I am a poor student, my classmates don't like me, and my teacher satirizes me. What should I do?

I grew up in a cadre family in the army and lived a happy and carefree life. I don't know the purpose and significance of learning. In junior high school, although I was in the key class of ordinary schools, I was the worst student in the class. Really hated by classmates, often satirized by teachers, but still don't know how to work hard. When I was in high school, most of my classmates were admitted to key schools such as No.1 Middle School and No.3 Middle School, but I stayed in the original ordinary school. After the college entrance examination, most of the former junior high school students were admitted to universities and technical secondary schools, which was very enviable in the 1980s. However, I didn't go to school and could only work as a freezer operator in the fruit freezer. Three shifts, very hard. Whenever I work the night shift, I stand in the empty warehouse yard, always looking up at the starry sky alone, thinking that I can't spend my life like this. From then on, I began to study hard. Three years later, I was admitted to Radio and TV University, majoring in secretarial science for three years and studying full-time. Fall in love during school, return to the original unit after graduation, and then get married and have children (daughters). My life has not changed. At this time, I found myself reduced from a cadre's children to the bottom of society, with no money, no house, no backer and no background (parents don't care if they are in the local area), and the future was bleak. But my former junior high school classmates began to graduate and return to this city. Their jobs are enviable, including government officials, police, bank employees, doctors, nurses, teachers and so on. They all live a stable and decent life. At this time, the tide of reform and opening up swept through again, and some classmates and friends bravely made waves in the sea and became the first people to get rich first. Seeing that others live better than myself, I feel inferior to the extreme. The only thing I can do is to study and work hard. I taught myself knowledge of business management, marketing and financial management. In order to write first-hand good materials, I spent countless sleepless nights and gradually gained the appreciation of the leaders. Later, a vice president of the unit was transferred to a logistics company as the chairman and general manager, with me. I started at the grass-roots level, learning while doing, and taught myself modern logistics management, supply chain management, information management and other theoretical knowledge. He has gradually become the vice president of the group business with an annual salary of more than 100,000 yuan, and belongs to the high-income class in our third-tier cities. At the same time, I draw lessons from the past and strive to cultivate my daughter. My daughter lived up to expectations and was successfully admitted to 2 1 1 university. Look at my former junior high school classmates at this time. Most of them are intoxicated with their past achievements and are still marking time, but they are not as good as me in all aspects.

My life experience may enlighten you. Don't worry about your poor grades at present. Life is a marathon. As long as you make unremitting efforts, even if your talent is not as good as others, just like Forrest Gump, the winner is the one who runs farthest. Finally, let's borrow a classic line from the movie Forrest Gump-"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get."

I used to be a poor student. I take the initiative to make friends with my classmates with good academic performance. Many students gossip about me behind my back and say that I am an apple polisher. In addition, the class teacher once said that I was stupid ... the English teacher laughed at me because I got 59 points in the first exam and another student with the same name did better. Later, I asked her to raise her hand to speak, although she never asked me to answer. At that time, I was really fat and ugly, just like everyone said ... but I really didn't feel bad about myself. I am really not outstanding, but what does it matter? I am eager to be better and I am not afraid of being told. After so many years, junior high school students have long forgotten my appearance. I was a poor student, and later I went to a good high school and studied well. The college entrance examination was admitted to a good university (the third year of high school is really not as smart as the teacher said). I have a happy family, and those experiences only tempered my mind and made me not easily moved by gossip.

Because I have the same experience, I can especially understand your feelings, but I want to say that many people and things we have experienced are actually not important. Important things, you should not be influenced by others. No matter how poor you are, you should keep learning. The more you learn, the better. What those people say and do will become jokes, but if you give up on yourself, they will say, look.

Come on, be yourself, study hard, and everything else is just a cloud.

As the saying goes, the prodigal son never changes his money. If a person can realize that he is what others hate, it is fortunate that he will not let himself fall or sink, and he will be in a daze all his life. You realize this, and you have self-knowledge, then you have not lived in vain.

Let's talk about those things about poor students now, hoping to inspire and help you.

In the eyes of others, you become a poor student. What is the difference? Knowing this is the key, and you will have the goal and direction of change.

-poor students, in traditional terms, are poor academic performance. There are only two reasons for poor grades, one is the lack of learning ability caused by low IQ, and the other is the lack of hard work and lack of enthusiasm and interest in learning caused by learning attitude problems, thus pulling down the distance with classmates. If it is poor academic performance, I will first rule out the factors of your low IQ from your thinking and conclude that your current predicament is because you don't work hard. Put forward the following suggestions:

1. From now on, change your learning attitude, listen carefully in class, finish your homework on time, or ask your teachers and classmates if you can't.

