Don't make the relationship worse.

1. Think independently and don't gossip.

To judge whether a person is good or not, you should contact them yourself, and don't listen to others describe "people are red." Sometimes some false information is just lip service.

If you receive any information, you should filter it yourself. People who can't think independently will only listen to the wind and rain, and frogs in the well confuse right and wrong.

Learn to shut up.

As the saying goes, "learn to speak in ten years, but learn to shut up all your life." When you don't know what to say, don't speak faster than your brain. Try to be calm and restrained when you don't know who the other person is. No complaints, no gossip, no madness, no angry words. Misfortune comes from the mouth, and if you talk too much, you will lose. Words can hurt, but words can hurt. Before you joke, think about whether it will make people uncomfortable, or you will be the joke yourself.

Control your happiness.

In this world, except for parents and rare true friends, almost no one wants you to live well. The more you like to show off in front of others, the more annoying you are. You know, when a person is absolutely excellent, others can feel it. The better the teacher, the less you can wait for others. Most of them are incompetent people.

Keep mysterious

Don't tell your family, life experience and financial situation to people you just met.

On the one hand, others may not be interested in you; On the other hand, they should keep a good sense of mystery; On the other hand, they should keep a good sense of mystery. Psychology has also said that the charm of women lies in mystery. A woman with mystery is very attractive.

5. Accept your commonness

Learn to reconcile with yourself. Some people can't accept their commonness. It is difficult to attract real friends by disguising yourself by various means.

6. Don't complain as soon as the relationship is close.

People live all their lives, and when they are down and out, they sell badly. Crying about poverty can't solve the problem, and people around them will still be afraid of you. Who wants to be with negative energy every day?

7. Don't speak ill of others

Many people like gossip when they have nothing to do, and the speaker is not interested in listening. Maybe your front foot reached that person's ear after you finished speaking. This is a very harmful practice. Watch your mouth and know what to say on different occasions so as not to get yourself into trouble.

8. Be a listener

Get used to listening more and talking less, and be a listener. A person who puts himself first in everything is really disliked.