Psychology in Jokes

Family education was very good when I was a child. Every time I go out, I will shout at the top of my voice, Mom, I'm leaving. I'm not leaving until my mother answers. As a result, one day before my mother woke up, I shouted, mom, I'm leaving. No response. Keep shouting, mom, I'm leaving, and there's no response Then he shouted, mom, I'm leaving! My mother got up and rushed to the door. Come on, get out! I, down-to-earth walked. ...

What is your tutor?

For a child, tutoring means listening to parents. In the traditional culture of China, family education is very important. A person will be despised by his neighbors because of poor family education, and a family will be ashamed because of the lack of ethical rules for raising children. This is an era of managing society by ethics.

In Disciple's Rules, a lot of space is devoted to the code of conduct that a child should have in his daily life, when he gets along with his parents at home and when he gets along with others in society.

If every member of a family respects, cares and cares for each other, then many years later, children will internalize the rules from the family into their own personality and become their own life-long code of conduct.

We may tolerate children's "unruly" attitude. But for an adult, family education is particularly important. A well-educated person is not only the blessing of his family, but also the respect of his colleagues in the workplace.

The so-called tutor is not only the rules and principles in the growing environment, but also the self-discipline without supervision. The ancients said: the old are old, the young are young, and the young are young. In fact, this is the code of conduct of respecting the elderly and loving the young in the family, which extends to the society and treats strangers in the society with the interpersonal relationship model in the family. Regrettably, there is a phenomenon that old people queue up and block up, and old people abuse young people who have not given up their seats. This is actually caused by family education, which is really disappointing. These old people lived in that era, and it was the time when traditional ethics were overthrown. From the perspective of personality development, it is also the time to form a sense of rules. But in that era, all the ethics and rules were overthrown, thus forming their disapproval of politeness and contempt for respecting others. This is the performance of no tutor. Therefore, when a person wants to explain that he has a tutor, he must first look at what he has done without supervision.

The ancients emphasized caution and independence, which is a kind of cultivation of personal moral level and the highest realm of personal integrity and demeanor. Generally speaking, a person must abide by his own code of conduct when he is alone. This is a person's tutor.

Family education is accompanied by a person's life, and family education is a parent. Parents are children's best teachers and lifelong teachers. I wonder if the child in the article at that time, after being scolded by his mother for "rolling", would insist on such family education in the future and his own code of conduct of "telling everyone when going out"? Or will he use such dirty words and such insulting words to his children as an adult?

When I was in elementary school, a classmate's family was all overseas Chinese and came back from Canada. His behavior smacks of family education. He always keeps his desk very clean and tidy and his clothes are very straight. His exercise book will always be an example for the whole class to learn. A person's family education is not a grand thing that can be described in a chapter, but permeates the details of life.

Meng Mu's three major initiatives provided Mencius with a mentor: reading is the noblest thing in our family. It is precisely because of this family concept that a generation of great thinkers has been created. It can also be seen that what kind of people parents want their children to grow up will provide them with what kind of role models and what kind of growth environment. This is the essence of education!

Finally, I hope that the child in the article can abide by the belief of "not exceeding the moment" for life.