Ma Yili first talked about divorce, what did she say?

This was the first time I saw Ma Yili so real, without any pretense, and she also talked about her post-divorce life for the first time a year after her divorce.

Ma Yili said: "I think few people focus on life after divorce. I now observe many women and men around me, and it is written on their faces that many of their children go to prestigious schools. What I want to do next is No matter what, there is no such soft thing. We have the right to pursue love, talk about our own desires and talk about sex at any age. ?

Many people tend to regard divorce as a very tragic thing, as if life after divorce is also miserable. In fact, this may not be the case. Life after divorce can also be very colorful. In today's society, there is still the idea that marriage = happiness, single or divorce = pain. This idea is too arbitrary.

The Austrian writer Zweig said: When I think about what is a true heresy, I can only find one criterion: we are all heretics in the eyes of those who have different views from us. ? I deeply agree that in this day and age, if someone still thinks that divorce is tragic, or that divorced women are not good women, and still holds this view, it only shows that his own vision is very narrow.

What is the point of what Ma Yili said? You have to be yourself, and you have to try to live a wonderful life after divorce. After a divorce, when your children grow up, they will have their own lives, and you will have more time to enrich your own life. You can grasp the softer part of life just like you did when you were 20 years old. You can also pursue love and talk about your own desires and sex.

There is nothing wrong with that.

We see a natural release of nature from Ma Yili. Before the divorce, she was nicknamed "Forgive the Leader" by netizens, and she lived a very awkward life; after the divorce, she became more real and lovely. Even Ma Yili’s friends say that you are the best you are now, how good and cute you are.

She also has another point of view that I appreciate very much: When I am 20 years old, I will live for my parents. When I am 30 years old, I will feel that I am living for my children. After the age of 40, I will live for myself. alive. Because in the end, if you live happily, your parents will be happy, your children will be happy, and the people around you will be happy. ?Ma Yili is a girl from Shanghai. When she was 15 years old, she joined the variety show dance team of Shanghai TV Station and earned her own tuition. This is not easy for a child. In 1993, 17-year-old Ma Yili starred in the movie "Liu Haili" for the first time, and she received a salary of 800 yuan. Can we imagine what 20-year-old Ma Yili looks like? With the expectations of my parents, I am working hard for my dreams.

At the age of 20, she was active, healthy, sunny and lively. It was a young and ignorant time for a girl. At the age of 32, Ma Yili married Wen Zhang, who was eight years younger than her. They got married because of acting. Many people were not optimistic about this relationship, but they still took the risk and got married. The eight-year age difference was quite surprising at the time. The marriage, which was criticized at the beginning, would become a model of love if it was managed well, but once something went wrong, it would be ridiculed everywhere.

We have only been married for six years, and Wen Zhang and Yao Di have already met each other on Monday. Ma Yili was 32 years old when she married Wen Zhang; she was 38 years old when Wen Zhang cheated on her. The period from 30 to 40 years old was the most difficult time for Ma Yili. Her husband's career was developing well, and she was willing to sacrifice for the family, but who knew that cracks appeared in the marriage. When the article was derailed, Ma Yili was still breastfeeding her second child, her eldest daughter was still young, and her younger daughter was still in her infancy. What should you do? You can only think of ways to calm yourself down and hold yourself together. As the saying goes, "Keep it in check and cherish it", some people say she is generous, but more people are looking at her jokes. Ma Yili is very strong. She chose to act again and find her former self.

While filming "Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou" with Zhu Yawen, netizens made fun of her sagging breasts, not wearing a bra, and her out-of-shape figure.

This kind of Ma Yili is real, transparent and full of vitality. A divorced woman should work hard to live happily, manage herself well, and still seek love just like her state.