What are you most fortunate about in raising children?

As a mother, the parenting process is a happy, warm, and fulfilling process. This process accompanies me every day, from when he was conceived in my belly for ten months to when he came into this world. When I saw him for the first time, I was so excited and extremely proud. God gave me a treasure that would make me happy for a lifetime. I could hold his little hand and accompany him to grow up day by day.

Thanks for the invitation!

The process of parenting is inherently difficult and boring. I have been busy with trivial things all day long, exhausted and exhausted; but the most fortunate thing is that I have the understanding and support of my husband! When I am tired and impatient and lose my temper, he can make me happy. A joke resolves my resentment, a hug melts my depression, and a timely meal warms my heart... He makes me feel that this process is also Be happy! Such is life! So I am tired but happy!

I like this topic very much. There are too many surprises and frightening things on the long road of raising children, but the most fortunate thing is that I can slowly grow up with my children and share the joys my children bring to my family. The happiness and touchingness

The life of two people is certainly romantic, but the arrival of a child makes our life more energetic and has a sense of direction. Although it is hard to raise a baby, you can see that the baby never knows how to sit, The joy that everyone brings to their families as they grow up, from being able to crawl, to walking, to being called mom and dad, cannot be expressed in words.

On the way back from a bike ride a few days ago, maybe the lights downstairs were a bit dark, or maybe the car lights coming from the opposite direction were too bright. The child suddenly fell to the ground. Maybe the child was not injured at that time. When I got up and saw him still lying on his side on the ground, I cried loudly and said, "Mom, I won't let you die, I won't let you die... I kept repeating it." After a while, I sat up and said, "How can I die if I am fine?" The child simply said, "I see people like this on TV and I was speechless...

In fact, the child just went to kindergarten. We have always thought about what older children know. In fact, children's imagination is far beyond our imagination and will surprise and frighten you from time to time. However, this process also makes us very willing to enjoy it. The process of raising children is the most fortunate thing. Put down your mobile phone and spend more time with them.

During the parenting process, the most fortunate thing for me is that I got a "heavenly book" that allowed me to grow up with him. I learned how to love, be grateful, be patient, have surprises, happiness and satisfaction, and feel like I have truly grown up. He taught me so much. Thank you my child!

As a mother of two children, what is the most fortunate thing for me?

Listen to me slowly

Parenting is difficult, as difficult as reaching the sky

The education here, I am talking about the education of pregnancy.

They got married in 2004 and their daughter was born in 2011. In the past seven years, I have experienced multiple miscarriages, one premature birth of twins, and many unsuccessful attempts to preserve the fetus. The bitterness, helplessness, and hopelessness may only be felt by oneself.

Having no children and living with an old man, I could only shed tears silently despite enduring many eye rolls and sarcasm.

In 2011, I successfully became pregnant through artificial induction of ovulation. After a long process of miscarriage, my daughter was born safely. Weight 2.55 kg.

It’s great to have a daughter. At that moment, I felt that the long-lost "security" was back.

At that moment, the most fortunate thing for me was that I did not give up my determination and will to have a baby.

Having children, the role changes from joy to madness

I only had a daughter when I was 30 years old. Both of us were overjoyed.

But there are more and more contradictions.

My mother-in-law is an old lady who loves to play mahjong.

Since I have already taken a year off, I will go back to work after a hundred days.

Conflict is coming.

My mother-in-law didn’t want to take care of the children, so she started looking for trouble every day and didn’t cook well. I worked for three months and lost 15 kilograms.

By the time my daughter was 1 year old, I was only 84 pounds and my blood pressure dropped to 80 or 40.

One time when the city bureau was doing a project, I came home a little late in the afternoon. I quickly took a taxi home, and my mother-in-law started to curse. The taxi driver cursed angrily beside me.

That year was almost the most difficult year in my life.

Take English exams for professional titles, driver’s license exams, and apply for projects. . . I always insist on taking my daughter with me when I work overtime.

My daughter has grown up and I have been promoted.

At that moment, the most fortunate thing for me was that even when I was in the most embarrassing situation, I did not give up my determination to work hard, nor did I give up my love and protection for my daughter.

