Why can’t you be a bridesmaid if you are married?

First of all, it is because of our country’s traditional customs, and secondly, because an unmarried woman symbolizes purity, which just brings a beautiful meaning to the bride and groom. In fact, in the original old society, there was no such emphasis at all, and in the old society, bridesmaids were specifically looking for women who had been married and had given birth to sons. This meant that they hoped that the bride and groom would be as happy as their bridesmaids in the future. The son is around the knee, but as time goes by, the standard for selecting bridesmaids has gradually become unmarried women, and the reasons for this are probably due to the following three points. Western-style weddings

There are big differences between traditional Chinese weddings and Western-style weddings. Since Western-style weddings were introduced to our country, Chinese-style weddings have gradually been buried. Because Western-style weddings are very romantic, they are very popular among young people. However, the bridesmaids for Western-style weddings must be unmarried, because Western-style weddings are generally held in churches, and in foreign countries, churches are a pure place, so if the couple holds their wedding in a church, the bridesmaids must be unmarried and cannot be married or divorced. Women, if you violate this rule, it may have a bad impact on the couple. The custom that gradually formed

As I just said, the original bridesmaids could be married, but now the Chinese wedding is actually not pure anymore. Like the Western style, the bridesmaids must also choose unmarried women, and the reason is actually It is because of superstition that if the bridesmaid is already married or has been married before, as a bridesmaid, standing with the bride and groom again is equivalent to getting married again, that is to say, a "second marriage". Therefore, in order to seek good luck, the bride and groom are naturally not willing to marry. The married woman stood nearby, so later this superstitious statement gradually became a custom and unwritten rule. To make an unmarried woman happy

To be honest, I think this is a good reason. As an unmarried young woman, people around her hope that she can also have a good relationship and meet her right husband. So by arranging her as a bridesmaid, firstly, she can show others that she is unmarried, and secondly, she can also enjoy the happiness of the couple. Maybe it will bring her good luck and make her love blossom. So based on this, I think the bridesmaid should be unmarried. Still pretty good.