2. If you are willing to endure hardships, you should study new lessons carefully, review the courses you have learned, find out the key points and difficulties, explain them to the teacher after class, or take part in one-on-one tutoring after class to catch up with your study.

The change of a person's learning attitude and his efforts after repentance are the premise of winning the respect and love of others.

-Poor study habits are also boring, and they are called poor students. The poor student's performance includes: not paying attention to hygiene, not pruning, being impolite, being late and leaving early, having no sense of time, being absent from class and so on. A person's inappropriate daily behavior can't make people around him feel happy, and it is inevitable that he will be rejected, ridiculed and even verbally attacked. I don't know if you belong to this category. If it is true, then learn how to deal with people, pay attention to hygiene habits, learn etiquette and so on, be punctual and trustworthy, be polite to people, take the initiative to say hello to people, and so on, to improve the status quo.

-Bad conduct is not only annoying, but also annoying from the heart.

A person's conduct is poor, even his relatives and friends will stay away from him. As a student, I can't be influenced by the teacher's education, and my conduct is not generally poor. If so, I will be alienated by my classmates and avoided by my teachers.

For example. There was once a child who not only made trouble in class, but also interfered with the study of his neighbors. He also borrowed things from his classmates many times and refused to return them. The classmates begged for them, and he also attracted the children to make trouble and beat and scold. Not convinced by the teacher's handling, he wrote the teacher's name on the roadside wall outside the school with chalk. How do students get along with such children, and how do teachers approach him for education? The classmate was too angry to speak, and he was eager to transfer to another school.

There is something wrong with conduct. If you want to change the status quo, you'd better transfer. Then correct it in the new school. No one knew you had so many bad records in the past. To tell the truth, a person with bad conduct suddenly wants to repent and turn over a new leaf, and it is a bit difficult to change others' views on him in the old place, because it takes a long time to eliminate the influence left before. During this time, for a repentant child, there will be gossip and pressure.

Students don't like it. In fact, this is not necessarily the true feeling of poor students. Many times it's just the poor students' self-feeling.

Whether students have poor grades or bad habits, the "dislike" between classmates is actually not that complicated. It's just like the unspoken "I'm too lazy to talk to you". At best, I just don't want to be affected by your interruption. In fact, there is no malice, just childish with the temperament of a child. Like-

I accidentally broke my pen between my deskmates, and the girl said, I will never talk to you again. The next day, my deskmate bought it for her and brought a bag of potato chips. The two made up again. Once one party knows it was wrong, repents, works hard, smiles apologetically and takes the initiative, can the other party still care about yesterday? Recognizing mistakes, correcting them and turning over today is a new beginning.

The teacher's "satire" is actually a kind of criticism that goes too far. Different roles, different moods, different perceptual abilities, and different understandings and feelings.

The teacher preaches, teaches and dispels doubts. They teach according to the individual needs of students, and there is no fixed teaching method, encouragement, criticism and punishment.

Ironically, in fact, the teacher criticized too much and the language was too harsh. The teacher's "satire" made the poor students very sad and felt that the teacher had humiliated them; Other poor students may be thinking: If I don't work hard, I will be next. ...

In my opinion, it is wrong for teachers to deliberately satirize students' behavior, and it is rare to simply attack irony. If there is "irony" perceived by students, I think there is a reason, probably because of the need for criticism. When caring education, such as heart-to-heart, encouragement, and incentives, fails to achieve results, there will be criticism, education, and punishment.

It is estimated that the topic must have been criticized by the teacher. The teacher's language is a bit harsh and feels like "satire" on himself. So this problem is put forward to find a solution. This shows that the subject has strong initiative and self-esteem. And the teacher's "satire" can just correspond to his characteristics. "Point is not as good as goading", is this an educational means for teachers to teach students in accordance with their aptitude?

Testimony: As the saying goes, immortals are also three points wrong. No one is perfect, and it is the greatest kindness for a person to correct his mistakes in the process of receiving education.

The following so-called students can learn from it. Self-confidence comes from oneself, and achievement is the second. If they are poor, they can be promoted again. Without self-confidence, the whole person is depressed!

