"Parents are like dragons, whoever they favor is from a poor family." Why do children who are favored do not live well when they grow up?

Because parental preference is a double-edged sword, proper pampering by parents can make children feel safe from an early age. However, in a family with many children, parents will only prefer a certain child and follow him in everything. Hold on to him, don't let him take responsibility for everything, and leave the good things to him. This type of preference allows children to be pampered since childhood, but loses many of the abilities they need to step out of society when they grow up. The reasons are as follows:

1. Only know how to accept but not know how to give

Children who are favored by their parents tend to develop a kind of attitude that only accepts but does not give. If you are used to it, you can enjoy this kind of treatment if you have parents' preference at home. However, if you go out into the society and join the work as an adult, if you still only want to ask for it and are unwilling to give, it will definitely be impossible. The workplace is a place where you pay attention to what you gain, and there is nothing in the sky. Pie thing.

2. Children who have been spoiled since childhood will not be able to endure hardships as adults

Children who are favored by their parents can easily get whatever they want at home since they were young. If they are not cultivated, they will not be able to endure hardship. It is a value that requires hard work to possess. As a result, when you grow up, you cannot persist in anything and always want to make money easily. If you don't see the harvest in one thing, you will turn to other things, which will easily lead to failure in everything.

3. No sense of responsibility and initiative

Children who are favored by their parents have been accustomed to being protected since childhood and have no sense of responsibility. They have always been in a passive state and have lost the sense of taking the initiative to strive for. Therefore, When I grow up and enter the workplace, I accept jobs very passively. My boss assigns me to do one thing after another, and occasionally makes excuses to push me aside. Any company that encounters such a person will not be able to use it for a long time, and will only be fired in the end. They will not reflect on themselves, but complain about the company's mistakes, and they will never achieve great success in their careers.

So the saying "Parents are like dragons, they prefer the poorer ones" is not a joke, but a real principle of life.