I just added a girl. I said good morning. She said yes. What should I say?

1. I feel that if we want to make chatting interesting, we must be full of jokes and jokes.

I feel that if we want to make chatting interesting, we must read poetry books and accumulate enough knowledge.

Neither of the above is right.

Many people don't really understand the meaning of "interesting chat" in real life: are you chatting funny to make the other person laugh? If she really wants this effect, why not go to cross talk and talk show? I am a professional.

People who think reading a lot of poetry books can make chatting interesting must be Hehao. They didn't see those bookworms who were red-faced with girls for a long time and couldn't say a word. It can be seen that reading is related to the fun of chatting, but it is really not big.

So what is the interesting purpose of our chat? Only by understanding the purpose can we think better about the countermeasures.

Frankly speaking, for many boys and girls, the most direct and realistic meaning of chatting is to flirt with my favorite little sister.

It is so simple and rude, our purpose is actually very simple: in the process of chatting, attract each other and make them feel close to you.

So even in order to achieve this effect, we only need to do two things well:

1. Make your life attractive enough. 2. Be able to produce * * * works on a specific theme.

Yes, you will find chatting interesting. But you don't need to think about any rustic love stories, and you don't need superb chat skills. Instead, you need to lay a good foundation, generate buzz, and create "stalks" and "topics" with the same meaning.

I often receive similar questions, asking me "I don't know what to talk to the person I like" and "What should I do if chatting is boring", and then I will definitely open the circle of friends of the person who asked me that question. Their circle of friends has never let me down:

40% of people's circle of friends is set to be visible for three days or one month; 30% of people's circle of friends know little about their own dynamics; The remaining 30% of people's circle of friends are all kinds of English punching cards, sharing pushes and job advertisements. ........

Believe me, such a boring life and such boring feelings are definitely not interesting feelings for people in your position now.

An important premise of "interesting chat" is "your life should be interesting" You don't have to ask how rich your life is, but at least you should know how to discover and share. You have to have this ability first to make the other person think you are interesting and interesting.

When a girl sees your kitten in your circle of friends, she will feel very interesting when you share the daily life of raising cats with her; When a girl sees the beautiful image photos sent by your circle of friends, if you share your experience in wearing with her, she will find it very interesting. When a girl thinks your career is very interesting (such as a counselor, singer, or self-media blogger), even if you are talking about daily work, that person will be very interested in listening. ......

Did you find out? Any other person's interest in you comes from what you show to the other person and your value and image in the other person's mind.

Your life is so dull that there is nothing to show each other. If the other person is not interested in you, why talk about "making chat interesting"?

Next, let's talk about a simple question that has never been paid attention to: the sense of singing in chat.

When your university professor is discussing the recent economic situation with the academic tyrants, a group of people can talk for more than an hour, but they are still unfinished; But if he gives you lessons, you will definitely play with your mobile phone in 10 minutes.

Many boys are not humorous when chatting, and there will always be replies of "Brother 666" and "Best Comment" below the speeches of Post Bar and Hupu. Many boys have no material to chat with, and they can vomit when drinking and chatting with their brothers. But if you let them chat with girls, they will die in a few words.

Is it a question of humor? Is there not enough chat topics? No, it's because the people you talk to don't sing. Your conversation will always be a chicken with a duck. As long as the other person opens his mouth, it must be a topic you don't understand. The best you can say is "Oh, that's good".

We need to know what topics girls talk about most often: constellations, gossip, recent film and television dramas, and beauty fashion.

If we want to communicate with each other on this topic, let's chat on the same frequency. It's actually quite simple. There is no need to learn from scratch. We can finish it soon.