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Courageous expression and self-motivation: 1. Encourage students to shine in the class. Since teaching, I have found that many students with poor academic performance have special skills in other disciplines such as art or scientific and technological inventions. As long as they grasp their own strengths and express themselves in a timely manner, self-confidence can be easily established. I remember a student who didn't talk much and was not tall. He always sits quietly in the corner, with only about 50 points in each exam. It doesn't matter to talk to her. Through understanding, I know that this classmate is timid and blushes whenever something happens. Before the exam, she always said that her poor review and lack of self-confidence affected her normal level. I happened to find that she was interested in painting, so I led her to preside over the blackboard newspaper of the class and participate in the art talent competition. This is great. Our class ranked first in the blackboard newspaper evaluation several times in a row, and won the prize in the small talent competition. Through a series of self-expression, she developed in the activities, established a beautiful self-image, and overcame her cowardice, nervousness and inferiority. Formed and developed self-confidence, and became a high school art special student three years later.

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Exercise independently and affirm yourself: middle school is an important growth stage for teenagers to change into young people. At this time, students' outlook on life is about to form, and they have their own views on everything. Maybe some are right, maybe some are wrong. But we should consciously cultivate their independent thinking ability, trust them and give them the opportunity to solve things independently. American educator Rhoda? Baker mestel said, "If we want our students to be confident, we must trust them." At school, give them more opportunities to practice. For example, the arrangement of cleaning week; Design of class meeting; Prepare literary and artistic publicity activities; Management and expenditure of class fees and so on. At home, let them participate more in the operation of family daily living expenses and understand the conditions and methods of independent living. When students experience the value of self from independent exercise, self-confidence comes into being. Half of self-confidence comes from yourself, so the self-confidence you give yourself is irreplaceable by anyone. Natural talent, natural talent will be useful. Only by affirming oneself first can one develop oneself step by step.

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Challenge yourself with appropriate goals: Some students lack self-confidence because they have too high unrealistic expectations of themselves. If you have a wish, you can't achieve it, but if you have a goal, you can't achieve it. This will undermine confidence again and again, and even anger others and hate society. In fact, as long as you lower your expectations, set your goals at your fingertips, step by step, and succeed several times, your mentality will change. For example, the English teacher in my class, in order to make the students confident to learn English well, she adopted the method of paired learning. The English level of the two students in pairs is quite the same, so that they set goals for each exam and compete with each other, so that their learning potential is tapped and their confidence is greatly increased. Not only that, but also learn to challenge yourself. If you make progress, you must change your opponents and make new pairs. Abandon any self-defeating factors, overcome your own weaknesses, set new goals, and gradually become stronger. Only through our own efforts to reach the expected level can we get good emotional feedback and be conducive to the establishment of self-confidence.

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Suffering from setbacks, proper attribution: people will inevitably encounter setbacks in their lives. Suffering setbacks properly can make people not discouraged by one or even several failures in their future work and life. Nowadays, teenagers are the darling of their parents, the darling of society and the lucky ones of the times. They have lived in endless care since childhood, and the word frustration seems difficult to understand. Failed to choose a course once, and asked to change classes; The teacher criticized a few more words in class and then skipped class; What's more, if you fail the exam, you will commit suicide and so on. In their view, these are great grievances and setbacks. In fact, we should understand that failures and setbacks are not terrible, but we can't face them correctly. For example; If you don't do well in the exam, you don't have to be discouraged and depressed. It is important to calmly analyze where you are wrong and why. If you haven't reviewed it yourself, just make it clear next time; If it is true that you have worked hard or failed, then you must never label yourself as "I am stupid". You can ask those students who have done the problem correctly, not only to learn from them how to solve the problem, but also to ask them to introduce the learning method. Only by bravely facing the problems that have happened, finding out the symptoms of the problems, that is, the reasons, and solving the problems, is frustration. Then, self-confidence will become stronger.

I have been a poor student since I was a child, especially in mathematics. I have passed a few times and my total score is in the bottom three. Being scolded by the teacher, my classmates certainly don't like me, that is, the kind of unpopular students. The university went to Canada to study, and my family scrimped and saved my tuition, but my studies couldn't keep up. I gave up after studying for less than two years. During this period, my roommate was a schoolmaster. We have known each other since childhood. He often tells me that "learning means making do with methods ..." I didn't listen and I couldn't learn. But I told him confidently, "study hard and I will invite you to work in our company in the future." Today, 20 years later, we have all become what we want. He is still working for others. 2 1 year-old started his own company. Junior high school teachers came to visit relatives in the United States and got together with me at Starbucks. He told me that it is useless to study hard, and it is difficult for students who study well to find jobs now ... I smiled faintly, but in fact, the story of the ugly duckling is like this. It was a fairy tale for hundreds of years, and it took me 20 years to become the protagonist.

