Why do people always say "less talk and no action" is better?

"If you are poor, you will talk less. If you have no money, you will manage three things." Do you know which three things are and which three words are enough? Does it make sense?

"People are poor and talk little":

1. Don't talk big: Old people often say, "If you don't have that Jin Gangzuan, don't take that porcelain job", which means to warn people not to talk nonsense, think highly of themselves, and never talk big in front of others and promise others things beyond their ability. Otherwise, once you fail to do other people's things, you will eventually make others question not only your ability, but also your ability.

Second, talk less about discouragement: What is discouragement? To put it simply, you were supposed to do something. Everyone was full of confidence and ready to do it well, but you suddenly stood up and said a few words of frustration and self-doubt, which made everyone's confidence suddenly fall to the bottom, leading to the final abortion. In fact, whether in the modern workplace or in the ancient battlefield, discouragement has always been a taboo and an obstacle to your success in life. Remember, be sure to say less or not.

Third, say less if you are not confident: self-confidence is the cornerstone of success, and there is no success without self-confidence. Some people lack self-confidence. When doing things, they always remind themselves and say, "I won't, I won't, I will think …". Strong psychological hints make them unable to break through themselves, and the final reward must be to stand still, never make progress, or even fail. Therefore. If you lack self-confidence, you might as well cheer yourself up in front of the mirror before going out every day and say to yourself, "Come on, you are the best!" "

"Don't worry about three things without money":

1. Pay little attention to decision-making: The decision in this sentence refers to what people have decided to implement. Never mind such a thing. There are many such examples in the workplace. Obviously, my level is not enough, but I always feel superior and should be taken seriously. They always want to participate in the decisions made by their superiors to show their abilities. Remember, they can't take care of them Otherwise, in the end,

Second, things that don't pay attention to feelings: Since ancient times, people involved in feelings, whether they are themselves or outsiders, have always been unclear. If you are alone, you are impulsive, and when you get angry, you will easily break up your relationship, meet other people's feelings, and even be unable to intervene. Once they are in power, whether they succeed or fail, they will eventually be people inside and outside. The ancients were still "loyal and honest", not to mention us ordinary people?

Third, do less meaningless things: in reality, there are too many meaningless things, and many people are very keen on it. They work tirelessly every day and waste a lot of precious time. You know, this time has passed in a hurry, and year after year has passed quickly. I suggest you do more meaningful things while you are young, such as reading more good books to enrich yourself.

"People are poor, talk little, have no money, and don't care much about three things", pointing to people's hearts. Although the words are rough, the reason is not rough. It presents the wisdom and experience of the ancients one by one, warning people to take fewer detours no matter how good or bad. I believe everyone has a steelyard in their heart. All we can do is "take the essence and discard the dross".