It’s a great experience to have you all

In 2017, a lovely baby came to our home again. Very unexpected, very pleasant.

I have two babies. How to say it?

It seems that you suddenly have a weakness, and your emotions are completely affected by her/his smile

It also seems that you suddenly have armor, and you have courage and courage for her/him. Have the perseverance to do things you couldn't do before;

Holding him/her is like holding the whole world

At that moment, the most fortunate thing for me is: gratitude You guys, let me be your mother!

(It would be great if you could pay attention to me!)

Although I am still very young and have not had children yet, I think the most important thing is to raise children. The thing is that we can watch him grow up day by day, not only teaching him the principles of life, but we are also growing with him, learning together, and understanding together.

During the parenting process, I am most fortunate that my family can be together.

My wife is pregnant, and my parents, who have been reluctant to come to my place, finally decided to come over to help me. I can also show some filial piety.

Unfortunately, about a month after they arrived, I took my parents for a physical check-up. It was found that my father was not in very good health. I immediately quit my job and took him to seek medical advice. .

I had to leave my pregnant wife to take care of my father. I have no choice. Really, there's no choice. I hope to repay my wife's shortcomings slowly in the future.

At the same time, I am also grateful to my child, as if he somehow saved his grandfather’s life. Without him, my parents would not have come to my place, and they would not have taken them. If you go for a physical examination, you won't be diagnosed with the disease. In that case, it will probably be too late.

In fact, there is no way to cure my father's illness now, we can only delay it. But no matter what, I tried my best. I just hope that my father will be stronger, live longer, and watch his grandson grow up.

I love my children.

He is very much like me. I couldn't see him for a while, so I panicked.

The process of taking care of a child is very tiring, but a child’s smile sweetens all the fatigue.

In this process, I understand better that love brings us together and unites my family.

Thank you children, thank you parents.

My child is now six years old, outgoing and loves to chat. Speaking of the most fortunate thing about raising children, I think it should be being able to accompany him by myself.

I have been taking care of the child since he was born, so he is very close to me and tells me anything he wants. Although I have lost some career satisfaction because I have not gone to work to take care of my children, I am very satisfied to see my children happy every day.

In today’s society, most grandparents take care of children. Although it can improve living conditions, firstly, they have different concepts. Old people and young people have different ideas about raising children. Secondly, various conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are overwhelming. Annoyingly, the third child sacrifices the time that the elderly can enjoy themselves, and the fourth child often lacks communication with their parents when they grow up.

So I think my biggest blessing is that I grew up with him. In the process, I was able to understand his heart in time and understand his grievances, so that it would be easier to communicate.

Being a mother is the only hope of many women. After the child is born, they will go from the joy of being a mother to slowly facing the reality. Children are a mirror of yourself. Watching them grow up happily, I still feel very lucky to have such a pair of children accompanying me through the most difficult moments in my life.

I am most fortunate to have married a good husband and have a group of family members who love me.

My husband just gave birth to a baby and was so busy that he was told that I didn’t know how to take care of the baby. In fact, now that I think about it, it may be due to postpartum endocrine disorders. I am really irritable. Fortunately, my husband is tolerant and washes my feet and cleans my wounds.

I got acute mastitis during confinement. My husband not only took care of me but also took good care of the baby. He took me for injections, made milk powder for the baby, and changed diapers. I sucked every two hours at that time. Breast, my husband called me because I couldn’t get up.

After the full moon came out, he took care of the baby with me at night. He changed diapers and I breastfed.

My mother hired a confinement nanny for me. She was mostly busy during the confinement period. Seeing how weak I was after giving birth, she felt distressed. She held my hand and came every time. They all say that I haven’t replenished my energy and blood yet.

My mother-in-law did all the cooking after confinement, trying her best to make delicious food for me. She is also the one who holds the baby and coaxes the baby. My breasts are big and it is easy to express milk. When the baby is two months old, it is not easy for the milk to increase.

My father-in-law washes the baby's clothes and diapers. I had acute mastitis during confinement, and the breast-feeding doctor said I needed a cactus, but we didn’t have any at home. My father-in-law walked around the community for a long time at night and got a cactus for me. The next day, he treated the cactus for me and found that there were no thorns at all. Got stabbed several times.