I want to warn the parents of poor students not to be too hard on their children. Throughout the world, there are very few successful people with high academic qualifications. On the contrary, the world-famous poor students: Bill Gates and Steven Jobs, they changed the world. Who are the successful people who studied well and went to Tsinghua Peking University? Every poor student is a potential stock. Come on? ( ? )?

It is common for a poor student to be rejected by his classmates and satirized by his teacher.

A student with poor academic performance will not only fall behind himself, but also drag down the performance of the whole class.

If you are stupid because of your low IQ, you can forgive.

If you are smart but don't study hard, such people will definitely be looked down upon by classmates and teachers. It is normal to be hated by classmates and satirized by teachers.

A poor student who doesn't study hard is not only sorry for his parents, but also sorry for his classmates and teachers who have worked so hard to teach him. We should be ashamed of ourselves, and we should know that it is not an honor, but a shame to get poor grades because we don't work hard.

What you should do now is to find a way to change yourself. Change the understanding of learning objectives, change the habit of not studying hard and change the attitude towards others. Listen to the criticism of classmates and teachers with an open mind, study hard and strive for greater progress in a short time.

If you really change like this, even if your grades don't go up in a short time, your classmates will not dislike you any more, but will help you enthusiastically. The teacher will no longer be sarcastic, but will care about and love you. They did this because they saw your hope for progress. Know that you are no longer depressed, but working hard.

Therefore, if a person wants to change others' views on himself, he must first change himself.

I am a teacher. Listen to me.

Let me talk about the term "poor students" first. First of all, in school, poor grades are poor students. However, this does not mean that you are poor in other aspects. If you don't find your "specialty" outside your study, you have to look for it.

Secondly, talk about the reasons for poor grades. Some people think that their poor grades are due to their lack of intelligence. In fact, this is related to many aspects, such as a lot of old knowledge falling behind, the teacher's explanation is not in place, and no classmates help solve the problem. Therefore, don't give yourself the wrong label because of "poor grades".

Second, I think you are sensitive to the problem that your classmates dislike you. First of all, not all your classmates don't like you, but there are always well-meaning classmates, or some classmates don't like you, but it's not because of your poor grades, but maybe they just don't like you. If so, forget it, because you don't like your classmates, do you? Don't be too hard on yourself, everyone likes you. It is greed.

Third, it may be true that the teacher satirizes you. However, the teacher may not be so malicious in satirizing you. He may hate iron not to produce, and he is deliberately stimulating your desire to fight. However, this kind of provocation is not suitable for you.

After analyzing so much, there is only one sentence to sum up. Don't get caught up in your own subjective judgment. So, what should you do?

First of all, the general principle is that the class is a small society and you should have "value". If it is difficult to improve your grades in a short time, it is up to you to find other advantages.

Next, let's talk about achievements. The first is attitude. No one is born poor. Those students who are better than you must have spent a lot of time, energy and thinking. If you just stand in the mire, no one can save you, and your life depends on yourself.

Finally, talk about active learning. You can preview the progress of various subjects you may take next week on weekends. When you get to school, you should listen carefully and finish your homework in time after class. If you don't understand, find your own questions and answers. If not, you should ask your classmates. If you want to change your desire, you should go to the teacher.

Please believe in "God helps those who help themselves". As long as you act, people around you will help you. Well, take action when you see this answer! Stop staring!

Being able to ask such a question shows that the subject is a very motivated and self-respecting classmate. I appreciate your frankness. It's great that you can face yourself squarely. Let me talk to you about how to get yourself out of trouble.

First, poor academic performance does not mean denying you all, which requires your special attention.

In today's exam-oriented education, from family to school, from school to society, evaluating a student is often based on academic performance. As long as you get good grades, 100 is fine, but I strongly disagree with this evaluation mechanism. A student is just an identity, or a role. Can a person be a student all his life at school? Obviously not. Can every student get excellent grades? Obviously not. Not all the students are good at learning this matter. When you are not good at studying, you will not get good grades. Therefore, in the face of things that I am not good at, don't feel inferior first, let alone completely deny you, but think that my grades are not good, but I want to pursue a good personality.

Second, good character is really good, because it is related to your future life events.

