What things would I rather rot in my stomach than tell others?

As the saying goes? Misfortune comes from the mouth? Sometimes, if you say a word carelessly, it will hurt people around you. If you say a word carelessly, it will set you on fire. If you don't say a word, it will expose your scheming intentionally or unintentionally.

You must know how to behave, right? Enough is enough? Do you want to know more? Speak with your feet? Never say anything you shouldn't say, even in front of the closest people, keep silent.

No matter how good the relationship between people is, the following words can't be said in the stomach.

1. Don't talk about your housework in front of outsiders.

As the saying goes? Wash your dirty clothes in public? There is a skeleton in the cupboard. It is normal to feel that you want to talk to someone about what happened at home and think about how much injustice you have suffered at home, but it is stupid to do so. Think about it, when you want to talk to someone, is this person reliable? Will he read your jokes, even if he sympathizes with you and comforts you? You may feel better after you say that, but the problem is still there, so you have to face it.

Each of us is a unique self, and no one can bear it for you. There is a good saying? It is difficult for an honest official to break housework? Others may not really understand your grievances and your tears after listening to your talk. Everyone will say words of comfort, but when you are wronged and sad, you want more than just words of comfort. No one else can give you what you want. On the contrary, friends you trust may not be worthy of your trust. Can you guarantee that what he said to you will never be told to anyone?

There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests. Maybe one day, your good friend turns against you, and you are worthless to him. He will tell others about your family affairs as a joke. What you said to him became a joke in the eyes of others and became his talk after dinner. At that time, you will feel very sorry, but it is too late to regret, and you can't take back what you said.

Don't talk about feelings that have passed, which will hurt people around you who love you.

Everyone has had an unforgettable first love. However, not all people can finally marry their first love. They will experience several times of love, one or several times of failed love, and then find their real home.

Don't mention your past feelings again, which can easily become a reason for others to accuse you of being immoral and unfaithful to love. There are also some public figures who make a fuss at the slightest sign of trouble. Your past has become the focus of attention, and people are habitually interested in this matter. Your past has been embellished by others and turned into a rumor.

It is said that human words are awesome, and it will affect your feelings if they are passed on to the people you love. A quiet life will be disrupted. Under normal circumstances, lovers are very sensitive to this kind of thing, not to mention listening to what they say, preferring to believe it rather than believe it. There is no room for sand in love's eyes. Love is selfish. No one can tolerate the person he loves. He had an unforgettable past with others and it is still broken.

Your partner will become suspicious, distrustful and suspicious, which will eventually lead to family discord and even divorce. Anyway, telling others about your past feelings won't do you any good in your later life. It will not only hurt the people around you who love you, but also affect your family and even the rest of your life.

Don't show off your wealth, and don't tell others about your earning money.

Be a low-key person. If you have money, don't show off your wealth and don't advertise everywhere. Even if you have a lot of money, you should live like an ordinary person. The richer you are, the more you must learn to pretend to be poor, otherwise your hard-earned money will be untenable.

Although most people hate and love the rich, if you live better than him, you will be envied. It is your ability to make money. Don't show off in front of others and don't make way for others at will. As the saying goes, some colleagues have different strengths. Others may not make money by doing what you think makes money. If people follow the path you pointed out and they make money, there is nothing you can do. If they don't make money, they blame you and blame you for profiting from it.

Be yourself, don't talk about other people's parents' shortcomings, right and wrong.

Other people's business, good or bad, has nothing to do with you. Don't judge others behind their backs. Even if it is an affair with others, don't say too much. Telling everyone will get you into trouble. Unless you are your best friend or relative, you can only talk to the parties, but you must pay attention to the ways and means, and don't do bad things with kindness. A really smart person, turning a blind eye to other people's affairs and letting it go, seems a little indifferent, but in fact he is protecting himself.

Don't expose other people's shortcomings. People often say that hitting people does not hit their faces, and swearing does not expose shortcomings. Exposing other people's shortcomings seems nothing, but it is actually a fatal blow to others. Don't talk about other people's physical defects. Psychological defects are hard to find, but physical defects are obvious. Never say it, it will make people embarrassed and cause psychological harm to people.

When you get along with others, you should know how to cover up your mistakes, protect the privacy of others, and also protect your privacy, not to mention asking about others' privacy. Some things are best not to know. The less you know, the better. Knowing too much is not a good thing, and it is easy to get burned.

Don't give others trouble? A crow's mouth, a gossip, a big horn? Wait, if you talk too much, you will lose. If you talk too little, you will do too much. This is the minimum truth of being a man, and it is also a kind of wisdom of being a man.