence is a habit.

"Learning is like sailing against the current" Learning unknown things is not easy, but it is not impossible. Otherwise, there would be so many pioneers who would face the difficulties if they are difficult. On the other hand, the greater the difficulty, the greater the sense of accomplishment after success?

Three hundred and sixty lines, and he will be the number one scholar. There is no need to worry about whether others are flying airplanes and you are repairing airplanes. Without your regular inspections, he cannot soar in the sky with peace of mind. We are all bricks in society. We should cooperate well, play our role, and actively learn the profession. Skills shine. Regarding success, what is your definition?

Success and fame, thousands of hectares of fertile land, a house full of gold, and a wife in your arms. Everyone in the world is pursuing the so-called success, but no one can accurately say what it is. Only in this way can we be considered successful. I have a not very accurate definition: to be the envy of others.

I was feeling very depressed some time ago. My brother said: Sister, if you download Douyin, your mood will improve. Maybe I have been isolated in Xiaocun Village for too long, and I have seen many outstanding people. They call them "Douyin Masters". They have one unique characteristic: fire. Some are voice actors, some have makeup parties, some show calligraphy, and all kinds of "demons and monsters". I'm not telling you nonsense, nor am I advertising. The talent you have shown will be liked and envied by others, even if it is an exclamation: Wow, you are so awesome, teach me quickly. This is all your success. Doing a question correctly today and helping the old lady cross the street tomorrow are all your successes. There are thousands of excellent qualities, and every one of them is your medal. The true attitude of a girl is to be both inside and outside

Girl, even if you have the money to wear high-end clothing, you still need to wear something that is pleasing to the eye, rather than making people feel like a walking bucket. Fitness is not only for beauty, but also allows you to have a healthy body, stay away from doctors, and save a lot of unnecessary pain.

Be full of poetry and calligraphy, read more, cultivate yourself more, and be a woman with a fragrant soul. I don’t like a girl chirping, it’s really annoying. It’s okay if you sit there quietly and express your emotions appropriately and talk about it. But chattering incessantly is really a headache. You often say that you hate "shrew-calling", although this is also one of the ways to solve the problem, which is really disrespectful.

Everyone will have times when they lose control of their emotions, and there will be days when 10,000 MMP words are on your lips, but I hope you can silently say "I can handle it calmly" every time, otherwise you will not be able to control it. Come on, that sentence goes straight to the point where you can't bear it. As long as you can bear the consequences, then go ahead. I don't advise people to be cowards. I hope you can be a "wise man" in life. About this book

The above are my thoughts after reading this book. I may have read too many such inspirational principles recently, and published a lot of my own distorted "three views". If you like it, just read (what I wrote), if you don’t like it, take it down.

"What do you use to live the life you want?" Mao Yaodao is a columnist for JD Reading and a cutting-edge author active on Jianshu, JD Reading and other platforms. I like to think about life, and the principles I summarized are really useful. It can be regarded as a secret of self-cultivation for a person with "three highs": be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.

How your life is now is your choice. If you want to change, don't wait any longer.

Thoughts after reading "What Will You Use to Live the Life You Want" (5): Listen to your inner voice

"What Will You Use to Live the Life You Want", pros and cons It tells a lot of stories, some specific, some broad-brush, and the goals it leads to are very clear - the life you want and how to live the life you want.

This book moved me, and what triggered me to think was not the stories listed, but the name of the book itself. Because no matter how wonderful the story is, it is all superficial, and no matter how strong the sense of substitution is, it is all about simulating the lives of others. The so-called lives of others read in stories are just a leaf in a prosperous tree, a fragment of a big drama, and the tip of a huge iceberg. The background of the story, the protagonist's inevitable efforts and accidental encounters are incomprehensible to onlookers.

Life, a realistic article covering the entire process of life. Who doesn’t want this article to be colorful and rich in meaning? Thinking is one thing, ending is another. The distance between the two is what the title of the book says. Of course, it is impossible for this book, and no book can list all the methods and tools of "passing". All it can provide are lessons and inspirations, and maybe a warning. When you talk endlessly about what I want to do, or you are immersed in the beautiful ideas of the future, what I want to do, someone gently asks you in your ear - what do you use to live the life you want, those beautiful ideas? Does it suddenly disperse like a soap bubble, causing you to fall from the clouds into reality?

Live the life you want. Close your eyes, look inward, and ask yourself, what kind of life do I want? This is important. It is a lighthouse on the vast sea, a flag fluttering for hunting, and it is the truest voice in your heart. It is the glorious shore that you will never regret after going through hundreds of twists and turns. Clarify the life you desire most, the desire that does not attach any conditions, and the desire that does not give yourself any excuses. As long as your desire is strong enough, as long as your heart is firm enough, all the constraints of external blessings are worth mentioning.

Without a target, the wind in all directions is in the opposite direction. Once you have a clear goal, set up a banner, and light up a beacon, life will surprise you. Is the goal far away? As long as you're on the road, it's not far. Clarify what your dreams are and resolve issues of goals and direction. Let your dreams go on the road and solve the problems of methods and tools.

To keep your dreams on the road, the most important thing is to bring a heart full of blood. It's not the cruelty of reality that scares you, but the triviality of reality that consumes you. Every day of struggling is a betrayal of the dream, and every moment of compromise is a cooling of the blood. "What to use to live the life you want", as long as you think deeply enough about this topic, your soul will be touched.

To a certain extent, this book may be able to awaken the sleeping consciousness, activate the depressed will, and boil and cool the blood.

Some people live their whole lives as regrets, and live the life they want into an infinite future that is no longer possible. You may be able to read the sighs from other people's negative teaching materials. In particular, you must arouse the ambition and courage in your heart to pursue your dreams decisively. You don’t have to care about the opinions of outsiders, you don’t have to be distracted by the prosperity around you, and you don’t have to be overwhelmed by difficulties and obstacles. For the life you want, all efforts are enjoyment. If you never give up, you will definitely be able to develop a steady stream of motivation. Your inner strength comes from your persistence in pursuing your dreams. Go for it, all of it or none at all. You just need to listen to your inner voice and live the life you want.

To keep your dreams on the road, you must bring self-discipline and persistence. Self-discipline leads to freedom. Simply put, on the way to the life you want, can you cut off all the branches and vines, and reject all the flowers and greenery? "Those who start well will make many more successful, and those who conquer the end will overwhelm the few." The road to the dream is not the practice of fishing in three days and drying the net in two days, nor is it the practice of just taking a dip in the water, but is the hard work over the years and the long-term achievement. will and perseverance. Can you keep moving forward? Can you adjust your status to go all out every day?

Life is the product of the marriage of necessity and chance. When you put on the red heart of "I want to live this kind of life", when you hold self-discipline in your left hand and persistence in your right hand, and move firmly towards the life goal you want, another important factor - opportunity is taking great strides toward you. Come running. Because opportunities are not in the sky, opportunities are at your feet

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