Let me give you an example. My brother is a very clever boy, but he is not good at studying. He is very interested in learning. But he has a good personality, respects his parents and elders, respects his teachers and has a very good relationship with his classmates. He is particularly optimistic and open-minded all day, especially willing to help people in trouble. After junior high school, because of his good personality, a girl in the class especially liked him. She doesn't like students with poor academic performance either. As a result, I dropped out of school to work in the city as soon as we met, and then I got married. Until today, both husband and wife have a good life. My brother is also the village head, and the villagers especially support and respect him. Have you learned anything from this example?

Third, in some cases, some people may look down on you, but you should learn to face it calmly.

In the school environment, most teachers measure a person's ability by students' grades, so your poor grades will be laughed at by teachers. I have experienced this phenomenon in the past, and I got 0 in math. Later, I was ashamed and brave, and was admitted to the university. At that time, I had a vicious spirit, thinking that whoever looked down on me would prove to them that I was not a coward. The same is learning. I'm only temporarily behind, but that doesn't mean I'm always behind. As long as you stick to the castle peak and don't relax, you will prove yourself sooner or later. It's just that you have to accept the reality now, put those who look down on you behind you, put those gossips behind you and prove that you can learn well with practical actions.

Fourth, when you have really worked hard and your academic performance has not gone up, you might as well learn some skills.

A student will go out to the society one day and find his place in the society, whether it is employment or marriage, but you must have the ability to make a living. If you are really working hard now, but your academic performance is still poor, then face the phenomenon, don't blame others, and don't blame yourself. But now you should at least think about how I can use this opportunity to learn some skills. It happened that my grades were poor in those years, and I especially liked calligraphy and writing and reading. It never occurred to me that many years later, my major in college was completely useless, but I made a living by writing. Therefore, when I can't go to school, I must think about what career direction I want to choose in my life.

Fifth, those satires and sarcasm can only help you become a wise man and a strong-willed person.

In our society, whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs is not what others say. If you are particularly concerned about what others think and say about you, it is actually a sign that you lack your own opinions and lose yourself. I have experienced your moments of confusion. At that time, I chose to actively block criticism. When others laugh at me, I choose silence, but my mind is thinking about other things, such as designing my writing style or reading quietly alone. When those who ridicule you can't get your response, they lose the value of jokes, naturally become dull and boring, and finally leave or shut up in anger. Only silence and thinking are the most powerful weapons, so that others can't catch your sweet words.

Conclusion: To live your true self, you need to have your own clear life goals and constantly temper your mind, including your ability. When you argue with a villain, you will gradually become a villain. When you face the villain with your generosity, the villain will become more humble in front of you and naturally dare not despise you. Poor academic performance is nothing, as long as we have lofty aspirations and an indomitable heart.

I am a poor student, my classmates don't like me, and my teacher satirizes me. What should I do?

You are a poor student, good and bad are compared. Compared with others, you may have poor academic performance, but in other respects, you may not be bad, and you may be better than others in some respects. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Also, if you improve yourself, you are good. Knowing that your academic performance is poor, work hard and you will be better than before. Poor academic performance, all kinds of situations, as long as you work hard, that's good.

It's their fault that students don't like you. On the issue of academic performance, everyone wants to get good grades, but sometimes, it doesn't mean who wants to be better, which is determined by many factors, such as their acceptance and their memory.

The teacher satirizes you, and it is the teacher's fault. Teachers should try their best to help students with poor grades, but they should never satirize students. If a teacher satirizes those students with poor grades, then this teacher is definitely not a good teacher. Such a teacher will not be respected by students, even students with good grades will not be respected. This is the teacher's morality.

Poor academic performance, what should I do? What if I don't need it? Do your best. The road of life is very long. Who can guarantee himself and what will happen in the future? Let nature take its course and give play to your strengths. Maybe when you grow up, you will be very promising and enviable! Try to go your own way instead of asking others to say anything. I believe you will succeed in the future.

It is important to realize that you are a poor student; As for the students who don't like it, the teachers are cynical. These are small things.

Realizing that you are a poor student means that you are awake. I don't know what level of student you are now, primary school, junior high school, high school or university. I can't figure out where your "poor student" is, but you have reflected. This is your first step to change yourself! After awakening, we should analyze why we have become poor students and find out the reasons before we can take the second step; If it is because of fun or other human reasons, it is not too late to correct it immediately! If it is caused by objective reasons, that is, non-human reasons, then you should study hard the basic knowledge, develop your hobbies and specialties ... and use actions to reverse the views of your classmates and teachers. I forgot to read a sentence in any book, which means that successful people are not very smart!

Wish you success!